Flirting Body Language
How To Read Her Flirting Body Language
Have you ever been talking with a woman and wondered: "What
is she thinking? Is she attracted to me? How can I tell?"
Well, there are ways to tell.
And it has to do with reading her flirting body language.
A woman is an expert at self-control and controlling
her public image,
but she has certain "tells" or give-aways that
will show you what she's
really thinking. These come out in her flirting and sexual
body language.
Here are the top 3 I want you to watch out for:
Flirting Body Language 1) Her eyes.
Guys have a really tough time controlling their eyes.
I mean, think back to the last really hot woman you
were attracted to, and remember what an exercise in self-control
it was to keep your eyes above her neckline?
Well, here's the crazy thing: Even when you think you're
controlling your eyes, you're not. Your eyes make lots
of involuntary movements that you simply aren't aware
of.
These are called "saccades."
Humans - and even other animals - do not look at a scene
or a person in fixed steadiness. Instead, we're always
scanning around to the interesting parts as we create
a mental "map" in our mind of that scene.
There are short saccades and long ones, ranging from
200 milliseconds to a few tenths of a second.
We're more concerned with the long ones, since those
are the ones you can see.
Simply watch for eyes to move when she's looking at
you. She will - involuntarily - look at your hair, your
nose, your mouth, your chin, etc.
When she does, that's a body language signal that she's
exploring you visually and is paying attention to you.
You've got her interest.
Flirting Body Language 2) Her hands.
Hands are a wonderful thing. They tell much more about
how we're feeling than we want to let on.
The key to using this bit of flirting body language
is to find a point in the conversation (at least a few
minutes in) where you can secretly lock her hand in yours
for a second.
Let your grip be just loose enough that you can tell
if she responds.
If she does, it will be in one of 3 primary ways:
1) She grips your hand back.
Meaning: She digs you. Keep going.
2) She keeps her hand there, but without really gripping
yours.
Meaning: Non-committal. She's hesitant, but still a
possibility. Get back to wooing her.
3) You feel her pull away.
She's not into it. Let go
and back off for a bit until you can get things exciting
again.
Flirting Body Language 3) Her preening.
Preening is when a woman fixes her clothes, or straightens
her hair, or does anything that improves her appearance.
This is a dead giveaway in her body language signs that
she's in the process of trying to make herself more acceptable
and interesting to a possible mate.
You need to move forward and keep up your confidence.
And you need to keep up your own flirting body language
so that she detects the sexual charge in the conversation.
If you're interested in learning more tips about how
to read body language and know what a woman's flirting
body language is telling you - and what you might be
missing - then go read more:
CLICK HERE for more on how to read body language...
Your friend,
