Supreme Self-Confidence With Women
How To Ask A Girl For A Date
Jun 24th
If you are paralyzed by the thought of approaching a hot girl across the room and asking her out, you are not alone.
The first step in how to ask a girl for a date is to differentiate yourself from all the other yahoos out there. What do most guys say when they walk up to a girl?
“Hey. How’s it going?”
Boring. No wonder there is an awkward silence.
If you want to know how to aska girl for a date (and get a yes for an answer), you need to start thinking.
You need to figure out ways to be different, so you stand out from the masses that are approaching these beautiful women constantly. Even above-average women are approached all the time.
So, if you want to know how to ask a girl for a date, take a look at these ways to stand out.
1. Keeping your body so it is not facing her, walk over and ask the time. Then ask about her watch – or phone if she checks the phone for the time. Ask her where she got the phone or watch and so on. Then start teasing her, busting her balls.
For instance, you can say. “Is that one of those fake Rolex watches?” Do it with a sly smile and sense of humor so she knows you are not just being a jerk.
If she doesn’t have a watch or the time, then immediately start teasing her, busting her balls.
“Can’t afford a watch, huh?” Say this with a smile. “Sorry to hear that. I’m the CEO at IBM so maybe I can find you a job there? Do you know how to make coffee?”
If she starts getting pissy, bust her balls for that. If you want to be successful in how to ask a girl for a date, you need to immediately show you are confident and not putting her on a pedestal. You are showing that she has to prove herself just like any other girl.
Teasing also breaks through a woman’s defenses and establishes a level of trust. For instance, when you tease her, you are treating her like her big brother’s friend who has known her forever. The key is to never be a dick about it, but always do it lightheartedly with a smart-alec smile.
Don’t get me wrong, you can often initiate a conversation with a hey-how’s-it-going, but then you have to immediately go into something different. Otherwise, that awkward silence after she says “fine” will sink you. That is not how to ask a girl for a date.
Instead, you might say that you only have a few minutes before you need to head out to your new pad because you are the new bachelor on the TV show. Whatever funny smart alecky thing you can think of is better than a roaring silence.
This also shows you are different than every other guy who is giving her some lame line that hundreds of other guys have used on her.
How To Impress A Girl in 5 Easy Steps
Apr 21st
It’s ingrained in our genetics somehow – a need to know how to impress a girl. It started way back on the playground as a kid, and now you want to know the secrets.
You’re about to discover my 5 Easy Steps for how to impress a girl - and not look like a dork in the process.
How To Impress A Girl – Step 1: Don’t be a try-hard.
The try-hard is like that kid on the playground that would do ANYTHING to be your friend. He’d give you his lunch, compliment you, and hang around all the time. Basically, he’d drive you nuts.
Well, don’t be this kind of guy to a woman. You have to demonstrate clear boundaries, and self-respect, or she will just ignore you and never give you a chance. You want to work to impress her, but also show her with your attitudes and actions that you are not a guy that can be walked all over.
How To Impress A Girl – Step 2: Start with confident body language.
One of the most important steps in how to impress a woman is making sure that she knows you are an “Alpha.” She has to know that you’re the dominant male of the pack, and the best way to do this is to show consistently confident body language to her.
Most guys are too lazy with their body language, and they wind up looking more like a loafing dropout than a man of purpose.
Of course, the basics of confident body language are really all you need: Straight back, head upright, strong eye contact, and relaxed gestures. If you use those consistently, you’ll have no problem keeping a girl’s interest.
How To Impress A Girl – Step 3: Approach her directly.
When you walk up to a woman, you want her to know that you’re not a wuss. A wuss is the kind of guy that’s afraid to show his sexual interest in a woman, and as a result he comes off as insecure and wimpy.
As the saying goes, you have to be willing to break a few eggs to make an omelette. In learning how to impress a girl, you have to be willing to risk losing her in order to get her.
Don’t approach her with a “friends first” attitude. Even though you may have heard women say this, they do not mean that you should walk up to meet her as if you want to make her your friend. She needs to sense that you have a distinct masculine charge to you in order to even think about going out on a date with you.
How To Impress A Girl – Step 4: Be persistent.
One of the tests that a woman will use on a man (and there are many) is that she will do her best to discourage you JUST to see if you’ll be persistent and sincere with your attempts to get through to her. It might seem counter-intuitive, especially when most guys are immediately willing to meet a woman anytime and anywhere.
But the reality is that you represent a complication in her life – a risk of heartache. AND she gets approached all the time, so she has to see that you’re really motivated, and that you’re worth the risk. This is the one step in how to impress a girl that most guys don’t realize is the most important.
Never give up!
How To Impress A Girl – Step 5: Always leave her wanting more…
The secret to getting a woman’s interest – and really impressing her – is to leave her with a cliffhanger.
You’ve seen shows where they end it with a “to be continued” on the screen, right? And I’ll bet you can’t wait to see the conclusion. In fact, even if the show wasn’t all that great, you’ll still want to see it just because they left you hanging.
The same is true for women.
If you want to guarantee another date or meeting with a woman, end your time with her on a high-note, and leave her wanting to know more about you. It’s the simplest – and most effective way to impress a woman that you can use.
And if you want respect and attraction from any woman in your life, you need to know the stealth strategies that trigger a woman’s primitive desires. Because when you have confidence with women, you can say anything to her and she will feel attracted to you, respond to you – and respect you.
I’ve got a new free CD you can get right now that will give you the girlfriend you want – without any compromise or pain.
Go get your free CD here: How To Flirt And Talk To Women Free CD
Talk soon…
Wishing you confidence and success with women – With HONOR and integrity.
PS: You might be reading this right now, just happy to be entertained with the information I’m sharing. But I want more than this for you.
I want you to get REAL results with women.
Stop pretending everything is “fine.”
Stop walking away from situations that make you nervous – like approaching a woman, or asking her out.
Stop letting the outside world stop you from being the man you want to be…
Really, the time for denial and mediocrity is over.
Make a decision that today is the day things will change forever for you.
Go here now and learn how to make that change:
Attract Women – The 5 Secret Strategies
Mar 29th
The most important part of learning how to attract women is understanding how women work. Please notice that I did not say how women “think.” One of the biggest mistakes guys make is to try to understand what’s going on inside a woman’s mind as if this will unlock all of her behavior.
Women work on EMOTIONAL logic. This is not the same as the kind of logic that most men use, which is why we’re always baffled and find ourselves wondering, “What do women want?”
What you’re about to discover here are the five most powerful secret strategies for attracting women that you can use that most men will never learn.
Attract Women – Strategy 1: Command her attention.
Most guys will approach a woman in a very weak and approval seeking way. As a man, we have to command her attention from the very first second we lock eyes on her. Doing any less will practically guarantee you’ll never get her attention – or her attraction.
The big mistake men make is to be too indirect, and try to “sneak in” the back door of being her friend first. You must be direct – showing confident body language in your approach, grabbing her attention from the very start.
Attract Women – Strategy 2: Don’t be grabby.
Again, most guys try to touch or handle women in the wrong way when they approach women or want to meet women. You have to observe the physical boundary of a woman and respect her “personal bubble.”
The only touch you need to make should be a brief touch on her arm – for just a second – as you open the conversation. No lingering contact or groping in any way. The rule with touch is that the less you know her, the briefer your contact must be. Too much too soon will obliterate her interest and attraction for you.
Attract Women – Strategy 3: Be swift and decisive.
This might sound like a rule from Sun Tzu, but it’s especially effective when you discover how to attract a woman. You can’t appear as if you don’t know what it is you want.
You approach her as if you know she’s a woman you want to get to know. You also have to move quickly and open a conversation with her so that she doesn’t sense you waiting around. There’s nothing more unattractive than watching a guy fight to work up his courage to do something.
Actually, there is something more unattractive – watching him lose that fight and walk away defeated.
So be swift and approach her without waiting. You don’t want her to think you aren’t confident, and you don’t want to give yourself a chance to back out.
Attract Women – Strategy 4: Don’t be too eager.
Women can sense how “in demand” you are by your attitude. Needy guys just give off this reeking odor of insecurity and scarcity that will repel women almost instantly.
Think about it this way: Those men that have all the women that they want – how do they act? How do these guys behave around other women?
That’s right – like it’s no big deal.
So whenever you catch yourself feeling that needy, over-attentive, desperately seeking attention vibe, you have to cut it out immediately.
Attract Women – Strategy 5: Don’t be afraid to get help.
Something we guys don’t do well is seek out help from others when we’re struggling. It’s our male ego, and it can really get in the way. Foolish pride has kept the best of us from discovering the hidden strategies.
It’s tempting to fall victim to the myth that guys should just “know” how to attract women intuitively. But that is just a myth that can condemn you to a life of scarcity and struggle when it comes to being successful with women.
Take the time to get the tips and techniques that will help you attract any women you desire – without becoming a manipulative jerk in the process.
How To Talk To Women
Jan 28th
How to Talk To Women Without “Losing It”
Hey, I’ve just got a quick note for you today on a subject that a lot of guys are curious about: How to talk to women.
There’s a lot of cool information I teach you, from routines to openers, conversation bridges, all kinds of great stuff to inject into your interactions with women.
But in almost every single one-on-one coaching (and in hundreds of emails I get every day), one concern stands out more than any other.
It’s usually this: “How do I do this stuff when I’m in-person with a woman? Face to face? I need to know how to talk to women.”
This is what I call the “Real-Time” problem. You can learn a ton of great information off-line, but when you’re in Real-Time, it’s tough to be “on” and creative, isn’t it?
I don’t know if you’ve ever had this problem, but when I was first learning these skills, I’d do a massive amount of preparation, memorizing a bunch of phrases and stuff. This was what I needed to get up the nerve for how to talk to women.
I’d finally get past my approach anxiety and start talking with a woman.
– “Hey, my name is Carlos…”
And after I got the conversation started – WHAM.
I’d get nervous when I couldn’t remember any of the stuff I’d memorized.
– Do I say that thing about “who lies more”? Or do I tease her? What was that great teasing line I thought of the other day…? Uhm… Ahhhggg… Errr…. Damn!
I mean, I thought I knew it cold when I left the house, but between then and now I totally lost it.
And I’d stand there like a deer in the headlights, no idea what to say to her.
(Insert uncomfortable pause here…)
You thought you were all prepared after reading all my cool advice and tips, but now you’re sitting in that uncomfortable silence while she stares at you, waiting for SOMETHING to come out of your mouth.
Finally she says, “Uh, I gotta get back to my friends…”
And then, as she’s walking away, and you’re kicking yourself…
You suddenly come up with the PERFECT thing you should have said.
AAAAAAAHHHHH! Too late.
Ever had that happen to you?
Well, let’s conquer this problem once and for all.
ENTER THE “SITUATIONAL REHEARSAL…”
Here’s a technique I used to use to make sure I was really prepared to USE all the cool stuff I had memorized when learning how to talk to women.
*** CAUTION: I’m not advising you to learn and rehearse someone else’s words! You should ONLY be coming up with things of your own that are TRUE to talk with women about. No fake stories or lying. You don’t need to make stuff up or use someone else’s words to be interesting to women. ***
You see, I found out that just sitting at home on my couch reading this stuff on my computer wasn’t enough. I had to practice some of the things out loud.
But even that was not enough, so I tried something a little different and off the wall.
And it worked like a champ!
*** Here’s my technique for being prepared and NOT losing it in front of a woman… ***
I’m assuming that you’ve walked up and said “Hi” or some other opener to get the conversation started. I’ve taught you plenty of methods in these newsletters, and you can find more in my Approach Women NOW program.
And, as you know, it’s not what you open with that’s important, but what you say NEXT that will make the difference.
But how do you keep it going with all the stuff you want to talk about?
Here’s what you do first…
How to talk to women – STEP 1: CREATE YOUR OWN BRIDGE
A conversational bridge is a way of bringing up a topic that you want to steer the conversation towards.
Let’s say you know you want to talk about your passions and interests with a woman, and you’ve thought of a great way to bring it up and talk about it. And, let’s say your passion is photography.
You have a couple ways you could bring it up in conversation, like:
“You know, I was just thinking as I’m looking at you that you would make a fantastic subject for photography. Have you ever thought about doing a sitting?”
(Note that I did NOT use any corny lines about “you should be a model.”)
You could also bring it up without focusing on her by saying:
“I was out scouting locations for some photos today. The light here is really fantastic for bringing out skin tones and eye color. Isn’t it great?”
(I don’t have time to cover it here, but showing this kind of “vision” of the world is VERY at-tractive to women.)
Okay, so now we’ve got a couple ways to bring up our interests in conversation, without bragging AND at the same time communicating to a woman that you’ve got a hobby in your life that brings out your passion.
Maybe you’ve got some great questions to ask, and things to say that you think of when you’re at home, but now you need to have it ready all the time, like a loaded gun.
You want to be able to come up with this when you’re out and about, but you find yourself constantly forgetting it when the pressure is on.
Here’s your next step…
How to talk to women – STEP 2: ENGAGE YOUR MODALITIES
Modalities are simply your senses. Sight, smell, hearing, taste, and touch.
The more of your senses you use, the quicker things are embedded in your mind.
So you want to spend some time before you go out writing these words down, whether it’s the questions you want to ask, or just a list of topics you want to bring up in conversation.
This will engage your “kinesthetic” modality.
Then you want to spend some time saying the words out loud. This will help you rehearse and say things smoothly, and it also engages your “auditory” modality.
And you also want to spend some time reviewing things on paper. Read and re-read the phrases and information you want to commit to memory. This will engage your “visual” modality.
But even this is not enough for most of us. You need ONE extra simple step to make this work, and it’s something that not many guys know about.
I’ve got a special method that increases your results about 1000%.
You need to…
How to talk to women – STEP 3: ENGAGE “SITUATIONAL REHEARSAL” TECHNIQUE
Back when I was in high school, I used to have a good method of learning material I needed for tests. You probably did, too.
I would cram all my notes on a piece of paper with facts, writing stuff everywhere, and in every direction. On the margins, sideways, whatever.
Then, when it came time to study for a test on dates and names and memorized facts, I would just sit down with the page and cover up sections with my hand and try to recall the information.
Well, we all did this in some way or another with our notes. What you don’t realize is that you weren’t learning the information as much as you were learning WHERE that information was on the paper.
You got locked into recalling the information based on WHERE it was, not WHAT it was.
So when you get a fact or information that you can’t see on a piece of paper, you would forget it fast. (Which it’s so easy to forget names. We’re not paying attention to it enough the first time, and there’s nothing to anchor it in our heads.)
That’s right, it wasn’t the information you were learning as much as giving your brain a LOCATION for that information. It’s called “spatial relationship,” and it’s how your mind stores information. It’s more important to give a RELATIONSHIP to the information to make it stick.
Like right now, if you close your eyes, chances are you can recall where almost everything is in your bedroom, or another room in your apartment that you are very familiar with.
So here’s how you use this “Situational Rehearsal” technique. It’s based on the way your brain really learns.
And you’ll get at least 10 times better retention and recall of information if you use it…
In my previous example, you came up with a great way to talk about photography, your passion. And you came up with a great way to actually SAY it to a woman. You may even have some of my “Power Questions” that you want to memorize to use.
Now you have to practice recalling these things in MANY different locations, and in many different situations.
You would want to do stuff like:
- Recall and recite the words when you’re in the shower.
- Call your home voicemail and recite it back as a message.
This one is great. It will put you “on the spot” – AND it will give you a chance to review how you said it later. You can do this with your cell phone voicemail, too.
- Recall and recite when you’re driving in the car.
- Recall the words when you’re watching a television show, as if you’re saying it to the people on the screen.
- Recall and recite when you’re out on a city street. (Just whisper it so that people don’t think you’re crazy.)
But if you REALLY want to improve by leaps and bounds in your inner and outer game of conversation, here’s a KILLER bonus technique:
- Put a bluetooth headset on (or any cell phone earpiece so it looks like you’re talking on your phone). Then, go out and recite what it is you’re memorizing when you’re out in public on a city street or in a store.
Don’t worry, other people will just assume you’re talking to someone on your cell phone. But this method will help you get over your fear of looking foolish in front of other people.
AND it gives you a killer rehearsal for saying it in front of a woman. You get your shyness out of the way, and you build confidence in the process.
(I used to do this all the time, and make up some pretty crazy conversations to see if I could get people around me to listen in. “He hit the cop with a baseball bat??? No WAY!” Try it sometime… it’s better than prank phone calling.)
The point of this is that you must get out there and put yourself in as many DIFFERENT situations where you have to recall the information you’re trying to memorize.
The more situations you find to rehearse in, the better you’ll be when it counts – in front of a woman.
By using my technique, you activate millions more neurons in your brain, which commits the words DEEP into your memory. And then this helps you pull out the words when you really need to, and you won’t have any of those embarrassing gaps and silences in your conversations with women.
And if you want to get the complete roadmap of how to go from home alone to how to meet and attract the sexy girlfriend of your dreams, then you need to learn how to talk to women with my home study program. It’s fast, easy, and guaranteed to get you from no women to wherever you want to be in just a few weeks.
Date as many women as you want – for as long as YOU want.
It’s up to you…
Go download your copy here: How to Talk To Women – FAST & EASY
Talk soon…
Wishing you confidence and success with women – With HONOR and integrity.
PS: You might be reading this right now, just happy to be entertained with the information I’m sharing. But I want more than this for you.
I want you to get REAL results with women.
Stop pretending everything is “fine.”
Stop walking away from situations that make you nervous – like approaching a woman, or asking her out.
Stop letting the outside world stop you from being the man you want to be…
Really, the time for denial and mediocrity is over.
Make a decision that today is the day things will change forever for you.
Go here now and learn how to make that change:
How To Flirt With Women – 3 Secret Tips
Dec 29th
One thing that a lot of guys complain about is that they feel intimidated by learning how to flirt with women in public places. It’s certainly understandable, since we feel in the spotlight when you’re out during the day and you just want to meet women that catch your eye.
So I’m going to share 3 secrets of how to flirt with women. These are dating tips you can use to make it much easier to flirt with women that you meet anywhere you go.
How To Flirt With Women – Tip 1: They want you to win.
A lot of guys don’t approach women during the day because they’re afraid of what other people would think about what they’re doing. It’s easy to be embarrassed in advance of actually flirting with women, but you can’t let that stop you from doing what you need to – even if you think that everyone is watching you.
Let me tell you this from years of research and surveys of how to flirt with women: Almost every single person who sees a guy approaching or about to flirt with a woman is secretly rooting for you to pull it off and succeed.
The simple fact is that most people are so absorbed in their own life, they don’t even notice when you’re practicing how to flirt with women. And the ones that do notice don’t care at all.
How To Flirt With Women – Tip 2: Start with nothing.
If you’re wondering about what to say when you’re trying to figure out how to flirt with women, here’s a rule that works in 99% of the situations you will find yourself in: If you just make a comment about the situation you’re in – whether that’s a coffee shop, or a grocery store freezer section, or whatever – if you just make a comment about what you’re doing as a way to open the conversation, that’s all you need.
For example, let’s say you’re getting your morning Starbucks, and you’re in line next to a tall Swedish girl with legs all the way to her neck. The easiest way for how to flirt with women in this way would be to just ask her what her favorite roast or variety is.
And if she doesn’t respond immediately, you have to understand that it has nothing to do with you. Women walk around all day up in their heads, so you may have to persist to break her out of her shell.
How To Flirt With Women – Tip 3: To the victor goes the spoils.
The ultimate determinant of whether you’ll be successful in learning how to flirt with women is very simple. It’s the ability to feel the fear and do it anyways! The simple truth is that most guys will never motivate themselves to approach and talk to a woman under any situation. They’re just too chicken to do it. They let their emotions get in the way of the results.
It’s the same thing for any field, really. In weight training, the guy that gets results is the one that goes to the gym, pays his dues with a little sweat, and doesn’t let his laziness or his negative emotions stop him from doing what he must to succeed.
The same is true of learning how to flirt with women. The easiest way to get results is to just DO SOMETHING, but most men will simply talk themselves out of it.
This should be a relief to you. After all, that means that the playing field is much smaller than you might have thought. Less than 1 in 10 guys will ever act on their desire and discover how to flirt with women. That means that if you just DO IT, you’ll already beat 90% of all the guys out there.
Do it regularly and you’ll also find that your problem changes from how to flirt with women to: finding free time during your busy week of dating women.
And if you want respect and attraction from any woman in your life, you need to know the stealth strategies that trigger a woman’s primitive desires. Because when you have confidence with women, you can say anything to her and she will feel attracted to you, respond to you – and respect you.
I’ve got a new free CD you can get right now that will give you the girlfriend you want – without any compromise or pain.
Go get your free CD here: How To Flirt And Talk To Women Free CD
Talk soon…
Wishing you confidence and success with women – With HONOR and integrity.
Carlos Xuma
PS: You might be reading this right now, just happy to be entertained with the information I’m sharing. But I want more than this for you.
I want you to get REAL results with women.
Stop pretending everything is “fine.”
Stop walking away from situations that make you nervous – like approaching a woman, or asking her out.
Stop letting the outside world stop you from being the man you want to be…
Really, the time for denial and mediocrity is over.
Make a decision that today is the day things will change forever for you.
Go here now and learn how to make that change:
Dating Tips For Guys – Touch Tactics
Nov 15th
One of the key areas of dating tips for guys that is very important is to break through the “Touch Barrier” with women.
The “Touch Barrier” is simply the initial physical contact you have with a woman. Unfortunately, it’s something that most guys delay for far too long. The longer you wait to break the touch barrier, the less likely you are to get attraction started with a woman.
In fact, most guys end up going into the “Friends Zone” with women simply because they never touched her when they first met. It really is a critical success factor in any approach, and it cannot be overlooked.
Human beings respond to touch in very consistent ways, and women especially. Hormones are released when people touch each other – and the one hormone that matters the most is Oxytocin.
Oxytocin is often called the “hug drug” because it’s stimulated by physical touch with another person. (Even pets, too, which is why they have those programs where they bring in pets to retirement homes as a form of therapy.) Oxytocin evokes feelings of contentment, reductions in anxiety, and feelings of calmness and security around a mate. Or even a potential mate.
So it’s of the utmost importance that you get to physical touch within the first 2 minutes of meeting a woman. The easiest way is to touch her WHEN YOU APPROACH and open the conversation. It’s a good way to get her attention, and it immediately sets the right tone for the interaction. You want her to know – instinctively – that you are a confident MAN, and this is not a “neutral” conversation. It has sexual tension and charge to it.
Another way to touch is to joke with her about something like this: “You like Syrah wine? Great taste! High five…” And then give her a quick high five.
By the way – the worst thing to do is start out “friends first.” Any woman that tells you that she needs to be friends before lovers and this the way she wants to start a sexual relationship is unintentionally misleading you. What she’s really saying is that she wants to be able to TRUST you first.
Big difference.
Here are some simple dating tips for guys about breaking the Touch Barrier with a woman:
Dating Tips for Guys: Touch Tactic 1) Don’t make the touch too much.
Touch her on the shoulder or arm. Maybe on her back when you’re passing her in a crowded environment.
You don’t want her to feel like she’s being groped, so keep it very light. Also, steer clear of any parts of her body that would be sensitive to her, like her neck or hips. The safe zone is her arms and center of her back.
Dating Tips for Guys: Touch Tactic 2) Don’t draw attention to your touch.
You never want to look at your hand or where you’re touching her, or make too big of a deal of the touch. Just make sure you follow up with something to say to her so she can be distracted by what you’re saying to her.
If you don’t follow up the touch immediately with something to say, it just seems odd – and a little creepy.
Dating Tips for Guys: Touch Tactic 3) Don’t make your touch too long.
Again, this goes with the first dating tips for guys tactic number one. You want to be very brief and only touch her for a second or two at most. If you leave your hand on her for too long, she’ll be uncomfortable and want to pull away. And if you do that in the initial approach, you’re going to be in a really bad situation.
Touch can also be used in the first few minutes to emphasize a point or establish a connection when both of you laugh. This is particularly effective in social environments.
So just remember that women need to be touched quickly and confidently when you first meet them. This triggers instinctual responses in her that tell her that you are a sexual man, and that she should forget about the “friends zone” with you.
And if you want respect and attraction from any woman in your life, you need to know the body language secrets of men and women. Because when you have powerful Alpha Body Language with women, you can say anything to her and she will feel attracted to you, respond to you – and respect you.
I’ve got a new free CD you can get right now that will give you the body language that women pay attention to.
Go get your free CD here: Badass Body Language – Get Your Free CD
Talk soon…
Wishing you confidence and success with women – With HONOR and integrity.
Carlos Xuma
PS: You might be reading this right now, just happy to be entertained with the information I’m sharing. But I want more than this for you.
I want you to get REAL results with women.
Stop pretending everything is “fine.”
Stop walking away from situations that make you nervous – like approaching a woman, or asking her out.
Stop letting the outside world stop you from being the man you want to be…
Really, the time for denial and mediocrity is over.
Make a decision that today is the day things will change forever for you.
Go here now and learn how to make that change:
Best Pickup Lines To Meet Women
Nov 2nd
I’m sure you’ve been in a bar and wished you had something to say to that cute little blonde woman. But when you got up, your mind went blank, your legs got weak, and your stomach clenched up. You wish you just knew what to say to her. The ‘right’ thing to say to her.
Men are always looking for the best pickup lines. After all, a pickup line is the key to getting a conversation started with a woman, right? And if you have the BEST pickup lines to use, you’re probably the guy that’s going to win.
WRONG.
Let’s face it, most pickup lines are really cheesy. Ever heard one like this: “Wow, I’m calling heaven, because I think they just lost an angel.”
The best pickup lines are actually the ones that don’t seem like a pickup line at all. And I’m going to reveal the 3 best pickup lines I know to you right now, including how they work so that you don’t need to use them anymore. (I’ll explain how that works, too.)
First of all, remember that a pickup line does not get a conversation started – or anything else for that matter. A line is simply a bunch of words that you COULD say to a woman. Whether or not you actually work up the courage to approach a woman and say something is much more important than the clever pickup line you just learned.
World’s Best Pickup Lines #1: Quick observation
What do I mean by “quick observation”? Simple – you just notice something about her to either A) lightly compliment, or B) make a casual comment about.
For example: “I just noticed your dress. You’ve got great fashion sense!”
Why it works: Women are always intrigued when a man has insight into her appearance. Most guys compliment on her beauty, which is what every other guy does, so that’s why this stands out so much better.
And if you still have problems walking up to women – you feel that fear of rejection, that anxiety of approaching women – then you need to get rock-solid confidence with women. Because when you have confidence with women, you can say anything to her and she will respond to you – and respect you.
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Wishing you confidence and success with women – With HONOR and integrity.
Carlos Xuma
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I want you to get REAL results with women.
Stop pretending everything is “fine.”
Stop walking away from situations that make you nervous – like approaching a woman, or asking her out.
Stop letting the outside world stop you from being the man you want to be…
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How to Get A Girls Number
Oct 25th
One of the most common questions guys ask is, “I want to know how to get a girls number?”
Well, we all know there’s a simple answer: You ASK for it.
But what most guys are REALLY asking is: “How do I get a girls number without being afraid of rejection – or being turned down?”
There are 3 secret steps for to how to get a girls number. If you follow these, you’ll have NO problem in getting her number.
Oh, and a little side benefit here is that you’ll also avoid her Flaking out on you later on. Ever call up a number a woman gave you and get “The number you have reached….” No more of that.
How to get a girls number – Step 1) Nuke her fear…
The one thing a woman is leery of when men approach her is that the interaction will get weird – or even creepy. She’s just as afraid of things getting awkward as you are, and that should be a relief for you to hear. That means you’re not the only one with a little nervousness going on.
So one thing you can do to alleviate that fear she has is to not appear needy or like you’re just trying to pick up on her. Yes, you want to seem interested in her as a woman, but you don’t want to appear to be in it for just the personal gain.
The easiest way to do this is just to end by STARTING to walk away.
“Hey, it was cool talking to you…”
Then you START to turn away. This leads us to the next step.
How to get a girls number – Step 2) Make it attractive for her…
Just after you start to turn away, you turn BACK to her and say: “You know what? You seem pretty fun. We might want to re-connect sometime.”
What that technique of turning away then back does is establish that what I’m suggesting is almost an afterthought, meaning low-key. Laid back. No pressure.
It also establishes that she impressed you. “You seem pretty fun!” Which puts YOU in the control seat right from the start.
And it offers up something that sounds attractive to a woman – “re-connecting.” Women are motivated to focus on relationships and connections with people more than anything else, so the thought of re-connecting is especially powerful for her.
How to get a girls number – Step 3) Never ASK for the number.
A lot of guys are wishy-washy and they do the “scared salesman close”: “Uhm… do you… uh… think you might want to give me your number so I could call you sometime… maybe… if it’s not too much trouble…?”
That’s totally weak. You must simply TELL her what you want.
“Give me your phone number – so we can continue this conversation sometime.” Pull out your cell phone and just wait for her to give it to you.
It’s that simple. And by telling her why, you’ve even removed any possible questions she might have had in her head about why.
Remember that women want you to be confident enough for BOTH you and her. She’s looking to YOU to determine how she should feel about the interaction. Your confidence will spill over to her – letting her know that she can feel safe with you, and you’re going to be the MAN – the one with the initiative to fulfill all those romantic fantasies of hers.
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Talk soon…
Wishing you confidence and success with women – With HONOR and integrity.
Carlos Xuma
PS: You might be reading this right now, just happy to be entertained with the information I’m sharing. But I want more than this for you.
I want you to get REAL results with women.
Stop pretending everything is “fine.”
Stop walking away from situations that make you nervous – like approaching a woman, or asking her out.
Stop letting the outside world stop you from being the man you want to be…
Really, the time for denial and mediocrity is over.
Make a decision that today is the day things will change forever for you.
Go here now and learn how to make that change:
How to Flirt with Women: 3 Mistakes Men Make that Kill Attraction Dead
Oct 18th
There’s a secret for how to flirt with women that most guys don’t know about – and I’m going to reveal it here. You could call it a hidden ingredient for flirting with women that gets overlooked about 90 percent of the time.
First of all, when you discover how to flirt with women, you realize that it’s not about pickup lines or seduction techniques – or any of that. It’s about something that guys give a lot of lip service to, but don’t focus on nearly enough. Stay with me and I’ll reveal what that something is.
3 Mistakes Guys Make When Learning How To Flirt With Women.
How to flirt with women – Mistake 1: Complimenting a woman’s looks.
The first thing I see a lot of guys go for is the flattery angle when they try to flirt with women. The unfortunate part is that this tactic does work, but not when it’s done carelessly.
The best thing to compliment a woman on is her appearance, but not on the parts that come naturally to her. The things she was given – her looks or genetic traits – don’t feel earned. Better is to compliment her on her CHOICE in appearance. The easiest way to do this is to compliment her on her clothes or jewelry.
You see, her appearance is something that she had to consciously think about and choose, and compliments you make about this are felt far more deeply. Women are looking for validation – as everyone is. But when you’re validated on something that you can’t control, such as her appearance and looks, it doesn’t resonate.
Remember that when you want to know how to flirt with women, you have to target the areas that she is most likely to respond to.
How to flirt with women – Mistake 2: Flirt without being obvious or relying on words.
Again, most guys think that a woman is only listening to what he’s saying when he walks up, and that she will believe what he says. The guys who are the best at meeting women know that what you say is just about the least important thing when you discover how to flirt with women.
Women are actually keying in on a bunch of signals from you, including your body language, tonality, and eye contact. All of these things are much more important than the words you say. In fact, whem men focus too much on words, they actually turn women off because they become ten times more obvious by saying it instead of hinting at it with their body language.
No matter what you say, women know immediately when you’re hitting on them.
How to flirt with women – Mistake 3: Not being GENUINE.
If you haven’t figured it out by now, the hidden ingredient for how to flirt with women is really simple: it’s sincerity. It’s your authenticity and willingness to just be yourself. It’s because this is what she needs to know in order to trust you and feel safe around you.
The big mistake that most guys make is to try to hide their interest in a woman, and hide their sexuality in the process. This is what kills attraction for women because they sense a man who is not in harmony with himself. He will seem like he’s trying to be deceptive, even when he’s doing what he thinks the woman wants.
Or, if he’s not honest about his interest, she will think he’s “just friends” material, and that kills attraction right away. Not to mention that converting a woman from a friend into more is ten times harder than if you jsut did it right in the first place.
When you try to keep your sexual interest hidden, she will also sense that you’ve got a hidden agenda.
And that feels plain sneaky.
The real source of attraction is always in the power of uncertainty with a woman, while being true to yourself. When she feels your power as a man, and doesn’t know where she stands with you, that leaves the door wide open for romance when you’re learning how to flirt with women.
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Talk soon…
Wishing you confidence and success with women – with no tricks or deception. NATURAL Attraction!
PS: You might be reading this right now, just happy to be entertained with the information I’m sharing. But I want more than this for you.
I want you to get REAL results with women.
Stop pretending everything is “fine.”
Stop walking away from situations that make you nervous – like approaching a woman, or asking her out.
Stop letting the outside world prevent you from being the man you want to be…
The time for denial and mediocrity is over.
Make a decision that today is the day things will change forever for you as you get this part of your life under control right NOW.
Go here now and learn how to get what you want – and deserve:
