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FLIRTING WITH WOMEN

Flirting with women is something that seems like more of a "woman's game" sometimes.

You see a woman somewhere that you'd like to meet and flirt with…

But what do you do?

Read my latest Dating Tips for Men on Flirting With Women

You'll learn my 3 step method for flirting effectively, and the secret reason that women like to think "flirt" while guys think "pickup…"

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Flirting with Women Article

Hey Carlos

This is not the normal question that you get I assume, but I didn't know who to turn to to get advice.

The thing is that I have absolutely no friends and I don't really have much of a social life. It's not that people don't like me, on the contrary, people do like me a lot, but I just don't feel like I have anything to offer. I guess I could get a social life by getting a few hobbies or something.

The thing is thought, how do I make friends that I can hang out with? It was probably back in grade school that I last hung out with someone in my leisure time (I'm 19 and just finished high school).

I just don't know what to talk about with other guys, I kinda missed out on this for so many years so many guys are just more confident, cool and masculine in many ways. I hope it's not to late to change that. It maybe sounds silly but I really don't know what guys do when they hang out and what t talk about.

Thanks
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CARLOS XUMA ANSWERS:

Well, this is actually a question I get all the time, believe it or not. There are a lot of guys who have not fully developed their "social muscle."

And you're still in a great place to get yourself social, so have no fear.

Step 1: Get out of the house.

You'll never get social by sitting at home, so start by just going out – alone if you have to.

Sign up for parties. Go to art shows. Go to any and every event you can find.

Sign up for dance classes.

But make sure you're getting out at least a couple (2-3 nights/days) per week.

Your full-time job while you're on this search is to find friends.

What would you do if this was your paying job and you needed to find people to work with?

It's always a question of motivation. Find your motivation and kick your own ass out the door.

You're going to need to be your own drill instructor and get tough with yourself.

No TV.

No sitting at home reading books.

No surfing the net and hanging in chat rooms.

I'm sure you're probably waiting for "Step 2" in this process, but if you just do Step 1, you won't need a Step 2. Everything comes from that one starting point.

It's slow to get going, but once you do, it's like an avalanche.

And make sure you understand the essence of Power Social Skills, too.

Comment on this post if you'd like more on this topic in my upcoming videos and newsletters…

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i've done a lot of sarging and sometimes as ridiculous as it may seen i fear that the store OR SUPERMARKET might send the cops on me (for harassing female customers mind you it's never happened )

c what do you think?
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CARLOS XUMA ANSWERS:

Is this in the United States, or abroad?

I can tell you that – outside of some FREAK incident – this simply won't happen in the U.S. if you are doing the right things and not harassing women. This is an important distinction.

You have to have the awareness and social conscience enough to realize the difference between good social interaction and being a pest.

It's also important to get rid of your paranoia on this or you might suffer long term effects to your game. It's unfortunate, but America fosters this "fear of strangers" and paranoia. We live in a fear culture.

Look, if the woman isn't complaining, then the store won't either. It looks VERY bad when the police show up at a place of business. They don't want that kind of negative publicity.

It's interesting that guys are petrified of the prospect of being "caught" or "found out" when meeting women.

That was one of my secret fears about talking to women in the day…

Take a look at more of the things I used to think were holding me back here:

How to Attract a Girl – Approaching Beautiful Women