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	<title>Comments on: Do Girls Have it Easy?</title>
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		<title>By: David</title>
		<link>http://www.carlosxuma.com/dating-tips-for-guys-blog/2008/09/do-girls-have-it-easy/comment-page-1/#comment-527</link>
		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Sep 2008 16:41:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m always amazed when I see this stuff. Have a friend that is hot and she takes advantage of men all the time. Whenever she goes to a bar/club she never has to buy a drink. Drinks just start showing up.

Personally, I feel it is shallow of her to accept a drink from a stranger (she will usually thank them), but then I&#039;ve never been in a situation where the opposite sex just starts sending me beers....

I have never bought a stranger a drink but whenever I&#039;m in a group I never let a woman pay - something my mom taught me. A typical wuss characteristic...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#039;m always amazed when I see this stuff. Have a friend that is hot and she takes advantage of men all the time. Whenever she goes to a bar/club she never has to buy a drink. Drinks just start showing up.</p>
<p>Personally, I feel it is shallow of her to accept a drink from a stranger (she will usually thank them), but then I&#039;ve never been in a situation where the opposite sex just starts sending me beers&#8230;.</p>
<p>I have never bought a stranger a drink but whenever I&#039;m in a group I never let a woman pay &#8211; something my mom taught me. A typical wuss characteristic&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: fred</title>
		<link>http://www.carlosxuma.com/dating-tips-for-guys-blog/2008/09/do-girls-have-it-easy/comment-page-1/#comment-526</link>
		<dc:creator>fred</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Sep 2008 16:14:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>how about plain guy vs. sexy guy.
Do sexy guys receive special treatment from women?!
It&#039;s not fuck&#039;n fair.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>how about plain guy vs. sexy guy.<br />
Do sexy guys receive special treatment from women?!<br />
It&#039;s not fuck&#039;n fair.</p>
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		<title>By: Blame</title>
		<link>http://www.carlosxuma.com/dating-tips-for-guys-blog/2008/09/do-girls-have-it-easy/comment-page-1/#comment-525</link>
		<dc:creator>Blame</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2008 11:29:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m slightly surprised about this video. Normally I would assume that beautiful women get what they want without so much seduction and convincing on the women&#039;s side.

(Seeing how much talking she needed before she got her stuff instead of some guy just randomly handing it over to her through an approach)

Well, I&#039;ll be more honest with myself. Normally if a sexy woman approaches me like that I would have a slight defense up like most men here (I shouldn&#039;t give strangers any sh**) but if it&#039;s a simple favor like carrying her stuff a short way, or something then I might fall for that trap (I mean anything that doesn&#039;t involve monetary value). Maybe I&#039;m just being polite, but I won&#039;t feel as repulsive with helping this person if it&#039;s a beautiful woman compared to helping just a random &quot;not so beautiful woman&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#039;m slightly surprised about this video. Normally I would assume that beautiful women get what they want without so much seduction and convincing on the women&#039;s side.</p>
<p>(Seeing how much talking she needed before she got her stuff instead of some guy just randomly handing it over to her through an approach)</p>
<p>Well, I&#039;ll be more honest with myself. Normally if a sexy woman approaches me like that I would have a slight defense up like most men here (I shouldn&#039;t give strangers any sh**) but if it&#039;s a simple favor like carrying her stuff a short way, or something then I might fall for that trap (I mean anything that doesn&#039;t involve monetary value). Maybe I&#039;m just being polite, but I won&#039;t feel as repulsive with helping this person if it&#039;s a beautiful woman compared to helping just a random &#034;not so beautiful woman&#034;</p>
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		<title>By: Jyto</title>
		<link>http://www.carlosxuma.com/dating-tips-for-guys-blog/2008/09/do-girls-have-it-easy/comment-page-1/#comment-524</link>
		<dc:creator>Jyto</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2008 09:32:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hahaha, I thought the video was hilarious, and then I read the comments by people discussing it with deep thought and I kind of felt bad.

Yeah, good looking women get approached ALL the time, so it&#039;s good to set yourself apart by not being just another kiss ass.  I don&#039;t want to say try harder, I&#039;d almost go with try less.  Just have confidence and treat her like you would anyone else.  Or at least try to, I might actually still end up getting locked up and saying &quot;I LOVE YOU HERE TAKE MY CAR&quot; rather loudly, so it&#039;s not like I&#039;m one to talk.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hahaha, I thought the video was hilarious, and then I read the comments by people discussing it with deep thought and I kind of felt bad.</p>
<p>Yeah, good looking women get approached ALL the time, so it&#039;s good to set yourself apart by not being just another kiss ass.  I don&#039;t want to say try harder, I&#039;d almost go with try less.  Just have confidence and treat her like you would anyone else.  Or at least try to, I might actually still end up getting locked up and saying &#034;I LOVE YOU HERE TAKE MY CAR&#034; rather loudly, so it&#039;s not like I&#039;m one to talk.</p>
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		<title>By: Justin</title>
		<link>http://www.carlosxuma.com/dating-tips-for-guys-blog/2008/09/do-girls-have-it-easy/comment-page-1/#comment-523</link>
		<dc:creator>Justin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2008 22:51:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>She&#039;s hot regardless</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>She&#039;s hot regardless</p>
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		<title>By: Mike Serovey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mike Serovey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2008 21:58:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I thought that Tristen still looked good while being plain, but better while trying to look sexy. It is amazing what a pretty woman can get away with! I agree with the others that it is a bad idea to try to buy your way into a woman&#039;s favor. I will spend money on someone that I have a good relationship with but not on a stranger.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I thought that Tristen still looked good while being plain, but better while trying to look sexy. It is amazing what a pretty woman can get away with! I agree with the others that it is a bad idea to try to buy your way into a woman&#039;s favor. I will spend money on someone that I have a good relationship with but not on a stranger.</p>
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		<title>By: The Rover</title>
		<link>http://www.carlosxuma.com/dating-tips-for-guys-blog/2008/09/do-girls-have-it-easy/comment-page-1/#comment-521</link>
		<dc:creator>The Rover</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2008 21:01:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The outcome of this experiment is not too surprising.

I would have to say that it is a bad idea for men to give women things of monetary value without really knowing them.  It just implies that you are giving her something to get something in return.  If it is someone you know and you are picking up the bill with no other motivation than to move on to the next location or activity it probably is not really a problem.  But if you are buying or giving things in the hope of impressing or trading to ultimately get sex, then you look like a fool.

At first glance it may appear that pretty women have it easy, but imagine the stress of always having loser guys trying to buy and impress their way into your pants.  This probably gets tiring pretty quickly.  It also probably impacts your self esteem as it implies that people will only do things for you because of your looks instead of what type of person you are.

Buying or giving to impress is just bad, bad, bad!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The outcome of this experiment is not too surprising.</p>
<p>I would have to say that it is a bad idea for men to give women things of monetary value without really knowing them.  It just implies that you are giving her something to get something in return.  If it is someone you know and you are picking up the bill with no other motivation than to move on to the next location or activity it probably is not really a problem.  But if you are buying or giving things in the hope of impressing or trading to ultimately get sex, then you look like a fool.</p>
<p>At first glance it may appear that pretty women have it easy, but imagine the stress of always having loser guys trying to buy and impress their way into your pants.  This probably gets tiring pretty quickly.  It also probably impacts your self esteem as it implies that people will only do things for you because of your looks instead of what type of person you are.</p>
<p>Buying or giving to impress is just bad, bad, bad!</p>
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		<title>By: Neil Gendreau</title>
		<link>http://www.carlosxuma.com/dating-tips-for-guys-blog/2008/09/do-girls-have-it-easy/comment-page-1/#comment-520</link>
		<dc:creator>Neil Gendreau</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2008 20:52:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is no surprise at all, but explains exactly why all beautiful women are a pain in the ass - because they expect everything handed to them on a silver platter.

So the moral of the story is one of role reversal - Don&#039;t be easy!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is no surprise at all, but explains exactly why all beautiful women are a pain in the ass &#8211; because they expect everything handed to them on a silver platter.</p>
<p>So the moral of the story is one of role reversal &#8211; Don&#039;t be easy!</p>
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