Heey Carlos,
First of all, you're the man. Thanks for your motivating stuff. If your ever are in the Netherlands call me and i give you a tour…
But I have a problem right now:
I am getting succes with your program and went out last saturday to test it.
I met a girl, a young one, 19 years old (im 24). I danced with her, kissed her and SHE asked me my telephone number. We exchanged numbers and i thought it all was going well. I gave her a kiss goodbye.
The next day she text me that she had really fun and want to meet me again SOON. So i replied that I also had fun en want to see her next Monday. She replied that she like the idea. So all went well I thought..Sunday night she text me: "What are you doing? XX".
I replied nothing because it was very late and i was sleeping and must work the next day…..
Monday morning I tried to call her, but no answer…I tried again in the afternoon, still no answer. In the evening i send her a message with the text: "Are you scared of meet me"
I send this because she was a little insecure saturday…
Now it's tuesday and she haven't replie anything…. I think it's very strange, she even gave her msn adress and add me..
I don't know what the problem is, maybe… you know the answer….
Many thanks Carlos,
Sincerely yours,
Robert E.
The Netherlands
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CARLOS XUMA ANSWERS:
I hear you. This is always strange – and slightly disappointing.
But shame on you for putting so much hope and focus on ONE woman. You must have gotten a little attached.
Ask yourself, what would an Alpha do? (WWAD?)
First of all, you should already have had a clear time and place to meet her on Monday night. You shouldn't need to call her again.
Second, you don't ever text insecure messages to a woman.
ONLY text her fun and playful texts. I know you might think you were being playful, but that message did not pull her closer. In fact it probably pushed her away.
Drop her for a couple days, then CALL her and act like nothing happened. Line up dates for the rest of your week. (Never count on just one woman to fill your calendar.)
If she doesn't call you back, she's clearly a flake. You can keep calling her, but you must mentally reduce her to LOW status in your line-up.
Yes, it's just like pro sports, my friend. She's either a performer, or a bench warmer. You can't make a great athlete; you can only give them a chance to shine.
Remember, a woman's state is momentary and fleeting.
And ESPECIALLY a 19 year old. Right? 
Good luck…
- CX
