Carlos Xuma's Dating Tips for Guys

I pulled this letter from my friend F.J. Sharks’ group because I thought it brought up an interesting point.

I’d love to hear your comments on this post:

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Pulled out the Red Queen for lunch today…almost done but hadn’t looked at it in awhile…

I bought it and The Selfish Gene at the same time…its a much better read (Selfish Gene is VERY clinical – it’s interesting, but probably not for most…I imagine it will take months to finish)

Anyway, was just finishing a chapter about testoserone, the womb, boys vs girls and the author made a great point about feminists – on the one hand, their rally cry is “equality for all”, but then the flip side is that feminists claim that if women were in charge, there would be no wars, no starvation, etc.

Doesn’t that by it’s very definition mean feminists think women are DIFFERENT then MEN…

Where’s the EQUALITY in that?

Bring that up at your next cocktail party…

Carp
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CARLOS XUMA COMMENTS:

Well, I think we’d all agree that men and women are NOT equal in terms of capacity, we do need to be equal in places where gender is irrelevant. Keep in mind that “different” suggests inequality, but is not the same thing. Two people CAN be different – and equal.

Equality is ALWAYS subjective. I hate to say it, but one of the most well-meaning but inaccurate statements is that “all men are created equal.” We’re all very UN-equal in talents and skills, but that’s where we can each leverage our strengths to balance things out. But I digress…

But even more important, I suggest you DON’T bring these topics up at a cocktail party. (Yes, I know Carp was just carping, but hear me out…)

Sometimes guys get really tempted to flaunt their knowledge of the “game” and how things “really” work with women.

BAD idea.

The guys that I know that are the most socially successful can keep this information under their hats and JUST use it to their advantage without having to make sure other people know that they’re A) angry about it, or B) more right about it than other people.

It’s just a little trap I’ve seen out there that snares a lot of well-meaning men.

Keep your knowledge of how attraction works between men and women to yourself as much as you can. Share it with a buddy, but keep it on the down-low…

- Carlos Xuma
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WHAT DO YOU THINK??

 

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