You may not have seen all the comments on the last post I did on the 3 Essential Alpha Male Traits, but the responses I got from everyone were fantastic…
I even got a great response from a woman who – get this – has all my books…
Be careful, Aimee… with great power comes great responsibility…! 
Here's her post, and it's worth repeating:
As a woman, I can tell you that Meme can try to convince herself that she is different and unpredictable. Women definitely want an Alpha Male! I had a nice guy come to sit at my table last night, where I was seated alone (a brave move for a nice guy). I went to get another drink and ended up being away from him for about 20 minutes. He was still sitting in the same position politely waiting for me when I returned. Think he got my number?! NOPE!
Hey Carlos, do men want an Alpha Female? I have your books, and I am definitely working with some A-Game (Aimee-Game, baby)! I even have the straight ladies trying to pick me up! Haha. And, I only go for men that will come up to me without hesitation and show me what there made of. Then, they have to step it up and see if their game can entice a girl who already has game and can predict what's next to come!
-Aimee
CARLOS XUMA RESPONDS:
Absolutely. Right on.
I can't say anything to improve that, so I'm shutting up right… NOW.
- CX
the "lady" above is severely insecure. even if she gave him her number, he would soon find out and eventually cheat on her or dump her outright. i'm willing to make a bet with all of you that this girl has never held down a single long term relationship (2+years)
Comment by kingofnyct — January 28, 2009 @ 6:10 pm
Severely insecure, eh? What brings you to that conclusion?! Is it that I, like you, read Carlos's books and blogs?! Knowledge is power. I'm willing to try new things in order to lead an exciting life. Dating multiple men and not putting all of my eggs in one basket makes for an exciting life. And, my last relationship lasted for 9 years.
Sounds to me like your the insecure one. You're upset because I didn't give a loser who had balls enough to ask me to sit down but not enough game to seal the deal. Apparently you're the one, dear friend, that has been getting turned down a lot lately! Anyone want to wager on that?
Comment by Aimee — January 29, 2009 @ 8:05 am