Well, now that the launch craziness is over for Ultimate Inner Game, I can get back into sending you some of the other weekly tidbits that I run across from day to day.

(By the way, if you haven't seen it, today is the last day of the launch special for Ultimate Inner Game. You can find more information out here: Ultimate Inner Game )

Here's an interesting article I saw that I'd share with you. This is advice for women, but having this kind of intel always helps us, doesn't it?

And while the advice is simple and cut-throat, I have to admire them for not giving advice for trying to change the guy. That's even worse…

The advice is really simple: if a person isn't what you want, you need to move on.

ABUNDANCE – Not scarcity.

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Women: Five Men You Should Avoid Dating

The Mamma's Boy
This guy probably lives with his mother, if not close enough for her to pop in for tea (every night). She will have helped him pick out his decor and there will be photos of her all over his apartment. He goes for Sunday dinner and has several cartons of homemade meals in the refrigerator that mom made for him.

Why you should stay away: You will never live up to his mother and although he will love and cherish you forever he will take his mother's side every time.

How to get rid of him: Tell him you don't like his mother

The Body Builder
This guy will have photos of himself on every available space, along with his own home gym (even though he has a life time membership at the swanky one in town). He has all the latest gadgets and home entertainment systems.

Why you should stay away: You will never see him as he is always down at the gym. He will spend more time in the bathroom then you. He collects trophies and likes one hanging off his arm.

How to get rid of him: Tell him to give up the gym for you.

The Womanizer
This guy will treat you like a princess and is the perfect lover. He dresses well and is out to impress and impress he will (every woman he comes in contact with). He will, of course, have trouble remembering your name, with all the women he has on the go.

Why You should stay away: His excuses for not showing up are getting more pathetic. You will have to compete with his phone as he has so many calls to return and text messages to answer.

How to get rid of him: Tell him, "I use to be a man."

The Workaholic
This man is going places, but will he be taking you with him? He is smartly dressed, has great taste in decor and eats at the finest restaurants. However, his work will always come first.

Why you should stay away: You have to make an appointment to see him. He will take you to elegant dinner parties then leave you with strangers while he talks shop.

How to get rid of him: Tell him, "I’m taking a year off to travel. Do you want to come?"

Your College Lecturer
He is probably older than you, more worldly and gets you a good grade.

Why you should stay away: If anyone found out about you, they would say you slept your way to better grades. Plus, he would lose his job and possibly his teaching position.

How to get rid of him: Tell him somebody is blackmailing you and if you don’t stop seeing him, they are going to report you.

Of course, there are exceptions. For example, if "the body builder" knows how to give you the same type of attention he gives his body then this could potentially be a good thing (as long as you can handle other women trying to pick up on him). And if you are a workaholic that has no plans of changing then being in a relationship with another workaholic will allow the two of you to focus more on your careers while hopefully having some focus left for each other. If "mamma's boy" mom loves you and you can get the same focus from the man as his mom gives then just maybe… it's a stretch. Remember, it's doubtful any of these men will change so it's best not to try and change them.

A good approach to take in wanting out of one of these relationships is to be honest. This may gain more respect. Tell "mamma's boy" that he's too focused on his mom. Tell the womanizer that you only have room in your life for a man that only has room for you. It's doubtful that they'll change, but at least they'll know the real reason you don't want to pursue a relationship.

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CARLOS XUMA COMMENTS:

What do you think?

I think they're missing out on a bunch of other people to avoid.

What kind of women should men avoid?

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Special thanks to our gal-pal CJ who shared this interesting article

she found on the internet.

For those of you who read "Sperm Wars" or "The Selfish Gene" and
want to know more about the evolutionary psychology of our
species….

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The more a woman has sex with her partner, the more committed she
becomes, and the less attracted she is to other men — at least in the
short-term. I blogged about this study several weeks ago and offered
explanations both hormonal and psychological. But another theory came to
my attention today in the form of a study on fruit flies.

For decades, scientists have known that female Drosophila refuse sex for
a period of time after they come into contact with seminal fluid. This
may give a reproductive edge to the first male with whom a female has
sex. A study led by Geoffrey Findlay at the University of Washington has
finally shed some light on the phenomenon. Turns out there are proteins
in seminal fluid, many of which transfer to the female’s system after
sex.

Some of these proteins are warrior-like — they fight the sperm of
rival males. Other proteins are like hypnotists — by affecting the
female’s hormones, they dampen her interest in having sex with other
males. Somewhat disturbingly, the more semen a female is exposed to, the
more influence the male has over her reproductive tract and her mating
behavior. Semen, it seems, has mind control properties.

So what does this mean for humans?