QUESTION FROM A READER ON FACEBOOK:
Love all the emails about the techniques with women Carlos, its help me get rid of my old wuss ways no end, though its something i find you have to keep working at as its easy to slip back to the dark side.
One question about a personal issue i have with bad mannered people. In the past i used to let people get away with bad manners but my new alpha male wont allow it.
Whats your take on old male friends (schooldays) who add you on Facebook, so i send a courteous message asking how there getting on and don't even reply. A women I'd delete no hesitation, do you think the same rules apply with men.
By the way i dont want to date men lol, its just a respect/good mannered thing I have. Whats your take?
Keep up the good work
Regards
A.N.
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CARLOS XUMA RESPONDS:
Don't take "no response" too seriously, my friend.
Old friends are typically trying to reconnect, but have little time to do so if they have their own families. It's not really "rude" even if WE interpret it this way. It's not rude to them because they don't see themselves as doing anything wrong.
Don't work too hard to interpret people's INACTION as something against you.
People have a tendency to interpret ignoring as a deliberate act against us, which it really isn't.
I wouldn't even bother "removing" someone as a friend. It doesn't get noticed, and it doesn't really make much of a difference. It also can seem a bit petty. Better to leave them and reconnect later on.
Just add them, initiate, and expect nothing in return.
Then go on finding their hot friends you can connect with and date… 
- Carlos Xuma
