Carlos Xuma's Dating Tips for Guys

Yo Carlos,

I've been on your newsletters for quite some time now and I must admit it is quite the material I was looking for, specially the one's that teach how to bust on women's balls. I have been using your tips in practice since, till I was nearly speechless today. I was at the beach just chilling with the lads, playing the alpha way. Till my eyes set their sights on this stunning young girl, who was sitting alone under her little umbrella.

I was looking at her from a distance to see if she was really alone, till she turned and our eyes finally met, she smiled. I could tell she was lonely and so made my move towards her.

I approached her slowly with a slight grin over my face

me: ooo you naughty girl!
her: ( surprised ) why am I a naughty girl?
me: one can tell from that two piece your wearing, you got naughty written all over you ( wink )
her: I see, do you like naughty girls?
me: maybe, if she knows how to behave herself ( evil grin )
her: well I could behave myself, but what if I don't? ( wink )
*I wasn't so sure what to say so I wrapped it up*
me: Listen, I gotta go ( point at my mates ) so we'll have to continue this conversation some other time, you got email?
her: yea

I hand her the pen and tell her to wirte it one my hand, when she was half way through writing her email I tell her to write her number below it as well, and she does
And when I am about to leave she catches my hand and says " I didn't even tell you my name " and draws Gemma over my hand with a few kisses.

Have you got any advice for me on what I should have said or done then and if there are any improvements that I could make on my strategy.

Cheers.
Al
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CARLOS XUMA COMMENTS:

Let's see…

• You went in confidently.

• You teased her gently.
• You controlled the interaction.
• You got her name and phone and email.
• You obviously got attraction started.

This is a classic textbook approach. I wouldn't change a thing.

Well, maybe ONE thing you can do in the future…

Don't leave until you're in danger of killing the attraction. You should keep locking in a higher and higher level of attraction until she's begging you to take her away…

That's called "progressive escalation."

You want her remembering you for weeks and waiting on your call. Sometimes a 2 minute approach will be forgotten in 10.

If you want more information on how to keep this kind of energy going after the approach, read more here: http://www.realdaygame.com

I just got this article from an Alpha Brother:

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Japan 'Herbivore Men' Abstain From Sex, Business Careers

As a result of Japan's languishing economy, a growing population of young adult males is deeming themselves "herbivores" and pursuing a radically different lifestyle than traditionally expected, Reuters reports. Herbivores derive their name from their disinterest in flesh–or the pursuit of women–and, according to a survey cited by Reuters, are a growing population of rebels who have no wish to follow in the corporate footsteps of their fathers.

"Since I was a child, I hated people telling me, 'Behave like a man'," said Roshinante, who runs a forum on popular Japanese social network site Mixi for frank discussion about herbivores.

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Carlos Xuma Comments:

Yeah, okay, Rosh. Just because you can't handle BEING a man, you drop out in a big way.

Look, I encourage and admire the people who think different, but let's be honest here. This group sounds like an excuse to go out and cut your johnson off and have a crying party. These guys should go out and get their first box of Tampax.

Puh-lease.

The reality is that I admire any group of people that recognizes that consumerism and mindless working for "the man" is not the way. Bravo for that.

But turning yourself into a wussy that can't handle women is not being a "rebel." Put one of these guys in a tough spot and he'd crumble like a wet taco.

The good news is that this group will be extinct in just a few years because they're not procreating.

Don't kid yourself into thinking that you're making a big "statement" here, boys. The only thing you're advertising is your own poor dating skills and desire to look pasty and unhappy.

Oh, and someone please tell me what "frank discussion about herbivores" is all about…? Is there something really shocking about them that most people are afraid to talk about? Gimme a break.

Feel free to share your flames and comments on this below…

Thanks to John for sending this in… It's hysterical…

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