Carlos Xuma's Dating Tips for Guys

Carlos Xuma answers: What really attracts women?

Men being MEN.

REAL Alpha Masculine Men.

And I'm not talking about the dated, 1950's version of men where we must be stoic and aloof and removed. What the "Alpha Man" (my term) is – as opposed to the 'alpha male' – a scientific term – is this:

1) The Alpha Man is confident in his own skin and demonstrates his inner masculine power…

This flies in the face of most of the feminist stuff you've heard over the years – or maybe you've misinterpreted from the skewed images in magazines and movies, and bad television sit-coms.

Let's face it, men are portrayed as either buffoons who need a woman to save him from his own crude, belching dumbness, or men are shown as killing machines with a bloodthirsty violent character.

As it happens, neither is what most men are.

And right now, we're just confused. THAT is what I help men cut through and clarify: Their own Alpha Masculine Identity.

2) The Alpha Man is modern and 'sensing…'

Note that I did not say "sensitive." Women have often said that they want a man that is sensitive, but what they really mean is sensitive TO HER. This is a man that is modern and in-touch with his own emotions, and he does not let those emotions RULE him.

He owns himself, and commands respect by his self-control.

And by "modern," I mean that he is a Renaissance man – educated and worldly. A man who no longer fears the risk of living his life with passion.

3) The Alpha Man is successful with women – and in every area of his life…

Ultimately, every man will measure himself by his own success with women – it's only natural. But when it's a pursuit of women to fill the hole inside himself, and it becomes an obsession, then there needs to be a course correction.

Women are most attracted to the men that are on the path to pursuing their own ambitions and goals – not women for the sake of relieving his own insecurities.

These are just a few of the areas I cover in teaching men how to attract and date beautiful QUALITY women. Guys don't need the drama and games – we just want the power to attract the women we desire.

And the way to do that is to be the Alpha Man.

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