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Hey, man… I have something for you from my good buddy Dean Cortez…

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It's your wingman Dean here. I'm sure you're
looking to meet a hot girl this weekend when
you go out…

But do you know the #1 PROBLEM that guys run
into when they're talking to girls?

I'm talking about the #1 SEX STOPPER that
prevents guys from taking a girl home…

It has nothing to do with lacking money, or
not being handsome enough. The #1 factor that
causes women to REJECT MEN can be boiled down
into one simple sentence…

He does not communicate to her that he is an
ALPHA MALE.

He might buy her drinks, and say some funny
things, and be polite…

But he is not tapping into his INNER ALPHA
MALE and showing her the qualities that
women are hard-wired to WANT.

Carlos Xuma and I sat down and came up with
the "21 Alpha Rules" that a guy needs to live
by, if he is going to constantly attract high-
quality, beautiful women and take massive
action towards ALL of his goals in life.

And, we put together an "e-course" — a free
series of training bulletins, delivered to
your email inbox — that will show you how
to make this transformation…

If you're tired of being the "nice guy" that
women like "as a friend"…or if you want to
build the ALPHA LIFESTYLE so that you put all
of the pieces together…the women, the money,
the business goals, the mental attitude…

Well, then you need to jump on this before we
pull it down:

http://www.thealpharules.com

Your Wingman,

Dean Cortez (& Carlos Xuma)

A guest article today from Josh on the topic of…
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Places to meet women

A common excuse from guys for not having the women they want in their life is to claim that they don’t know where to go to meet women. The most common place to meet people is at a bar (duh).

I find it rather funny that so many people claim that they can’t meet high quality mates in bars. After all you are there too, right?! But that shouldn’t be the sole place to meet women and friends; bars are the easiest because so many people go there – and while they are out, they're looking to be social and have fun. I don’t even drink that much, and I still enjoy meeting women in bars.

Now that I’ve dispelled the opinion that no quality people can be found at bars, where do I go to meet women?

The answer is easy: OUTSIDE MY HOME. I simply walk out the door and there’s a whole world of people there just waiting to meet me. I’ve met women at the train stop, on the bus, at Target, at a coffee shop, even when I’m in line at the DMV. The list goes on. I don’t go anywhere special to ‘meet’ women; I just live fully.

The notion of going to certain places to meet women is symptomatic of a larger issue. When a guy is asking where to go, the underlying problem is that he is too short-sighted on the symptom, which is very erroneous. Guys should be going out just meeting everyone, half of which will be women. Take a step back and see the big picture.

But let’s say you still aren’t buying in to the notion that everywhere outside of your apt/home/bedroom, there are people literally waiting to meet you. The question then to ask is “What are my interests?” Even if you're a World of Warcraft junkie, you can still go to a LAN party to meet people, albeit probably not many women. But even the guys you meet have friends of the female persuasion.

Comics are your interest? Go to a comic convention or comic shops. Go read your comics someplace outside of your living room and you’re sure to notice someone taking interest in what you are doing. The answer to the underlying problem is that you are doing what you enjoy doing – and people, especially women, love to see the passion for it! I think most guys would be surprised that women enjoy many of the “geeky” things that guys like.

I read a recent statistic that puts as many women online playing video games as men.

Meet-up Group: Try on this idea – a bunch of people looking to enjoy their favorite activity with other, like-minded people. I joined a meet-up group for motorcyclists and ended up with 25 other people. Enjoy foosball, tennis, table tennis or maybe even something outside the volley sports? There are sure to be other people with the exact same interests.

`. This spring I started running 5k’s and met several people just by picking up running. This applies to darts, bowling, pool, bocce ball and virtually ANYTHING.

The bottom line is that guys just have to put themselves out there. I noticed when I offer myself to the fullest extent, I meet an insane amount of people, again half of them women.

You can put yourself ‘out there’ in two ways: doing the things you already love to do, or trying something new. Now, get out there and offer women the opportunity to meet you!
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CARLOS XUMA COMMENTS:

Here's a crazy idea for all you guys with a real set of balls:

Hold a "date my ex" party. Invite 3 of your ex girlfriends (that you're still on speaking terms with) – and introduce them to your friends.

Just because she didn't work out for you doesn't mean she won't for someone else.

Oh, if you're still attracted to your ex, don't invite her. I'd think this was obvious, but you never know.

Thanks, Josh…

Men lose their minds speaking to pretty women

Talking to an attractive woman really can make a man lose his mind, according to a new study.

The research shows men who spend even a few minutes in the company of an attractive woman perform less well in tests designed to measure brain function than those who chat to someone they do not find attractive.

Researchers who carried out the study, published in the Journal of Experimental and Social Psychology, think the reason may be that men use up so much of their brain function or 'cognitive resources' trying to impress beautiful women, they have little left for other tasks.

The findings have implications for the performance of men who flirt with women in the workplace, or even exam results in mixed-sex schools.

Women, however, were not affected by chatting to a handsome man.

This may be simply because men are programmed by evolution to think more about mating opportunities.

Psychologists at Radboud University in The Netherlands carried out the study after one of them was so struck on impressing an attractive woman he had never met before, that he could not remember his address when she asked him where he lived.

Researchers said it was as if he was so keen to make an impression he 'temporarily absorbed most of his cognitive resources.'

To see if other men were affected in the same way, they recruited 40 male heterosexual students.

Each one performed a standard memory test where they had to observe a stream of letters and say, as fast as possible, if each one was the same as the one before last.

The volunteers then spent seven minutes chatting to male or female members of the research team before repeating the test.

The results showed men were slower and less accurate after trying to impress the women. The more they fancied them, the worse their score.

But when the task was repeated with a group of female volunteers, they did not get the same results. Memory scores stayed the same, whether they had chatted to a man or a woman.

In a report on their findings the researchers said: 'We conclude men's cognitive functioning may temporarily decline after an interaction with an attractive woman.'

Psychologist Dr George Fieldman, a member of the British Psychological Society, said the findings reflect the fact that men are programmed to think about ways to pass on their genes.

'When a man meets a pretty woman, he is what we call 'reproductively focused'.

'But a woman also looks for signs of other attributes, such as wealth, youth and kindness. Just the look of the man would be unlikely to have the same effect.'

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CARLOS XUMA COMMENTS:

This seems pretty intuitive… After all, a man is "on" when he's courting a woman, trying to show off his social adeptness, suitability for mating, etc. Women have to be tuned into the moment, even when nervous, so they can pick up on all the subtle clues.

I like the terminology… "Reproductively focused."

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