Comments on: Why do women break up with men?

By: Bob Smith

Bob Smith — Sun, 06 Sep 2009 15:31:28 +0000

This question is really two questions: one is why do women break off after checking a man out for a few dates or hang outs, and two is why do women leave longer term established relationships ?

You have to understand the "master key" question in the back of every woman's mind, the one that seems like it is the hardest for men to grasp.

"Where is this thing going" ?

If she has a first impression of a guy, that goes into her file folder called "potential", not the one called "done deal for eternity"… you may harbor the illusion that you have a done deal in your hand (meaning: you have certain unexamined beliefs about what the rules of the road might happen to be) and she may have a VERY different set of foundational beliefs that are working on an unconscious level.

Because once you've passed the initial phase of strutting your Alpha game, she going to be sizing you up on a much subtler level, generally outside of conscious awareness but powerfully directing her conscious choices.

In other words, she's now carefully parsing out the sizzle from the steak in the back of her mind. Can this guy actually function at a high level of effectiveness in the world ? Is he really emotionally intelligent or was he just a good enough actor to get his foot in the door ?

And maybe the shoe is on the other foot. Maybe she's insecure and doesn't believe she can keep up with your energy level, your degree of perfectionism, or maybe, just maybe, your ethical standards.

By: admin

admin — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 16:16:57 +0000

The culturalization of women is in flux, but keep in mind that women are socially conditioned to a more 'passive' frame of communication and action. Yes, women are becoming more "yang" with their communications, but the reality is that a woman's top priority is to maintain social connections. Relationships are her top priority.

By: Filipina Girl

Filipina Girl — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 01:44:10 +0000

When a man break up with his man, there are underlying different reasons why she did that decision and cheating is just among the reasons.

By: How to attract men | Online Dating

How to attract men | Online Dating — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 10:35:34 +0000

[...] Carlos Xuma's Dating Tips for Guys » Why do women break up with men? [...]

By: Carlos Xuma's Dating Tips for Guys » Why do women break up with men? | Problems Resolved

Wed, 02 Sep 2009 03:03:48 +0000

[...] Continued here: Carlos Xuma's Dating Tips for Guys » Why do women break up with men? [...]

By: Aaron

Aaron — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 19:51:22 +0000

I realize that it’s always the woman’s choice to cheat, but at the same time, you have to realize that women tend toward more “passive” methods of getting their needs met. (Though, this is changing.)

This has a lot to do with the culturalization of women.

Do you mean here that the culturisation of women is the reason why they employ more passive methods? 'Cause to that I'd say No. A wide-reaching biological rule is that "men propose, women dispose," for reasons familiar to those who've learned about Darwin's theory of sexual selection.

But I have a feeling you know this and I've just misunderstood, so could you clarify?

By: innerbadass.com | Get Over Her

innerbadass.com | Get Over Her — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 17:06:01 +0000

[...] guest post I did, this one is over at Carlos Xuma's site. It's just a quick tidbit on Why Women Break Up With Men. In light of that little article, I'm going to throw a couple of other things at you, while [...]