You meet a girl you really like… she's attracted to you…

You start to hit it off, and it's certain you'll be seeing her again.

Awesome! Now what do you do?

Here's the thing… most guys are so focused on just getting the date, they don't bother to learn anything about how to give a woman pleasure, or how to be a masterful lover.

And I'm not just talking about rapport or vibing or what to do on a 2nd date… I'm talking about creating a powerful, exciting sexual relationship with a woman. I'm talking wild-screaming orgasms and rip-up the sheets wake the neighbors sex.

Let's not kid ourselves here… Men want to be with women because we want to enjoy wild-sexy-fun with them. But here's something most guys don't understand, or don't believe… WOMEN WANT HOT SEX!

In fact, they want it even more than you.

But they have been trained by society to never act on these desires because they will be labeled a "slut." You have to know women want sex and know it's your job to get her to open up and let her wild sexual side come out to play.

BE THE LOVER SHE NEVER FORGETS There is one man who has made it his life's work to teach men and couples how to have wildly exciting relationships.

His name is David Shade, and he shows men the secrets of how to be the kind of lover women NEVER forget. His methods are lethally effective. In fact, he warns men to be sure and 'choose wisely' because the women will become ADDICTED to the pleasure you give them.

He has a new book out called: The Secrets of Female Sexuality: I highly recommend you grab a copy, it's a book all men should read. And, I recommend you get it on Wednesday October 7, because David is having a special celebration for the new book.

Buy it on that day and you'll get access to over $300 in bonus gifts from some of the top dating & relationships experts. Also, if you buy it today, you'll have a chance to win copies of David's other products.

He will be picking winners every hour from 10 AM to 6 PM Eastern from those who buy the book and register for the bonuses. Full details and a list of all the bonus goodies are here:
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Your friend,

Carlos Xuma

P.S. No matter how wild your fantasies are about women… David has done them in real life. Using his methods you can get your woman to do ANYTHING you desire in the bedroom.

P.P.S. The book is only $13.58 and you get over $300 worth of bonus goodies. It's a helluva deal. But only on Wednesday October 7.

This video is a bit corny and slightly heavy handed, but it's a good message on motivation.

Do you have this kind of voice inside your head…?

This kind of coach kicking you in the ass when you start crying "But it's so hard!"

Get motivated.

hey carlos!

I'm a huge fan of your stuff – especially ultimate inner game has helped me tremendously.

I just have a quick question:
I always hear that being grounded/slow with measured speech is very masculine and looking at different role models, it certainly is.

however, there is also a side of my personality that is very hyper, fidgety and silly – not to impress others, more like for self amusing.
I feel like that very "centered man" part of me is very aware and peaceful, however it lacks some laughing and fun at times (and james bond and clint eastwood never really seem to laugh and joke around a lot…)

should I suppress that high-energy part of me (or ground it via meditation) if I want to be a "real alpha"?

or could I even reconcile those two?

thanks a lot for your help,
your friend from germany

- Leo
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CARLOS ANSWERS:

You should "ground" that energy so that it doesn't get away from you. Enthusiasm is great, and necessary. But you don't want to come across as a "spaz."

Meditation can take off some of that edge.

Even if you don't feel nervous, looking like you are is going to work against you.

Just make sure you don't "over correct" and lose that fire and passion…

Hey, I'll be appearing on Playboy Radio with TIFFANY GRANATH at 1:00 PM Pacific on Thursday October 1st.

Tune in on Sirius or XM satellite radio!

- Carlos Xuma