Hi Carlos–im a really good looking guy and i cant get a date b/c girls think im a player..what steps should a really good looking guy take to get past a womens defense shield and land a phone no. and a date?
tks,
Brian
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CARLOS XUMA COMMENTS:
Here's the reality, guys…
Good looking guys have it tough.
And I'm not being sarcastic.
Women have their guard up with guys that "look" like they get other women.
She want's to know that a guy is cool and confident on the inside first. Her first suspicion is that you will use her for sex. (On an instinctual level.) So she has to qualify you.
Now your question about the steps you should take I've addressed before and in my Get a Girlfriend program.
Just remember, Brian, that attraction in women is triggered at an EMOTIONAL level. NOT a rational/logical level.
You could spend the rest of your life trying to PROVE to a woman that you're someone she should want (and some guys have), or you can demonstrate the right Alpha characteristics for it and get the real results you're looking for…
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Does this apply also to: Do Hot Women want Good Looking Guys?
The reason i ask is i noticed people have different standards. Usually, the better the woman looks the more she feels I must only be with men at my level of looks or above. Sure, sometimes you see an average guy with a smoking hot woman but that is more a rarity then the average don' t you think? Or do you think that if a man pocesses other qualities he can certainly date out of his league?
Comment by dean — January 17, 2010 @ 3:04 am
Yeah, some of the guys that get the best results are actually not so good looking. In my experience though, if you're good looking then it's pretty easy to get her to start talking
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The less you try to prove yourself to women and around women, the more attractive you are to them. The reason why is simple: if you ASSUME that you've already proved yourself and that a woman already wants you?
You way more relaxed, feel much more confident, and are much more talkative and dominant because of that. These are all character traits that create attraction or boost it, so by assuming you've proved yourself… you're actually doing it! By assuming you create attraction, you actually do!
It's the secret of your mindset my friend. Improve your mindset and you improve your success in whatever area of life
To more dating success,
Dennis Miedema
Comment by Dennis Miedema — January 17, 2010 @ 2:33 pm
Brian, what you need to do is to make the woman invest in you, since you have the attraction automatically most of the times (due to your looks, yes looks alone can create attraction in a lot of women, stop deny it guys!).
The way you make her invest in you is to ask her questions in a way where you are screening her.
For example, you could also "flip the script" on her by asking her before she does or accuses u of it: "Are u a player? Becuz im not just a sausage with feet u know, i have feelings too!".
This question is fun but it also shows that u understand how it's like to be a beautiful woman like her.
Try that one out and see what happens, Brian.
Comment by Max Karlstedt — January 22, 2010 @ 5:43 pm