Are you having a difficult time understanding the girl you like?
Not able to connect with her? It’s as if she’s always misreading your good intentions, when all you want to do is to make her happy.
Check out the article I found. It was written by a woman for men going through this confusing situation. Take a look and see if the tips listed can help ease some of your fears…
- Carlos Xuma
Title: 23 Foolproof Relationship Tips and Advice for Men
- By Alison Ricard
If there’s one thing I know about men, it’s how competitive they are.
I’m sure you’d agree.
You want to be the best in everything there is, be it your games, your work or your love life.
And that’s one of the things I love about men and their attitude towards life.
But then again, there’s one other really bad trait of men too, and this one, I absolutely hate!
It’s a man’s attitude to give up when he feels helpless.
Now all men aren’t the same, and every circumstance is different.
But when it comes to love, these traits are…
Before you invest yourself completely with a woman, wouldn’t it be great if you can figure out if she’s crazy or not? Or if she’s a stable chick you can trust?
Knowing that would give you the edge, and you’d know if you really want to take the risk of pursuing her.
Remember, the largest part of getting the girlfriend you want is avoiding the ones you DON’T want.
Well, I found this article and I wanted to share it with you…
Read the “8 Red Flags She’s A Crazy Girl” below…
- Carlos Xuma
Title: 8 Red Flags She’s a Crazy Girl You Should Stay Away From
“How do you know if a girl is crazy before its too late? What early signs do girls show you?
How do you know you if a girl is lying to you about not being a club girl? Say if you met her during the day?
Don’t club girls run around during the day too? How do you know you’re not picking up a club girl during the day?”
Now, that’s not to say that all girls who head to nightclubs every so often are crazy (although… most of them are at least somewhat morenarcissistic women).
What we’re talking about here when we say a girl is a “crazy girl” is that…
Sometimes, yeah, it’s the nail.
Check out this video… for a good laugh:
Hey, go watch this video now: UNBELIEVABLE VIDEO
It’s the latest video from Dave M. and it might be
the coolest internet dating video you’ve ever seen.
No need to opt in or anything, it’ll just play.
In this video, Dave goes over a simple technique
that shows you how ANYONE can get more women
emailing them back.
(He makes it very freaky easy…)
Plus he actually shows you exactly what to do so
you can do it too.
My favorite one is the ‘swiping’ method he shows
Seriously – this is good. No cost, no shenanigans –
just good content as usual.
- Carlos X.
P.S. He’s also giving away a 31-minute “Cherrypicker”
video for free.
Some people who saw the sneak preview of this
said it’s some of the most eye-opening, high quality,
and immediately usable internet dating information
they’ve ever seen.
…And that includes the stuff they’ve paid for.
I haven’t seen it so I don’t know what it’s like. I did,
however, sign up to get is when it comes out and
I suggest you do the same.
Here are a few horror stories I found at sfgate.com.
Pretty amusing, and I’ve added lessons to their stories for you:
“I met this one girl in a chat room. She lived in Missouri and I live in California. She seemed sweet, and we talked online just about every day.
“She had just gotten a house to live in that belonged to her grandmother. She kept asking me if I would go to Missouri to live with her, and kept saying she loved me to tears. I was flattered. I told her I needed to save up money for about three months. I worked two jobs for three months and was completely exhausted.
“So I then had lots of money and I told her I was ready to be with her. I asked if I could come over. She said, ‘I don’t care, I have two guys staying here now.’
“A word to the wise: Look that girl in the eyes.”
CARLOS XUMA COMMENTS:
Another word to the wise – date in your own area!
Long distance relationships can work, but they usually come from a scarcity mindset. They come from desperation rather than a healthy attitude.
Trust me, there are probably plenty of women in your area that you don’t know about yet.
Don’t be a sucker from your loneliness.
Next story – from a woman…
“I met a guy on CraigsList and we had our first date. And in the middle of telling me things that he liked to do and talking about his ex-wife he goes from ‘we liked sailing and buying antiques’ to ‘and I like corsets …’
Excuse me, corsets?
He keeps talking as if he hasn’t said anything off, and I stop him and ask, ‘What do you mean by corsets?’ And he says, yeah, he liked antique corsets and his wife would model them for him.
Oh yeah, you bet this is an appropriate topic of conversation only one hour after meeting someone. I grabbed a cab and ran home and made sure all the doors and windows were securely locked!”
CARLOS XUMA COMMENTS:
Yeah, that was a tiny bit weird, but running home and making your doors and windows were locked is a BIG over-reaction.
Trust me, there are far freakier things going on out there. A preference for old-fashioned lace attire is not so bad. Worse things have happened, honey. Get over it.
At least HE wasn’t the one modeling the corsets!
“I am a 50-year-old man, slim, considered good looking and fairly successful.
“I recently answered two ads. The first woman looked vaguely like her picture, although in the picture she had long blond hair, and when we met her hair was short and had long, dark roots. And the picture was better looking than she was in person, and her personality didn’t quite fit the profile. The second woman’s picture showed a youthful-looking, long-haired redhead, looking 10 years younger than her posted age. Upon meeting, I barely recognized her. She had deep facial wrinkles and severely short red hair and looked 10 years older than her posted age. AGH!
“I almost canceled all of the subscriptions until another lovely woman popped up on my account, and I am going to try again. Hope springs eternal, I guess.
“Men will probably say that the women are using their best outdated photos to lure us into meeting them. And women say that men are trying to cheat on their wives or girlfriends. Or they lie about their accomplishments, job, etc.”
CARLOS XUMA COMMENTS:
Canceling all your memberships because of just a couple misfires?
Guys, don’t over-react to these kinds of things.
I’d suggest that guys realize the rules of dating online:
1) You will always run into people who misrepresent themselves. Get over it. This is simply the nature of the beast.
Remember that these people are not inherently evil.
They’re just damn lonely. Perhaps you can relate to that and feel a little compassion?
2) Don’t let just ONE bad incident turn you away from online dating.
Or even several weird events. There are no bad dates – only great stories to tell your future girlfriend.
But you won’t have that future girlfriend if you quit because of a few things like this.
3) Keep your sense of humor!
Let’s face it: Online dating is here to stay. It should be an ESSENTIAL part of every man’s dating breakfast.
Learn how to use it effectively so that you can A) laugh at your great stories, B) not take everything too seriously.
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