Hey Carlos!  First I want to say that I love your advice and it influenced me a lot. But its only a matter of time before millions of guys out there get a hold of this advice. What will you say will happen if this will occur and we will all know these techniques not to mention woman will too. We will all begin playing each other. Eventually all this stuff will get old and a lot of us would know each others game and will get compromise each step of the way. What will you do if this will start to happen?

- Martin Sanchez

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CARLOS REPLY:

Not a thing would happen.

Why?

1) Most guys won't actually put this information to use. Call it laziness, whatever you like, but 95+% of all advice is never used. (Even if it works!)

Unfortunately, these are usually the guys that sit around and come up with any number of excuses to NOT use it. Hate to tell you this, but your objection is one of those excuses.

2) If you use what *I* teach you, you'll never sound like any other guy out there. There's no memorizing hokey and corny pickup lines that make you sound like a social robot.

You are your own man.

3) No woman can see through the matrix when a man is a confident Alpha Man. But she can totally bust a clueless parrot. And she should.

In 15 years of teaching guys, I've never ONCE had a guy say, "Hey, some chick completely busted my game because I was confident and bulletproof."

I show you what works – every time.

Stealth, undetected, and POWERFUL.

USE IT instead of worrying if you'll "get caught."

 
Stay Alpha…!

- Carlos Xuma

I thought you might like this little article from The Onion. It is a CLASSIC description of the "friends only" problem with women.
By the way, if you want to solve this problem with women FOREVER – you can go here:
No More 'Friends Only…'

I really like you. I do. You're so nice, and sweet, and you listen to all my problems and respond with the appropriate compliments. But, well, I don't really see a relationship in our future. It would be terrible if we let sex destroy this great friendship we have where I get everything I want and you get nothing you want. Don't you think?

I knew you would understand. You always do.

We're so perfect as friends, you know? I can tell you anything, and you know you can always come to me anytime you need to hear me bitch about work or how ugly I feel. You wouldn't want to ruin a friendship like that just so you could be my boyfriend, and have me look at you with desire and longing in my eyes, if only once—would you? Of course not. Well, if we started dating, it would only complicate this wonderful setup I've got going here.

It's just…you're like my best friend, and I would hate for something you desperately want to change that. I mean, sure, we could go on some dates, maybe mess around a little and finally validate the six years you've spent languishing in this platonic nightmare, but then what? How could we ever go back to the way we were, where I take advantage of your clear attraction to me so I can have someone at my beck and call?

That part of our friendship means so much to me.

No. We are just destined to be really, really good friends who only hang out when I don't have a boyfriend, but still need male attention to boost my fragile and all-consuming ego.

Anything can happen once you bring romance in. Think about how awful my last relationship was at the end, remember? The guy I'd call you crying about at 3 a.m. because he wouldn't answer my texts? The guy I met at the birthday party you threw me? I had insanely passionate sex with him for four months and now we don't even talk anymore. God, I would die if something like that happened to us.

Plus, ick, can you even imagine getting naked in front of each other? I've known you so long, you're more like a brother that I've drunkenly made out with twice and never mentioned again. It'd be way too weird. And if we did, then whenever you'd come shopping with me, or go to one of my performances or charity events, or take me for ice cream when I've had a bad day at work, you'd be looking at me like, "I've seen her breasts." God, I can't think of anything more awkward that that.

Oh, before I forget, my mom says hi.

Anyway, you would totally hate me as your girlfriend. I'd be all needy and dramatic and slowly growing to love you. If I was your girlfriend, I would never be able to tell you all about the other asshole guys I date and pretend I don't see how much it crushes you. Let's never lose that. That's what makes us us.

Don't worry. You're so funny and smart and amazing, any girl but me would be lucky to date you. You'll find someone, I know it. And when you do, I'll be right by your side to suddenly become all flirty and affectionate with you in front of her, until she grows jealous and won't believe it when you say we're just friends. But when she dumps you, that's just what we'll be.

Best friends. Friends forever.
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Classic, huh? In a painful kind of way.

If you want to solve this problem with women FOREVER – you can go here: No More 'Friends Only…'

The secret of attracting women is not rocket science. But what most men are surprised to discover is that their ability to attract women really stems from something deep down inside. Here are three key secrets that will make your journey successful:

Secret of Attracting Women:

1. Confidence. Too many men put the horse in front of the cart. What I mean by that is too many men study up on clever pick up lines and magic tricks and funny stories to tell when they really need to back up and make sure the most important foundation is in place in order to attract women: their self-confidence.

Hands down, more than good looks, more than money, more than an impressive career or home or car, having a big heap of good old-fashioned self-confidence will be more important in attracting women.

Go back to the drawing board, if necessary and work on boosting your self-confidence. Take yourself off the market for a bit and focus inward on what you need to do to build your confidence level. Do some soul searching first and figure out just what stands in your way. Is it a rough childhood? Maybe some psychotherapy can help overcome that obstacle. Is it a stutter? Hire a speech coach. Is it that extra weight around your belly? Join a gym or start exercising and eating right.

Take the time right now to do everything in your power to bring your self-confidence to its highest level ever.

2. Appearance. Once you’ve got that confidence level at its maximum, working on your appearance is just the icing on the cake. Your confidence will attract them, but let’s sweeten the pot by removing any possible obstacle your appearance might throw up.

What I mean by that is that it is more important to ensure there is nothing off-putting about your appearance, than it is to be attractive. You can be an average looking guy and if you are also a sloppy dresser that will be a huge strike against you. You can be an average looking guy, however, who dresses nice, is impeccably groomed, and has a bit of style and your attraction level will skyrocket!

Believe it or not, women notice things like this. In addition, if you don’t take care of your appearance and the first impression you make, it reflects on your love of yourself. Taking time to dress nice and be well-groomed instantly conveys that you respect yourself.

3. Loving life. Now that seems like something that is as big as the universe and possibly as unattainable if you’ve had a rough one, but I think possibly the most attractive thing to a woman is showing that you have a life and love it.

There is something undeniably attractive about being around another person who loves life. It is contagious. Everyone will want to be around you. That’s also called charisma. Start looking at the world in a new way, appreciating the small things. Make it clear that you don’t need a woman to be happy. You are happy and you just want to share that with her.

If you follow these three tips, you are living a life that is the essence of the secret of attracting women.

Are men or women more likely to cheat? While men have always had a worse reputation for being unfaithful, recent studies show that women are catching up fast – but we are a lot more likely to lie about it, and a lot less likely to get caught.

Simply put, it seems that women are better at having affairs than men.

The news that Farrah Fawcett had a secret affair for 11 years without telling a soul is a classic example of the way a woman cheats: discreetly, in secret, and while carrying on with the rest of her life as normal.

It has been met with hot denials by Ryan O'Neal, but – and I'm sorry to break it to you this way, Ryan – you'd be the last to know.

According to Dr David Holmes, a psychologist at Manchester Metropolitan University, women are having more affairs than ever – recent studies say the figure is around 20 per cent for men and a bit over 15 per cent for women – but they behave very differently from men when they cheat.

Read more about women's infidelity here…

When it comes down to it, you attract women not by how you look, but by what you say.

Words have power and the ability to spark attraction.

Haven’t you ever had the experience of being attracted to someone until they open their mouth and then that attraction flies right out the door? Well, by learning a few powerful tips and techniques about conversation, you can use your words to attract women. Here are some powerful conversation techniques below.

Ways Guys Can Attract Girls Tips:

1. Make sure you are talking about big ideas. People like the grandiose. Avoid wandering off into topics that are insane or sound too fantastic, but talk big.

For instance, share your wildest dreams. Don’t be afraid to talk about your vision for the future – not only your future, but also the world’s future. By talking about your dreams, such as being your own boss, becoming a chess master, and having a family, you will cast a spell on the woman you are talking with. Women love men with dreams, aspirations, and lofty ambitions. You know what you want and by talking about it and sharing it, you prove you aren’t afraid to go get it. That is magnetic.

2. Stand out from the crowd. When you talk about yourself, make sure that you give the impression that you are in a whole different clique from the rest of the world. You want to show you believe you are among the elite. Differentiate yourself from others by talking a little bit about how you get the VIP treatment at certain places. Make her feel that you are part of an elite group she can join. It gives her a sense of escape. Not all women will respond to this, so you have to feel it out with each woman. But most women will love to hear stories that captivate and show her you live outside the norm. Learn how to do this without being a braggart. Tell her these stories naturally.

3. Let her in on your adventuresome, risk-taking side. This doesn’t include conversation about stupid or foolish risks you’ve taken, but more about things you have done that show you live your life to the fullest and aren’t afraid. For instance, you might say you hiked the Inca trail or that you once lived alone in the woods for three months with just a tent and a bow and arrow. Whatever you’ve done that shows you aren’t afraid to live an adventuresome life is worth talking about. It might be how you quit your job and sold all your belongings to travel cross-country for six months. It’s your story. Again, make sure you aren’t bragging, but just expressing excitement about how doing this made you feel.

4. Show how you are a provider and protector.

There isn’t much more attractive than a man who talks about his loyalty and desire to protect those he loves not matter what. Talk about your allegiance to your family or even the close-knit group of friends you consider family. A man who is willing to lay down his life for those he cares about is extremely attractive to women.

5. Show how you are a leader in your life.

Being a leader doesn’t mean you have to be the president. It only means that you point out areas in your life where you take the lead. It might be with your volleyball team. It might be within your group of neighbors. Wherever it is, show how you lead and move others to act.

These are some ways guys can attract girls.