Just got done watching Jim Carrey's movie "Yes Man"
It's always nice to see Jim Carrey back in top form in a comedy. I never understood all the backlash when he tried to do drama.
One of my personal favorite movies of his is The Truman Show. It has a lot to say about our dependence on living other people's lives – as well as the artificiality of the world around us.
Jim's latest movie is actually another riff on what I consider to be an Alpha Man subject – thinking in terms of positive outcomes instead of blocking yourself off.
You may already be familiar with the plot which riffs on his "Liar Liar" theme of being compelled to do something he doesn't want to do. In this case it's saying YES to every opportunity that comes his way.
I know a lot of guys that close down and look for excuses to say NO to things all the time, and this locks us into patterns of pain and scarcity.
Every guy should watch this and see how a philosophy of acceptance can bring you out of your comfort zone and back into your life.
Definitely worth a watch.
I just got word that the master of giving women incredible pleasure is coming to San Francisco and will be giving a free seminar on The Secrets of Being a Masterful Lover…
The seminar will be this coming Sunday, April 12th from 2pm to 6pm.
Here are the instructions for signing up:
1. Login to http://Meetup.com
If you do not already have an account, you can create one for free.
2. Use this link at Meetup.com to get to David's Meetup.
http://www.meetup.com/David-Shade-Masterful-Lover/
3. Join the meetup group. You will need this code
—> deepspot <— Code to join David Shade Meetup
4. RSVP for the San Francisco Event
http://www.meetup.com/David-Shade-Masterful-Lover/calendar/10131429/
IMPORTANT: You Must RSVP! Anyone not on the RSVP list will be turned away. The venue holds about 90 people.
Okay, here's the deal…
I got in an argument the other day with another guru out there (who will remain nameless – at least for now!)
We were talking trash about which guys out there are going to get ahead in the next year and have the best stories about their getting good with women.
I said, of course, that YOU were.
He said, of course, that his guys were.
We got to giving each other a hard time, and we even got into a little name calling. (If you're reading this, sorry about the "sissy punk" comment, dude. But not really. 
Now, I'm calling him out on this one – because you know I'm the king of keeping it REAL, right?
STAY WITH ME… The story gets more juicy…
And then I talked with my buddy Dave M. over at Insider Internet Dating.
Well I've got some "insider" information from him that no one else knows about…
It sounds like Dave is about to yank his program off the market in the next couple days. It could be as early as TOMORROW.
Now, I want to win my bet with my buddy, so I'm going to make you a Godfather offer.
Something you can't refuse!
For ANY of you guys that get Dave's program in the next 24-48 hours, I'm going to send you something VERY cool for VERY free.
I'm going to send you a copy of my original manual on seduction: The Seduction Method – the full 300 page book and the extras…
at N0 charge.
You read that right. I'm giving you a $47 set of books – and I don't want ANY of your money. Just go take Dave up on his offer to test drive his newest Internet dating program.
Why am I doing this?
Because I know for a FACT that Internet dating is – hands down – one of the best way to meet good quality women. I dated dozens of women from Match.com, and had lots of "brief romances" from just working the same system. (And these were really attractive women.)
And I know that if you work what Dave is giving you in his program, you WILL get more success in 2009.
POSITIVELY!
So my offer stands. Try his program, and then email me with your order info. I'll verify it and then send you your download link for the Seduction Method…
And even if you RETURN his program (which you'd be cRaZy to do), you can still keep my book…!
Fair enough?
CLICK HERE… right now…
Your friend,
Carlos Xuma
PS: If you've already ordered Dave's program from the link I sent out to you in the last week or so, you can also have a copy of the Seduction Method. Just email me with your order information.
Go get your copy:
CLICK HERE… right now…
Coming in January, Carlos will be appearing in Las Vegas with a variety of other guest speakers at the 2009 superconference.
Basic Info
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What: Masterful Lover Super Conference 2009
When: January 16-18, 2009
Where: Las Vegas NV
Featured Speakers:
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David Shade – Will be speaking on a variety of topics of sex and sexuality.
Carlos Xuma – Will be speaking on relationships and inner game – and the power of Alpha Confidence to forge a strong relationship with any woman you desire.
Mark Cunningham ("Major Mark") – Conditioning with pleasure. Imagine
yourself with a woman who will do whatever you want, wherever you
want, as often as you want, enthusiastically – and think that it was
all HER idea!
Zan Perrion – For the men… "How to bring out passion & delight in
your woman." And for the ladies… "How to bring out the feminine sexy
nature in you to drive your man totally and hopelessly crazy about
you."
Heather Ann Havenwood – The Madonna-Whore Contrast. Women live a life
of contrast – they want to be the proper respected lady outside the
bedroom, but inside the bedroom with their lover, they want to be
naughty, ruthless, expressive, and told what to do.
Brad P. – How to build successful relationships that stay sexually
charged for a long long time.
Read the full details here: Super Conference Details
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Hi Carlos,
My boyfriend is a huge fan of your work (and me too!)
We have discovered a peice of information that is very valuable and is currently unknown.
SIMPLE:
There is a very HIGH degree of inverse correlation between the difficulty in sarging in a particular country and the level of inflation in that country's currency. The lower the inflation rate, the more difficult to sarge. Compare, for example, Brazil to Switzerland.
That is it. Simple, yet highly insightful.
It makes a lolt of sense too. A national culture treats it's currency in a similar way to how it treats its chastity.
However, aside from the reasoning, just look at the empirical evidence and see if you agree.
Sarah
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CARLOS XUMA ANSWERS:
Gosh I love Facebook… This cute gal wrote in to me from Switzerland to let me know how she feels about my stuff.
Great to hear from you, Sarah!
As for your observation, that's quite an interesting application of statistical analysis.
I will say that the one correlation I've seen is that in countries that have not achieved a measurable level of stability and affluence, the pickup techniques are much more difficult to apply.
I believe this is because in an environment of uncertainty, where there is a cultural level of insecurity, then the women are going to be more protective of their most vital asset: Their sexuality.
Hooking up with the right guy becomes more mercenary, and the simple "opinion opener" is not going to do you much good.
This is why you have to cultivate the aura and lifestyle of the Alpha Man. It's the only way for women to really "get" that you're a commodity. Your fuzzy hat and feather boa are not going to be enough flash in the pan for her needs.
You need to be Alpha to the CORE.
THE ALPHA LIFESTYLE STARTS HERE…
Just got done watching Jim Carrey's movie "Yes Man"
