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A Simple Guide to Understanding Women
Guide to Understanding Women
Does it ever feel like no matter what you say to a woman, you just can't say the right thing?
Do you ever have problems understanding what women are saying to you?
I always wished I had a guide to understanding women. It would have made my life SO much simpler. Just a short 100 page paperback that explained the basics so I knew what I was dealing with. I could have kept it in my back pocket and whipped it out when I needed it.
Go read my latest article and Guide to Understanding Women, and learn how to understand women and what they're really saying.
Read it here:
Guide to Understanding Women
Too MUCH?
After I have studied the art of seduction for some time with your newsletters and such to create choice in my life when it comes to women.
But lately I found myself… I shouldn't even be writing this because it feels plain stupid to me…
But here it goes.. Is there, when it comes to women, something called "too much choice"?
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CARLOS XUMA ANSWERS:
Yes, that happens from time to time. It's what's known as a "high quality problem."
In other words, of all the problems you can have, it's a good one.
Other guys hate you, by the way.
Best of luck with that horrible situation you have… Maybe I should stop writing my newsletters and ebooks, and stop creating all this choice in other guys' lives.
Hmmm….
Once you reach this happy place, you will find that you have a new problem: Finding a QUALITY woman.
That's why I teach you how to enjoy your abundance, and find the high quality girls out there.
Meet women you want to be with for more than one night.
It's not about Seduction Techniques – it's about STRATEGY!
I always have to chuckle when I see guys on dating and seduction techniques forums say this…
There are no secrets!
You can find everything you need for free online!
And so on…
When it comes to sharing or developing a solid skill and expertise, there will always be those people who believe that every piece of knowledge or discovery is already known by other guys. These are the same people that think that every bit of information can be found easily (and accurately) on the internet. So they don't believe that they have to invest in coaching, buying a training program, etc.
There are A LOT of extremely valuable techniques and information that isn't ‘publicly’ known. New discoveries are made everyday.
Anyone that thinks they know it all in ANY area of expertise – especially dating advice and seduction techniques – has their head in their butt.
Everyone needs to continue to strive to learn more about not only dating techniques and skills, but our individual areas of passion and interest.
As far as “secrets” are concerned, this is a different story. The word “secrets” has, and probably always will be, one of the most powerful words in the history of copywriting.
And this is the reason that this word is often used to describe valuable information and is a popular choice to use in book and course titles. i.e. my own program: Secrets of the Alpha Man.
I know plenty of guys out there that have more lines and routines and clever scripts to use than any guru. Some of them are amazing.
Yet these guys aren't successful with women. Why?
Because they don't know how all the pieces fit together into the big picture. They struggle all the time. They end up feeling bitter and thinking that the seduction techniques don’t actually work — or at least as well as some guys say they do.
The problem is simple… they know or have all the puzzle pieces, they just don’t know what to do with them.
Even if every piece of knowledge and information was being freely discussed on the Web, from articles to seduction forums to blogs, etc., the information itself is essentially worthless.
That's right.
WORTHLESS.
When it comes to dating tips for guys and the seduction techniques that get women interested in you, whether it's a new opinion opener, or a great routine stack, or a new "kiss close…"
The only thing that matters is your STRATEGY.
The way you put all these disparate elements together into one cohesive whole is the most important part of your skills with women.
You see, most guys get addicted to the information itself.
They think, "If I just collect enough routines and lines and openers, I'll have an answer to every test a woman throws at me! Buwaahahahahahaha!"
If you've managed to memorize all the responses for everything a woman throws at you, I want you to email me right away. I will personally call you up and I want to interview you.
I'm serious.
You see, techniques are necessary, but they're not the goal.
That's why my programs are not just about the tactics and seduction techniques.
Sure, I'm going to give you fun things to say as examples, but the guys that REALLY get this information and use it in the STRATEGY that I provide will multiply their results by a hundred times.
So remember that information is not power.
In fact, it's only potential power.
The greatest men of history used STRATEGY to win, not technique.
Read that again. Most guys will miss that.
From George Washington to Ghandi to … anyone.
And that will be your "Secret", too.
Learn the Seduction Techniques (Strategy) of the Alpha Man
-Carlos


