How good do you feel about yourself?
Are you winning your "inner game"?
I really want to know.
In fact, I want to give you the chance to talk with me on the phone about it.
Just you and me. (More on this in a second…)
Look, I take a lot of pride in the fact that I do my very best to stay in contact with you and in close touch with you.
Some "gurus" just seek glamor and fame on television. Well, yeah, I've been offered a few opportunities like that, but most of them would either compromise my values or pull me away from helping guys like you.
(Or, honestly, they weren't creating anything new or original.)
I really don't want that to sound like I'm some superior do-gooder here, or that I'm throwing out lame rationalizations. I'm just as fallible as the next guy. Sure, who wouldn't love to have his own television show?
I just pay attention to my gut about what will make me happier in both the short and long-term. It's something I hope you do, as well.
And the other reason WHY I want to hear from you is something that will help you out the most…
Because I'm in the process of creating some new videos and newsletters – and probably some special reports. And I want to make sure I get you what you need.
So go over and Take my Inner Game Survey
And I'm going to be drawing emails from the guys that respond. The ones who respond with the most complete answers will get a Blitz Session with me coming up in the next month or so.
That's a free half-hour on the phone with me, working on one of your inner game hurdles.
And your question doesn't even have to do with women! It can be any area of your inner game and confidence.
So go take the survey right now. The guys that give me the most thoughtful answers will get that one-on-one time with me.
Right now that's only a maximum of 10. And this email is about to go out to about 20,000 other guys, so get in gear…
Click here to go to the survey…
Talk to you soon!
- Your friend,
Carlos
HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND…
Without all the games.
Amazingly, I get a lot of guys asking me the one question that you wouldn't expect – especially in this age of "pickup artists" and pickup techniques…
They all seem to want to know one thing: How to get a girlfriend.
I believe that most guys want the ability to attract many girls, but they want to get that one special girl.
Read my article on How to Get a Girlfriend, and learn my 7 tips that will absolutely guarantee you can get her FAST.
Read it here:
How to Get a Girlfriend
Hey guys… I know you were all asking when I was going to reveal some of that hidden camera stuff.
Well, I did this month's infield insider with Mehow, and you can see the preview here:
And you'll be able to get it HERE…
My session will be coming out in just a few weeks… I did some day game approaches. Mehow and I sat down and dissected one completely.
When we sat there talking about it, it was interesting to hear from a guy who only does club approaches as we broke down a day-game approach. The energy and the technique is completely different…
I pulled this letter from my friend F.J. Sharks' group because I thought it brought up an interesting point.
I'd love to hear your comments on this post:
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Pulled out the Red Queen for lunch today…almost done but hadn't looked at it in awhile…
I bought it and The Selfish Gene at the same time…its a much better read (Selfish Gene is VERY clinical – it's interesting, but probably not for most…I imagine it will take months to finish)
Anyway, was just finishing a chapter about testoserone, the womb, boys vs girls and the author made a great point about feminists – on the one hand, their rally cry is "equality for all", but then the flip side is that feminists claim that if women were in charge, there would be no wars, no starvation, etc.
Doesn't that by it's very definition mean feminists think women are DIFFERENT then MEN…
Where's the EQUALITY in that?
Bring that up at your next cocktail party…
Carp
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CARLOS XUMA COMMENTS:
Well, I think we'd all agree that men and women are NOT equal in terms of capacity, we do need to be equal in places where gender is irrelevant. Keep in mind that "different" suggests inequality, but is not the same thing. Two people CAN be different – and equal.
Equality is ALWAYS subjective. I hate to say it, but one of the most well-meaning but inaccurate statements is that "all men are created equal." We're all very UN-equal in talents and skills, but that's where we can each leverage our strengths to balance things out. But I digress…
But even more important, I suggest you DON'T bring these topics up at a cocktail party. (Yes, I know Carp was just carping, but hear me out…)
Sometimes guys get really tempted to flaunt their knowledge of the "game" and how things "really" work with women.
BAD idea.
The guys that I know that are the most socially successful can keep this information under their hats and JUST use it to their advantage without having to make sure other people know that they're A) angry about it, or B) more right about it than other people.
It's just a little trap I've seen out there that snares a lot of well-meaning men.
Keep your knowledge of how attraction works between men and women to yourself as much as you can. Share it with a buddy, but keep it on the down-low…
- Carlos Xuma
See more attract women videos, and how to flirt with women
WHAT DO YOU THINK??
Guys, I just found a video that my good friend David Shade is giving away at his site.
You don't even have to opt-in or anything. Nothing weird…
And the videos are pretty darn cool, because they talk about that nasty three letter word that starts with an "S" and ends with an "X."
Go check it out…
Just don't blame me if you learn something here that's pretty shocking… It's from women who wrote in, and it starts at about 3 minutes or so into the video.
David Shade's Secrets About…
Hey guys… I'm in an ornery mood…
I want to see if I can hit 1000 facebook followers by the end of this month.
I'm halfway there right now. (I had to restart my profile a ways back and lost a lot of friends…)
Help me spread the good Alpha Word. Send your friends my facebook to add:
http://www.new.facebook.com/people/Carlos_Xuma/712062830
If we hit the 1000 mark by Halloween, I'll hold a free teleseminar as a gift to you.
Cool?
Oh, and I'm also offering a free copy of my new Get a Girlfriend program to the guy who links to http://getagirlfriend.datingdynamics.com on his site with this text:
"How to Get a Girlfriend – Dating Tips for Guys"
(The code for the link is at the end of this post…)
AND I'm throwing in a copy of one of my Approach Women NOW or Alpha Man programs for the coolest page devoted to the Alpha Lifestyle. Get creative!
And get rolling with those submissions.
Send them to me HERE…
- CX
Here's your code for the link:
<a href="http://getagirlfriend.datingdynamics.com" target="_blank">How to Get a Girlfriend – Dating Tips for Guys</a>
Just drop it into your page!
I just got off my plane from San Diego, and I wanted to update you on the status of the hidden camera shoot I did with Mehow.
Everything turned out great, and we went through a complete live daytime approach from start to finish. Pointing out techniques, and discussing my personal style of approach.
I sincerely hope you are completely not impressed with the footage on this program.
What???
Yep, you heard me.
Something that a lot of guys think is that we "gurus" are some kind of supernatural entity, and that's just not the case. A good day game approach should look pretty ordinary.
There's no voodoo, no hypnotism, and no secret 7 words that got her drooling for me. I just played it cool and relaxed. I used what I teach you and she went along with me.
In fact, you'll even see me doing things that most other "PUAs" would roast me for.
So why does it work?
You'll be able to tell when you see it. It's because I'm being REAL with the woman in the store, and she knows it.
I didn't rush it.
I even purposefully put gaps in the conversation where it "feels" like things are cooling off.
But I knew better.
You can find out on 10/21 when my Infield Insider goes on sale, and I'll let you know more about it then.
Until then – get out there and meet women!
It really is pretty easy when you get right down to it.
Your friend,
- Carlos Xuma
Guide To Understanding Women
I decided that for you guys who still don't have my toolbar, you might need a way to get my latest guide to understanding women – just in case you don't receive the newsletter that I send every week.
Well, here's the site for you. You'll want to bookmark this in your browser so you don't miss some of the newsletters and videos I'm going to send out.
Guide to understanding women articles…
Stay connected to Carlos Xuma – and get so much more – with the Alpha Man Community Toolbar
CLICK HERE: Get the Carlos Xuma Toolbar here…
FROM CARLOS:
I usually hate those things they send you in the mail…
You know, the address labels, or the pen with your name on it, or the angel pin, or any of that cheap nonsense that people give away in the hopes of getting you to donate or send them some money.
That's why I do my very best to give you as much as I possibly can – at the highest possible quality I can.
For nothing.
I figure, if you like what I'm doing for you, and you appreciate the stuff I give you, you'll invest in yourself by getting one of my programs.
So here I am, giving you something cool again.
Like I said, I hate those dumb things they send you in the mail, so I took some time and made something pretty darn cool for you.
I made a toolbar for your browser so I can send you the latest articles and videos that I create. The toolbar installs in your browser (100% certified safe) and it will keep you up to date on all the latest stuff I have to offer you. It just sits up there nice and pretty out of the way, but lets you get to stuff much quicker.
Here's what you can get from the new toolbar:
- Immediate access to my podcast and blog feeds…
- Join me in our exclusive Alpha Man chat room…
- Get my most important messages from my hotline…
- Get links to my latest videos and newsletters instantly…
- Links to all my most important content…
- Google search…
- And more coming soon…
If you're using Internet Explorer or Firefox for your browsing, you'll want to grab this thing right away. It's exclusive and ONLY for you for being a subscriber…
And please send me your ideas and suggestions. I'm about to create more great stuff for you guys, but I need to know what you want to learn about dating, attraction, and living the Alpha Lifestyle…
Get your Alpha Lifestyle Toolbar here:
CLICK HERE: Get the Carlos Xuma Toolbar here…
Enjoy…!
FLIRTING WITH WOMEN
Flirting with women is something that seems like more of a "woman's game" sometimes.
You see a woman somewhere that you'd like to meet and flirt with…
But what do you do?
Read my latest Dating Tips for Men on Flirting With Women
You'll learn my 3 step method for flirting effectively, and the secret reason that women like to think "flirt" while guys think "pickup…"
Read it here:
Flirting with Women Article
