And the award goes to…

Well I just struck out on a beautiful woman that I happened to like. Her name was Karen and I had the biggest crush on her. I have her some roses that I thought that would help me to get to take her out, but in the end, it didn't work. I also wrote her a nice letter.

She came back and gave the letter and the flowers back to me. She said that we could just be friends. I've always been getting that line from women all my life and I'm tired of it.

I became mildly depressed afterwards from work and I just ended up listening to love songs after that to cope with my hurt feelings. But the songs made me feel better. I don't know what I did wrong.

She said that she liked flowers and I bought her 6 red roses. I'm a hopeless romantic. Now this is exactly why I don't like approaching women. I seem to get rejected all the time. I've always been the nice guy and I've always gone the nice guy way of trying to get a girlfriend.

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CARLOS XUMA COMMENTS:

Dude, I have a couple things to say to this…

1. That hurts like a left hook to the kidneys. It sucks.

I feel for you.

Now for the tough-love…

2. Ewwwwww….!

Sorry, but that's what every woman out there is doing as she reads this.

You're turning into a needy wuss-bag, and this is the kind of behavior that is sending you down a path of no results and no women.

Karen did what any sane woman would do in that situation. (Not that it's your fault, but that is the worst approach. Even if you can't see why at the moment.)

She just gave you an invaluable lesson by giving them back to you and telling you how she feels.

As the saying goes, if you keep doing what you've been doing, you'll keep getting what you been getting.

Sucks, doesn't it?

But THAT is life.

And it's your life on steroids when it comes down to being a MAN.

1) Listening to love songs?

Give me a freakin' break. Start listening to heavy metal, or just some good old AC/DC. Drop the emo crap and get your stones back.

2) Roses? You haven't been reading my newsletter, have you?

Dude, when a woman gives you the flowers BACK, you've really hit a low mark. Usually they just smile awkwardly and try to leave without a scene.

Unfortunately, this is the kind of garbage that the media, television and movies, and even some well-meaning lady friends still tell guys.

Crazy idea: If doing what you've been doing isn't working –
STOP DOING IT.

Stop listening to the madness of bad dating advice and go take the RED pill.

Let's find out how deep the rabbit hole goes:

Get a Girlfriend FAST… and lose that needy behavior NOW.

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