How Do You Get A Girl To Like You

You’ve snagged that first date and you can tell she’s as excited about it as you are. You have already gathered all the information on how do you get a girl to like you from your friends and from the experts. But take a deep breath: don’t get too excited yet. You still need to keep your cool and do everything in your power to show you are self-confident, have self-discipline, and have a great sense of humor.

Make sure you are doing everything you can to increase her attraction toward you. You’ll both be grateful. Here are some ways to increase the odds that she’ll leave your first meeting liking you more. It’s all about what to avoid on that first date:

How Do You Get A Girl To Like You:

1. Don’t talk too much. Talking too much — especially bragging and other talk about yourself  — is a major turn off. Your goal should be to make at least 70 percent of the conversation be about her. Show that you are a good listener, that you understand her and that, in her mind, will show you are also a good lover. If you blab about yourself, she’ll doubt whether you can give her good loving.

2. Don’t try too hard to impress her or spend a lot of money on her. That means avoid getting her flowers or gifts when you first begin dating. You don’t want to remind her of a smooth-talking salesman trying to get her to buy your wares. You show you are lacking in self-confidence if it appears you are trying to buy her affections.

Plus, any woman who responds to any of this positively is probably shallow and a waste of your time and money.

3. Don’t’ overindulge. Don’t drink too much, eat too much, or talk too much. That is a good rule of thumb to remember. Have restraint. Show self-discipline. Drinking too much makes you talk too much and impairs your judgment. Limit yourself to one or two drinks to relax but then draw the line.

4. Don’t mention the next date or actually, any future dates during your first meeting. Keep a little mystery about how much you like her and whether you are going to get together again. Always end that first real date with a kiss (so she knows that she’s not just a friend), but don’t mention seeing her next time. Don’t say you hope to see her soon. Simply tell her you had a great time and then walk away. Keep her wondering for a few days.

5. Don’t move too fast. If you are trying to speed up the physical side of your relationship, you will appear lacking in self-discipline. Most guys make this mistake. Take your time. Slow down.

At the same time, don’t move too slowly. Make sure every encounter you have with her is building toward attraction. Always escalate. Keep the physical part of your relationship gradually and steadily moving forward a notch each time you see each other. Otherwise, you could end up stuck in the dreaded friend zone.

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