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Seduction Technique
It’s going to be difficult to you to seduce a woman unless you have some understanding of how to touch the female body. One of the most effective seduction technique is touch.
The first step in touching a woman is what we call kino — the use of touch to arouse physical and emotional desire.
Understanding how to use kino is an important step in seducing a woman:
Seduction Technique Tips:
1. Be flexible and open to using different approaches and techniques with different women. Some women want to be touched more during the first few dates, while others prefer waiting until further on in the process to be touched that much.
2. Learn how to tell which type of women you are dealing with. So how do you know whether to hold off on much touching during the first few dates or whether she is craving your touch? Become knowledgeable in reading body language. If you know a bit about body language, you can tell when she likes what you are doing or whether she is closing herself off and wants you to back off.
3. Figure out how you feel about touch first. When you touch a woman, you want it to be completely natural, so take some time to examine how comfortable you are with touch. Are you the huggy type or more reserved? Do you touch other people often? Do you hug and kiss your friends in a touchy-feely way or do you keep that for intimate moments in private. Some people get uncomfortable if the clerk brushes their hand when she gives change. It all has to do with how you personally feel about it. There is no right or wrong way to feel, but understanding your take on touch will help you tailor your efforts at kino to something that feels and appears natural.
4. Understand what the most common mistake in kino is. Most men touch women too early. Many men long to touch the softness of a woman’s body and it sometimes is hard for us to hold back. What may seem natural to you seems like a lack of self-control to her. Learn how to hold back.
It’s normal for a guy to want to hug and squeeze and touch a pretty girl. That is a normal, natural desire. But guys have to fight that desire. Touching her too early does not spark desire in her.
5. A good rule of thumb to remember is to always make those first steps toward kino, light and brief. In other words, that first touch should be a light and brief touch to a body part that is not intimate.
For instance, you might touch her shoulder to get her attention, or even her hand. You could even brush by her and touch her back or arm. The key is to make sure the touch is not aggressive and that it does not linger. Remember light and brief touch for the first few attempts at kino.
If you follow these general guidelines for the first time you touch a woman, you will be leagues ahead of most guys out there.

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