Social Network Dating

QUESTION:

I like the idea of meeting the less attractive chicks with a huge social circle of hot chicks. Whats your success rate like?

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CARLOS XUMA ANSWERS:

This is an effective strategy, but you have to watch out for something that most guys aren't aware of.

Women are very conscious of status and appearances. We all are, actually.

We know when we see someone dating or working for the "less attractive" people, and it colors our perception of them. Sometimes on a level that we're not willing to admit.

I don't condone classifying people, but the reality is that this is something everyone does. We judge, we compare, and we do all the dark psychological evaluations you can imagine. And it's all done under the pretense of "rational" thinking.

So if you're talking about just approaching the "not as cute" girls to get to know their friends, sure, that works like a charm.

The funny thing is that the women I approach that may not be "10"s usually end up being more interesting, fun, and attractive on other levels.

Hmmm….

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