Tips on Getting a Girlfriend

One of the most helpful exercises to do if you want to know tips on getting a girlfriend  is examining how you look at the dating world.

Do you look at that giant pool of eligible women has a vast and endless ocean, or do you see it as a tiny pond where women are constantly being plucked away from you?

It’s all about whether you have an attitude or view of the dating world as one of scarcity or one of abundance.

One of my favorite tips on how to get a girlfriend helps guys figure out whether they are operating from a position of scarcity versus abundance.

Here are some questions to ask yourself to help you figure this out:

Tips on Getting a Girlfriend:

1. Do you see options in the world that are limitless? When you look around at the world, not just at the women in it, do you see very few options? Does it appear that your options are narrow and predetermined? Sometimes changing this perspective opens up a whole new host of possibilities to not only enrich your dating life, but help you lead a more fulfilling, satisfying life in general.

2. Do you look at the world as a place where there is enough success for everyone? Some guys don’t view the world this way. Instead, they find themselves green with envy when a colleague or friend succeeds. How do you view the world when it comes to success and whether there is enough to go around? Think about this. Write down your thoughts on paper if you need to.

3. Do you view success like a pie, where there are only so many slices available, and once it’s gone, it’s gone? IN other words, do you think that another guy having success with a girl means one less girl for you in the world? Do you think that once the pie tin is empty, you’ve lost out forever? If so, do you think this is a rational way to view success or dating? What can you do to alter this perspective?

4. Do you worry that when you lose out on attracting a particular woman, that you’ve lost an opportunity to have sex with someone?

Do you think that your opportunities to have sex are so few and far in between that you truly only have one shot a few times a year? Do you think that this might affect your ability to attract women, placing all that expectation on one woman in one situation?

These questions and more should help you determine how you view the world and how it affects your success with women. Think about ways you can change that viewpoint to help you become more successful with women and find a girl you can make your own, without putting all that extra pressure on her, making it a do or die situation.

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