The ability to attract more women lies is the persona you project to them. What that means is that your attractiveness to women is based on how they perceive you. Do they see you as a strong, confidence, alpha male or do they look at you as an insecure, needy, supplicating wimp. Maybe they see you somewhere in between these two types of guys.

If you want to capture more women into your life, then you need to tip the scale toward the alpha male persona.

The quickest and easiest way to do this is to “fake it until you make it.” What that means is that you need to concentrate on emulating some strong male role models that have traits and qualities that women like.

The safest way to do this is to find men to emulate who are appealing to a broad range of women and whose sex appeal has stood the test of time.

So, for instance, you might choose to emulate someone like James Bond or Harrison Ford or Clint Eastwood.

Here are some traits that these alpha males exhibit that you can also emulate and adopt when you are trying to attract women.

Attract More Women Traits:

1. An abundance of confidence. These men may have some areas of their life that aren’t perfect (i.e., Harrison Ford’s fear of snakes), but when it comes to women, they are oozing confidence. They are certain that women want them as much as they want the women. If there were some doubt deep inside, this type of man would never reveal it.

2. A sense of humor. This is one of my Three S’s (self-confidence, a sense of humor and self-discipline) that is necessary qualities to attract women. All three movie characters from above can make a dire situation funny. Even when they are balancing on the edge of disaster, they manage to look at it humorously.

3. He is sophisticated. These characters almost always choose quality over quantity – in how they spend their time and whom they spend it with. They go after the good things in life. They know a bit about the world. They don’t have to brag about their talents, either.

4. He has passion. The alpha male isn’t afraid to get passionate about what he believes in. It doesn’t mean irrational anger or a brutal temper. It means a guy who will stick up for what he believes in and won’t put up with someone else stepping on him.

The point is that you may not identify with any of these three movie characters, but you should find someone to be your role model. Look for someone – fictional or in reality – who exhibits qualities you wish you had.

Practice these behaviors, traits and qualities until they become a part of your own personality.

The most important thing you can do to affect how others perceive you is have an attitude that you are worth their time and attention.

When two people first start to date, rose-colored glasses can sometimes cloud our judgment. It becomes very difficult to tell whether she’s the one or whether you are just in the throes of lust and infatuation. The tips on how to get a girlfriend will give you clarity about these things.

Nearly every brand new relationship is exciting and that is why it is tough to tell whether you are headed for a short-term fling or a long-term romance.

Here are some tips either way:

Tips On How To Get A Girlfriend:

1. Keep an eye out for red flags. Consider her still on probation, no matter how wonderful she seems right now. You need to look for red flags and then determine whether any issues that crop up are deal breakers, obstacles you can overcome, or insignificant issues in the scheme of things.

Don’t for a second entertain the notion that you have a chance of changing her because you don’t. Even if you see some short-term changes, they may not last long-term and essentially only create resentment.

2. Parse out your dates sparingly. What this means is that when you first start dating causally, never date one woman more than once a week. If you do, you are raising the bar and setting up expectations. She will expect more from you and will even be looking for exclusivity way before you may be doing so.

Later on down the line, you might decide you want her for your girlfriend. That is the time to start getting together more often. If you don’t want a girlfriend, be sure the women you date know that from the beginning so you aren’t leading anyone on.

3. Always be building attraction. Each time you meet, your goal should be to increase the attraction she feels toward you. Always kiss son that first date and then make sure each subsequent meeting is escalating that attraction to longer kissing and so on.

Always be moving the attraction and physical intimacy forward.

4. Adopt an attitude of nonchalance. For at least the first 60 days of your dating life, stay kick back, lighthearted, and easy going. Don’t shower her with attention, gifts, or praise. Stay mellow. Don’t come on too strong. Don’t talk about how much you like her or that you are developing feeing’s for her. Keep all that close to your chest. Keep it fun and causal.

By following these tips on how to get a girlfriend, you are being honest and not leading anybody on. At the same time, you are stoking her attraction for you.

Another important thing you are doing by following these techniques is you are building a firm foundation to stand on if you do decide down the road that this woman will be your girlfriend.

This is a great way to figure out whether the two of you have a chance at long-term success.

Women are biologically programmed to be attracted to men who can take care of them. Even if today’s woman is the breadwinner and overachiever of the century, she still has a primitive impulse to be attracted to men who are providers. She can’t help it.

If you want to learn how to truly seduce her, then look at the following seduction techniques to make you both happy:

Seduction Techniques:

1. Act chivalrous. I don’t care if she’s the president of her own small country, get up, and open the doors for her first. Let her walk in first. Let her sit first. Pull out her chair. Let her do everything first.

Ask her what she wants to eat and then order it for her. Help her take on and take off her coat. Hang it up. Let her walk on the inside if you are on the sidewalk.

In addition, do all of this very casually and naturally. Don’t act like you are putting out the red carpet, just do it automatically. Do it for women everywhere all the time and it will come off as very natural.

Don’t make a big deal or big display out of your chivalrous actions.

2. Be bold and make the first move. You might like it when a girl takes charge, but you need to step up to the plate and beat her to it.

Of course, there may be times when a woman approaches you first, but don’t hold your breath waiting for that to happen. Most of the time, it is going to be up to you to act first.

You need to make sure you are completely comfortable taking the initiative, even with the most independent women. She still wants you to be a man. Accept that she wants you to be in charge. Then be in charge.

3. Become a flirt. Make being a flirt a part of who you are. Remember that flirting doesn’t need a sexual context. You can flirt with the little old lady next door. It’s all about appreciating someone for their unique personality and traits and letting them know you like that about them.

Make this appreciation for all women a part of your personality. That way it becomes natural and is appealing and not threatening or creepy.

4. Don’t date any one woman exclusively until you know you want to make her your girlfriend. By dating several women at once, you become more attractive without her even realizing why.

You are able to compare and contrast different behaviors this way. For instance, you can tell when one woman is being unreasonable based on how others you are dating respond to similar situations.

Dating more than one woman at a time helps you from fawning over women, as well. You don’t get so obsessed with just one woman and are able to keep yourself from stifling her or scaring her off.

After several months, of course, you might decide to pick one to date exclusively and you will feel very sure about your decision by then.

Be careful what you wish for because it might come true. Have you heard that saying before? I’ve heard a different variation that means the same thing, but appears to have even more power: Be careful what you put down on paper. The tips on dating advice for men will show you the traits that appears to be powerful to women.

Well, I say instead of being careful, as in being wary, think hard about what you want to be like and put that down on paper. Words have power. Whether it is the words we use in our own heads to talk to ourselves (self talk); the words we use in conversation with others; or the words we put down on paper, we should think carefully about what we are saying.

The power of putting words down on paper is a huge benefit to men who are looking for ways to bolster their self-confidence in the dating arena.

Dating Advice For Men Tips:

1. Make a list of the traits you either have and want to emphasize or the characteristics you are hoping to obtain.

For instance, your list might look like this:

• Clean
• High Integrity
• Good Provider/Successful
• Caring/Giving
• Great Dresser
• Flexible
• Chivalrous/Romantic
• Physically Fit/Healthy
• Emotionally Mature
• Intelligent/Perceptive
• Confident/Cocky
• Creative
• A Leader
• Self-Disciplined
• Spontaneous/Adventurous
• Growing
• A Good Listener
• HumorousEvery single guy out there on the single scene should take some time to make a list like this.

2. Remember that in the dating arena, you are the product and you are the sole salesman. Look at the dating world that way. Know why someone should be interested in you. Keep your list of traits in your wallet and review them frequently.

3. Have standards. You have your list now of what makes you a catch. Realize that a woman who can’t appreciate those qualities is the one who ultimately loses. Not you.

4. Research visualization and affirmation methods to bolster your self-esteem or help heal it if you have some deeper issues. Every single one of us can benefit from a self-esteem boost.

5. Set your boundaries and standards and stick to them. That means drawing your lines in the sand. Figure out what you will put up with and won’t put up with from other people. Stick to your guns. If you have this type of code or standard of behavior and expect others to live up to it, they will respect that and do so. If they don’t, they aren’t worth your time anyway.

This way, if someone mistreats you, they can either clean up their act or hit the road. It’s up to them once they know your boundaries.

If you look back on some of these tips, you’ll see there is a common theme running throughout them. It’s all about being the best man you can be. And although this is specific to the dating world, ultimately these behaviors and tips will help you lead a more satisfying and fulfilling life over all.

You’ve got her number in your phone and you’ve waited two days. Now is the time to call and set up that first meeting. Knowing good first date ideas is key to kicking off a successful relationship. This is a crucial step. This is make it or break it time.

 Good First Date Ideas Tips:

1. Making the call.

The first step in going on that first date is to set it up. The important thing to remember when you first call her is that if you don’t get her on the line during that first call, don’t leave a long drawn out message. Don’t talk about calling to ask her out. Don’t tell her how great she is and how much fun you had meeting her and how you can’t wait to see her again. Don’t do anything like that.

Instead, your message should basically be this: “Hey Cathy, this is Jack. We met at Dan’s party. Give me a call.”

Period. Short and sweet. Give her two days to return your call. If she doesn’t after two days, you can leave a brief message. “This is Jack. I thought we had a lot to talk about the other night and was hoping to continue the conversation. Give me a call.”

If she doesn’t return this second call, move on. Game over.

2. Asking her out.

When you are in contact with her, ask her first how she is. When she is done talking, say that your week was filling up but you still had Tuesday and Thursday night free if she was available. (Or whatever two nights you choose.) Only give her two options. If she likes you, she will make one of these options work. If there are extenuating circumstances (say she is out of town that week), you can say you’ll have to move into next week to arrange a time.

 3.Know Where Not To Go. Sometimes knowing where to avoid going is as important as deciding where to go. Before we talk about where to take her, let’s talk about places you should avoid:

* Strip club. This should be obvious, but you’d be surprised how many guys think this will go over. Of course, it doesn’t. Even strippers don’t want to go to a strip club on a date.

* Dinner and a movie. This is boring, trite, and gives you zero chance to really get to know one another.

 4. Where To Go. And last, but not least, let’s talk about where to go on that crucial first date. Here are some places to choose from:

• Coffee Shop
• Bar
• Café
• Beach
• Amusement Park
• Midnight picnic
• Art or museum exhibit
• Tourist attraction
• Your place for dinner
• Trendy new club
• Top of a skyscraper
• Sports game
• Walk through the park, on the beach, in the city, in the woods, etc.

These will give you some ideas, but the key is to brainstorm something that is creative and gives you a chance to build attraction and get to know one another.