Seduction Techniques That Work
You've Been Lied To About Seduction.
Women Actually WANT Men To Seduce
Them...
The 7 Principles of Seduction That You Won't Learn From Your
Dad...
CARLOS XUMA'S DESK: Wednesday 4:39 PM
Hey, I've got something uncomfortable I need to admit, and it has to do with
why most guys aren't as successful with women as they want. I'm going to come
back to this in a second...
But first, let me ask you something:
- Have you been working on your dating skills with women, but you feel like
you've only been getting a small part of the bigger picture...?
- Have you been trying to make changes in your habits and behavior - maybe
trying to get rid of your "nice guy" persona, but you just can't
seem to make these changes stick for very long...?
- Do you feel discouraged because you know what you SHOULD be doing when
it comes to dating women, but you keep falling back into old habits...?
- Do you want to have that "bootcamp" experience, but also keep
getting input and advice on a regular basis to keep yourself motivated...?
- Have you realized that you don't have the level of self-discipline you
need to be consistent...?
- Have you experienced some positive results with women from time to time,
and you could clearly see what made those moments work, but you only get
those results occasionally...?
- Have you ever felt like every day is an up-down roller coaster, and you
just can't keep up your determination and drive...?
- Do you ever feel like just giving up and quitting on yourself, even when
you know you shouldn't, but it just gets so difficult to continue without
support? Or guidance? And you don't know where to get it?
Well, let me tell you, you're not alone...
"Seduction..."
Are you afraid of that word?
Seduction is a very controversial and charged word, and it
carries a lot of baggage with it.
The dictionary defines
seduction as: "Persuade to have sex, have one's way with, take advantage
of."
Wow...
And even the nicer definitions say: "To allure, entice, tempt, beguile,
maneuver."
Any way you look at it, seduction sounds like something BAD.
But the reality is really nowhere near the standard "dictionary"
definition. Stick with me here for a minute or two and I'll tell you how seduction
is something completely different than you probably think...
You know, ever since I could remember, I always liked girls...
I had a crush on one girl in my 1st grade class
named Julie. Dark hair, dark eyes. Perfect pigtails.
I even called her up on the phone and asked
her over for dinner. Of course, her mom came over with her, and my parents
were there, so it wasn't exactly a romantic evening.
Hey, I was six years old!
You know what? My fascination with girls only got stronger as I got older...
And then, when I got into high school, I realized that there was more I wanted
from these girls, and that they had what I wanted.
And they seemed to KNOW that they had what I wanted.
And that's when the "Game" began.
I chased girls, trying to get them to like me and want me. Trying to get something
"off her..." Trying to "get to home base..." Trying to "score..."
But then I had one of those "flashbulb" moments when I was 18 that would
forever change the way I thought about this whole "sex" thing.
I had my girlfriend Lynn over, and she told me something that I will never
forget...
She said: "You know, girls want guys. We love doing it with guys."
I asked her: "So why is it such a big deal for chicks to give
it up?"
And she said: "Because if we gave it to you for free, it would
be easy.
You'd never enjoy it or appreciate it. We just want you to work a little for
it."
I thought about what she said, because while it was very simple and obvious,
her words also had some wisdom that was very easy to overlook.
If guys are essentially playing a game to get the same thing that women want,
then it's not all "bad" is it?
I was ashamed for years of my natural masculine desire for women, and that
shame stopped me from giving women the one thing they desperately wanted...
SEDUCTION.
Women WANT you to seduce them because they secretly ache for a man who can
take them on a magical journey of romantic temptation.
In fact, here's a secret about "seduction" that most guys do not know...
In fact, what we have is a game where women WANT men to think they are "seducing"
them, because this gives men what they want - the sex, the thrill of the chase
and winning the "game"...
AND this gives women what they want - the sex, the thrill
of being chased, and being "won..."
This is something that most guys almost never discover for themselves.
Let me say it again...
Women want the exact same things men want. They just have a different timetable.
But here's something else that l didn't discover until later...
Let me ask you this first: When you were a kid, did you ever want a toy so
bad that you couldn't sleep at night?
Of course you have. We all have.
It's like that kid Ralphie in the movie
"A Christmas Story." He wanted that Red Rider B-B gun so bad. And
when he finally got it, it was like he'd been given the Holy Grail.
What if he had asked his parents for that B-B gun and they just gave it to
him right away?
- No build up...
- No anticipation...
- No laying awake at night looking at the picture of the cowboy with the
Red Rider gun - and wishing he had one...
Do you think the same thrill would
be there?
No, it wouldn't.
Am I going to sit here and tell you that you need to wait for weeks
and weeks to seduce a woman...?
No Way.
And women don't want you to take too long either, because
that would make you seem a bit LESS sexually attractive.
The key to effective seduction is in learning how to give a woman the EXPERIENCE of wanting you and wanting you badly without having to wait for weeks to make
it happen.
It's not about the TIME to seduce a woman.
It's about HOW you seduce her.
I want to say that again, because it's so darn important...
It's not about spending a lot of time with a woman to get her to feel comfortable
getting physical with you.
It's about HOW you spend that time with
her.
There are quite a few ways to get a woman to feel this way with you. The one
way you don't want to have to do it is by having to buy her a drink, or bring
her flowers.
In fact, that will actually work AGAINST you. You see, the more you try to
"buy" her affections by making her feel obligated to like you, the
less she will actually want to do it.
And believe me, attraction is not something we consciously choose.
You're About To Learn The Secret To Getting Better With Women
That 90% Of The "Other Guys" Will Never Have...
First, let me ask you: Have you ever heard of this thing called "pickup
bootcamps?"
These are the two-night, intensive training sessions where guys go out with
an instructor and learn "pickup skills."
I've taught bootcamps in the field with guys, showing them how to improve
their skills approaching women and talking with women. And these guys all want
an answer to the same question...
"Why Can't I Get More Women Interested In Me?"
Well, I'm going to share with you a story about one of my students and his
experience with this learning process - and how he managed to cut down his
learning time by at least 80%. (Yes, his name is changed to protect the innocent...)
His name is Craig.
Craig was about 28 years old, decent looking, average build. He lived in New
York City, one of the biggest singles "hot-spots" in the world. You'd
look at him and think, this guy's not a model, but there doesn't seem to be
any reason why he couldn't get a date.
But that was the problem. He couldn't see a reason, and most
other guys couldn't either.
Well, in our training, I took him out into the field (to a couple clubs),
and it took me a little while to figure out what his challenge was, but it
was there, plain as day.
He Was Just "So-So..."
If you were looking at a woman's response to him on one of those earthquake
measuring machines, the pen just didn't move all that much.
- Craig's clothes were just a bit TOO average.
- Craig's conversation was fine, but it was a bit on the dull side.
- Craig's body language was average. Just a bit on the "not expressive" side.
- And his tone of voice and facial expressions were also just "everyday."
In other words, he had a lot of very small things that just
got in his way of feeling 1) good about himself, and 2) good about approaching
and meeting women.
Here's How To Go From Average to "WOW"
So what I did with Craig was to pinpoint just a few target areas (we started
with five, so he wouldn't feel too overwhelmed.) We made some small improvements
on each.
First of all, Craig was wearing polo shirts that were tucked in all the time,
with a pair of old running shoes. This is not good fashion.
So we went to a few good men's clothing stores and got him a quick upgrade
to his wardrobe. Nothing radical here, just a new pair of shoes, a cool belt,
and a couple good shirts. Instantly this changed his look for the better.
After that, we targeted the subjects and topics of conversations. Craig was
asking a lot of plain questions about the background of the women he was meeting,
instead of getting them involved emotionally with him right off the bat. Just
changing up his conversational style added huge improvements.
Next, I gave him some exercises to strengthen and improve the tone of his
voice. This took him a few minutes a day, and he got MUCH MORE attention and
interest based on this one thing.
Here's what you need to know...
Craig is the average guy that wants to learn these dating techniques and secrets.
I see him every day, and in every workshop or seminar, and he's 90%
of the guys that write in with questions. They're just missing a few small details.
He's only a few short steps away from breaking past his own inner hurdles.
And chances are, YOU have a few things in common
with Craig.
Maybe you've got just a few small things holding you back. You know you don't
need a full makeover, but you just want some methods to polish up a few areas
where you're not feeling confident about yourself.
The Secret To FAST Improvement In Your Game With Women...
Here's a little math trick that you can use - and you're going to find it
VERY cool... (Don't worry, we're not digging into algebra here!)
QUESTION: If you improve 5 different areas in a business just 15%
each, how much of a TOTAL increase will you get?
You might be tempted to multiply 5 x 15 to get 75 and assume
that's the answer, but that's the common mistake most people make. (I did too
when I first heard this)
The reality is that if you increase your results in 5 areas by 15% each, and
they're all connected...
ANSWER: You'll get 100% increase in results.
That's right. You will DOUBLE your results by the
power of compounding.
Now, you might not think that's so cool until you realize that this means
you ONLY need to make a small (15%) increase in just five areas
of your dating skills to get 100% more results.
That's DOUBLING your success, man.
I call this the "5 by 15" Rule.
And let's be honest here - 15% improvement is not hard at all,
is it?
You could do that in your sleep, couldn't you?
Well, that's what I do for guys. I show them how to make small (sometimes
LARGE) improvements to their game. And I do this by showing you ALL the different
ways that you can get better results in your game with women. There are a lot
of areas where you might need some work.
My friend, you won't just double the women you have in your life...
You should be able to easily triple and quadruple it.
Here are some of those target areas of dating that every man should be working
on:
8 Essential Dating Skills You MUST Have:
Dating Skill 1) Conversation
You must have a good idea of what to talk about with women. Most guys make
the fatal mistake of talking about facts and details of their life, or they
show off with accomplishments - instead of talking about the real topics that
stir a woman's soul. The art of attraction through conversation is probably
the most important tool in a man's dating utility belt.
Dating Skill 2) Kino - or Kinaesthetics
Kino is the art of touching. From hugs to hand-holding, or even casual touching,
you must have a solid understanding of what kind of touch is good, and what
will turn a woman off.
Dating Skill 3) Social Skills & Overcoming
Shyness
I've had quite a few guys that came through my bootcamps ask about how to
increase their social networks as well as their dating success. The fact is
that many guys feel shy and introverted around women - and in social situations
in general. You don't have to turn into the instant "life of the party" to
be more friendly and successful in your social life.
Dating Skill 4) Confidence, Attitude,
& Inner Game
Right up there on the top of the list is how you feel on the inside. It's
a bit of a corny saying, but we know that this projects to the outside world
more than anything. Your sense of self-confidence is the number one factor
that you can control to improve your results with women. And the best part?
It's easier to improve than some people may have led you to believe.
Dating Skill 5) Techniques, Tactics,
& Strategies
There are some who would tell you that if you have the right "inner game"
of confidence, that you don't need techniques or lines to talk to women. But
the reality is that every guy needs examples of openers and stories that
they can use in their own conversations to help them feel prepared to meet
women. I started out by learning and inventing various tactics and strategies,
and once I got my bearings and I could relax, I found I didn't need them
as much. But it's always good to have something to fall back on.
Dating Skill 6) Approaching Women
If there's one area that guys ask me about regularly, it's this one. Guys
want to feel confident about walking up and starting a conversation with a
woman. Not just this, but they want to do it RIGHT. From the angle you approach
her at, to your body language, to your opener... It all adds up to that first-impression
that you want to be a good one.
Dating Skill 7) Body Language
You have to look like you're confident in your body, not only in posture,
but how you move. Studies have also shown that how you handle your body language
also reflects back on your sense of self-confidence and self-esteem. There
are specific habits and gestures that you can use with your body language to
increase the respect and admiration you get from other people, as well as the
interest you get from women.
Dating Skill 8) Lifestyle
This is something I actually call the "Alpha Lifestyle." It simply
means that you're not just chasing girls all the time - you're working to make
your whole life an exciting adventure. You're keeping things moving, and you're
in touch with your own motivations, drives, and passions that give YOU a sense
of accomplishment.
And that ALWAYS translates into more attraction and interest from women.
And since there are so many guys out there with a need for this kind of guidance,
I created a regular coaching program would get them through
their ups and downs with women, and their own self-confidence, by keeping them "plugged
in."
And they all stayed with it, didn't quit and got significantly better with
women. (You can see some of their success
stories here...)
Here are some of the important things you're about to
learn in my report...
- Learn the 5 kinds of guys that women reject as "incompatible" -
and why you're out of the game if you show any of these behaviors...
- Why women test you - and why YOU must decide if you pass or fail so that
you don't fall into this deadly trap of relationships...
- How the "economics" of sex works, and what women and men use as their personal
"currency" for trade - this one understanding will save you from
falling into a depressing obsession with a woman you can't have...
- The true goal of seduction that 90% of guys miss, and the trap these guys
fall into...
- The "trump" card of all seduction - if you just succeed at this
one part of the process, you will out-perform most every "pickup artist"
out there...
- The 4 Steps of Seduction - including the 7-step "emotion progression"
model that you must follow to guide a woman into seduction - and how you
want to play your approach to win...
- The 8-Step Fast DayGame model - how to approach women and meet women any
time of day, and anywhere you go...
- The KEY to making conversation seem natural and un-forced - and ensure
that a woman will want to keep talking to you after you've approached her...
- What "token resistance" is - how women will sabotage your approaches
if you are not prepared - and how to blast past any woman that is
being difficult or uncooperative...
- 5 Keys to Conversation POWER with women - what to talk about, how you want
to communicate, and how to "sub-communicate" your confidence, strength,
and Alpha Male status - without looking like you're bragging or trying too
hard...
- Essential tools of seduction - the basic psychological strategies to use
in the early and mid-stages of meeting a woman to ensure that you get a high
level of attraction and a low level of resistance...
- 5 Key areas of her body you must stimulate with "kino" to communicate sexual
confidence and competence...
- The "Long Second" technique for accelerating a woman's natural desire to
get physical with you - how to distort time so that you don't raise any defenses,
and you also don't risk falling into the "friends only" bucket...
- 20 Fast & Easy steps to prepare your home, your car, and your confidence to
win the game of seduction - and why these steps are so essential to your
overall game that you can't afford to miss any of them...
- How to warm up your "conversation engine" so that you feel comfortable
and relaxed approaching and talking to women, and you communicate raw sexual
energy with your attitude...
- The 7 Principles of Connection - the essential laws of how to establish
a bond with a woman that will allow you to bridge from simply getting a woman’s
interest to facilitating her opening her heart to you...
- Why honesty really is your best policy with women, and why you
never need to lie or manipulate to get the sex life you deserve...
- How to achieve true comfort and trust with a woman - and it's not what
you've been taught!
- 3 Painful Compatibility KILLERS that you must get rid of - and how women
interpret these behaviors to mean - NO WAY...
- My Secret Technique (never before revealed) on how to avoid seeming like
you're TOO good to be true and scaring away women that might talk themselves
out of a good thing...
- The Passive Avoidance Game that women play with
you - how it works, how you fall for it without realizing it, and how to
never get caught in this trap again...
- The 3 Worst methods to use when approaching women (and 85% of guys do this all
the time) - and my Perfect Approach Method - the guaranteed way to start
a conversation with a woman (or women) and they simply cannot reject or refuse
you. With 2 of my best examples, transcribed word-for-word...
- 6 Rules of Seduction you must obey - including how to get into soul-searching
and deep conversations that will leave a woman breathless - and speechless...
- My "Redirect" technique for launching a pre-emptive strike and
avoiding a woman's tests before they even start - AND how to turn the situation
into a chance to test her...
- Why you must never play the "micro" game of seduction - and how to take
care of your small indicators of status and confidence by not even thinking
about them...
- How to win the inner game and stop your worrying and fears of rejection by
adopting one simple mental habit that will turn off the negativity
once and for all...
- 8 Key Strategies of Seduction -
- Your starter seduction toolkit - the 3 vital elements you must have prepared before you go out in the field to meet women...
- The 25 Alpha Male Attitude Affirmations - Learn the essential perspective
and the difference in how dominant men think and feel...
- The Life Philosophy of the successful ladies man - and
the two distinctions that explain the reasons most men don't achieve what
they want with women - and why the other guys do...
- And much more...
This ebook is going to give you a significant edge over 90+% of the average
guys out there, and you'll have a HUGE advantage over most of the "pickup artists"
out there that you will be competing with.
And instead of giving this book to you for the original price of $67.00, or
even the discounted price of $47.00 for being one of my preferred subscribers...
I'm going to let you have it for only $17.
A Killer 40 Page E-book For Only $17...?
What's the "catch"?
I'm going to tell you about something that I've been at work on. I think of
it as being my "secret weapon..."
A lot of guys think that if they just read an e-book, they'll be instantly
successful with women. Well, that's only partly true - and mostly false.
You see, what happens is that after you read an ebook, your attitude improves,
and you feel better about the knowledge you have about women. So you're willing
to risk a bit more, and you come across with a different "vibe" and "energy"
to women. This creates more attraction in women, and so on.
But most often, this healthy and confident vibe doesn't last.
Why?
Because most guys never add in the secret ingredient that keeps them motivated
and learning - and ACCOUNTABLE to themselves to keep up these new habits that
get them success.
The secret ingredient is called COACHING.
This Is Why Coaching Is So VITAL To Your Success With Women...
When I was first getting started on the path to building my confidence and
success with women and understanding social situations, one of the single most
important things that I did was to get consistent information that built on
what I'd learn and helped me get ahead even further.
Look... I put in a lot of hard work and dedication to get this success - but
the fact is that if I had to do it over again, I wouldn't want to try
and figure it all out on my own - ALONE. My biggest breakthroughs came from learning and
observing other people and then trying things out on my own. And most of the
time things wouldn't work out right off the bat. The best part is that I can
save you most of that effort.
Getting regular information, techniques, and motivation is vitally important...
I can't tell you how many YEARS of time and effort this cut off of my learning
curve... or even if I would have EVER had any success without getting this
additional layer of understanding.
Because this is so important, I created my Advanced Coaching Program to keep
you motivated.
I'll coach you in building your dating and attraction skills,
building up your confidence and self-esteem...
...as well as teaching you some of the most important lessons I had to learn
by hard knocks along the way.
Every month I give you over 120 minutes of audio and video information - and
exercises - to build up your confidence and skills with women, as well as point
out how to create a powerful Alpha Lifestyle - where your confidence and approach
skills serve you instead of hold you back.
Here's What You Get...
Imagine
attending a regular seminar every month with an experienced dating consultant
that would give you specific how-to information on improving
your dating and sex life. Imagine that this expert would provide
you with the concrete skills to advance and get what you want from women.
Not just fluffy motivational talk, but specific details of
what to wear, how to prepare, how to talk to women... you name it.
Not only do you get the regular sessions as a Preferred Subscriber, you also get
BONUS segments that no one else hears, along with a mini-e-books.
This e-book gives you motivation, field reports, articles, and analysis that
you won't get anywhere else.
SPECIAL V.I.P. BONUS: Every 7 months on the Advanced Coaching program, starting with your 7th session, you will get a FREE copy of one of my Premium E-book Courses. That's right, you'll receive a complimentary copy of one of my best e-books on dating tips and techniques - and another every 6 months. ($47 value). Just my way of letting you know that you're one of my PREMIUM VIP members.
Covering all the ins and outs of dating and seduction...
- From communicating with women to meeting women
to understanding how to attract women
- From building a single long term relationship to dating a
woman ... or WOMEN - as many as you have time for
- Build your male self-confidence and self-esteem - to show
her your Alpha Male strength
- Theories with specific dialogue examples on
what to say when you meet girls
- Background research with the latest in motivational techniques to
develop your self-confidence and positive attitude with women
- Fast techniques for seduction, as well as how
to woo and charm her with your charisma
- How to get a girlfriend, or be a player and score with women - You
choose your goal!
- How to read body language and flirt
- How to attract women with your personality instead of
your wallet or your car
- Free again? Dating after divorce or breakup
- Dating rules that work for meeting women
- What she's thinking - meet and attract women with real
psychology of influence and persuasion
- Conversation style - How to talk to women
Over 100 Minutes of Dating Tips & Secrets - Video & Audio -
EVERY MONTH...
There's dialogue and examples galore of how to talk to women,
as well as a breakdown of key concepts.
Motivating, insightful, and humorous - this
is what guys everywhere have been asking for. Now this Advanced Dating Advice
is ready for you!
Topics are covered individually each month, giving you complete concepts
and building on your current skills to peak performance.
Here are examples of the secret dating tips and techniques
you will learn in your Advanced Coaching sessions:
- APPROACH STRATEGIES - Conversational
style, how to "Bookend" your approach to remove approach anxiety, Why most
approaches fail, how The Gap prevents you from using memorized material,
the use of Passion in conversation, The List of 20 Exercise, Storytelling
example, How to related to her through feeling and sensation, How to change
the subject, bridging, and more...
- BUYING TEMPERATURE - How to leverage
her interest level in you, the Two Levels of Attraction she will feel, The
Slut Complex, What creates her view of sex, Raising her interest level, Buyer's
regret, Tools to raise her interest level, such as magic, humor, Why you
can't use jokes, playful kino, dancing, Why you must raise her energy level,
and more...
- ESCALATION MINDSET - How escalation
fits in the initial attraction model, Why you are ruining your approaches
by playing it safe, How a woman shows her interest, How to cure your uncertainty,
Reframing rejection, using pain in motivation, How to escalate without fear
of failure, and more...
- ATTRACTION TYPES - The Librarian - Focusing
on the quiet, introverted woman - and how to appeal to her desires, Understand
her qualities, Recognizing the Librarian type, Why she appeals to men, What
subjects to discuss, how to arouse her attraction, what subjects you must
build with her, her personality type, where to find her, What you may not
see on the surface, and more...
- ALPHA LIFESTYLE: K.I.S.S. - Learn how
to simplify your life, how complexity works against you and your positive
attitude, why you must be original in your style, simplicity strategies such
as reducing clutter, scheduling, stacking events, un-cluttering your mind,
the Universal In-box, Elimination list, financial self-control, gain more
time, how to reduce stress and anxiety, the one word that will give you back
more free time, and more...
- ALPHA EXERCISES: - Creating
your customized statement of life purpose, how to create affirmations that
WORK, how to reinforce it effectively so that it sticks, example, and more...
- CONVERSATIONAL GAMBITS: Storytelling -
How to avoid the try-hard vibe, what storytelling communicates and how it
works, Questions you can use to evoke emotional involvement, How to get her
to tell you her stories, Qualifiers, what you must never let a woman do if
you want your approach to work, How a woman avoids involvement in the conversation
and how to recognize it, examples of evocative language to use when you talk
with women, and more...
- MULTIPLE RELATIONSHIPS/FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS -
If you're looking to date more than one woman you must know these strategies,
the two different 'sorts' a woman performs based on your approach, the energy
you must communicate with, why she will think you're a player, How to keep
it real, What you absolutely MUST give women to keep multiple relationships,
The Joker Gift, and more...
- I cover these topics and many more each month...
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to download and use, and VERY
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- No more waiting weeks for a CD to arrive in the
mail...
- No extra/hidden costs for shipping and handling - or mangling in
the mail...
- No extra costs for CD production - the savings go back to you...
You can even listen to your coaching sessions on any portable
MP3 player - like an iPod or Zune, so you can learn while
you're in the car, on the bus, working out - anywhere! We
also give you instructions with your subscription to show you how to burn
the coaching to CD so you can play it in your stereo or in your car.
Take a Sneak Peek Inside:
I'm now including
VIDEO with each month's coaching...
These
segments cover the visual aspects of dating and attraction
with women – such as body language, expressions, opening
and approaching, style, appearance, kino (how to touch), and more...
I'll explain the most difficult areas of pickup and how to attract women
with a clear, effective style. You'll get advanced techniques
and explanations of the most subtle tricks and tips for deep
impact with your dating skills.
The video segments are in Quicktime format that can be played on any
computer that has the free Quicktime player, and you can even play them
on your iPods or iPhone (Quicktime is available
for free from Apple)
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Here's What You'll Learn In Just The First 2 Advanced Coaching
Sessions:
- Effective communication skills and techniques
with women (and mixed groups) - to handle the interpersonal dynamics...
- Techniques for gaining attraction and rapport with women
in the shortest period of time...
- The Secret Truth about women and cheating, and the two kinds of cheating
that women recognize - as well as which she will forgive, and the one she
won't...
- How to use cold reading to establish a connection
in a conversation - breaking through to rapport as fast as possible...
- Using challenge with women effectively - How to test women
- specific questions that will get her to understand your Alpha masculinity...
- The nature of limiting beliefs, and deep attraction...
- How to use qualification effectively - for your own benefit as well as
to create attraction in women...
- The secret to "jamming her radar" so that you can get the best
opportunity for success...
- Specific phrases to use with women to demonstrate that you are coming from
a stronger and more confident frame of belief and confidence...
- How to email women and not come across as wussy
or needy and insecure...
- The role of mystery with women - the way it works in their
psychology, and how you get her more addicted to you by using it...
- How to show the best body language to appear and feel
confident around women...
- Maintaining mental distance from your target so that you
don't fall into "one-itis" or the unhealthy obsession with one
woman...
- Developing persistence and a good attitude
along the way - how to cultivate a powerful frame of confidence...
- How to prepare your house or apartment for dating and
seduction...
- Handling guys that try to make you look like
a dork - busting their game before they try to break yours...
- Confidence strategies for keeping up a healthy and strong
inner game...
- Specific techniques and opening lines to use
when you talk to women - and the understanding so that you can "build your own" for
authenticity and genuine approach comfort...
- Where to find women - the best locations and
the best...
- Avoiding that dreaded "paralysis of analysis..."
- How to approach women effectively and without
fear of rejection...
- Conversational techniques to keep things fun and exciting...
- Interviews with women and other dating experts - for perspective
and the "insider" information on how women view men...
- The "inside" tricks of how women think, and how you
can understand women...
- The rules for being a confident Alpha Man in today's society
- so that you communicate confidence without appearing to be a "chauvinist" or
"politically incorrect..."
EIGHT bonuses to keep -- no matter what.
My intent is to make sure you have EVERYTHING you need to improve your
dating skills way beyond where you are now. And, as part of this special offer,
you will get the following EIGHT
Valuable Bonuses that will help you get there...
BONUS #1 - Bonus session of
Audio Coaching
I am offering bonus audio coaching session with every order. This is another
100+ minutes of strategies and tactics to help you date more
and get more successes along the way.
BONUS #2 - Mini E-book every month
The mini e-book comes as a companion to my sessions and is free with
all orders accepted during the special launch celebration. This reference
will cover material in a written format and guide you through
the sessions. You'll also get more advice and tips on how
to use the information.
BONUS #3 - Teleconference calls with Carlos
Xuma
As a subscriber, you will get access to the dating advice teleconference
calls with EXCLUSIVE Q&A from Carlos Xuma.
You can use these sessions to get understanding and answers to your own
specific dilemmas and problems.
BONUS #4 - Access to Podcast Archive 1 through
30
Through this special one-time offer, you can get the first 30
podcasts Carlos has made, since the first day! This is over
900 minutes of additional advice and tips, giving you all kinds
of useful information.
BONUS #5 - Unlimited access to the Alpha
Power Forum
Our customers also get immediate access to our
members-only message board and join an exclusive group
of like-minded individuals on the same path to success with women. It's
just like the Master-Mind group that Carlos talks about in the programs.
BONUS #6 - BONUS Audio every month
Around the middle of each month, I'll send you another bonus
segment to keep you motivated and improving. This way you
get an "allowance"
through the month to keep you going with regular strategies and motivation.
These bonus segments are exclusives - ONLY for subscribers to the Advanced
Coaching program.
BONUS #7 - Bonus PREMIUM Content
You'll have access to my additional videos, articles and other premium
content that I only release to my Advanced Coaching Members.
One thing I'm known for is releasing a lot of material so that you have
a lot to choose from. With your membership, you'll never miss anything
I release. And you'll be able to find it easily in your member's area
anytime you login.
BONUS #8 - VIDEO
NEW! I'm now including a bonus
video each month for the subscribers. You'll learn how to do
things right by SEEING it performed for you on your screen. From approaches
to body language, from style and grooming to facial expressions, you'll
get visual advice on how to improve your presentation and look. Now
it's not just audio - it's VIDEO, too...
BONUS #9 - Discount on existing and
future products
I'm going to offer you a 10% discount on
your next program, as well as additional bonus offers in the future.
Also, the AAC subscribers get the first opportunity to get new programs
and content that I release. Exclusive only for Advanced Coaching
Program VIP Subscribers... |
This is my secret "side project..."
It's no secret that I offer a high-power subscription program to my Advanced
Coaching series. This is THE best method to get yourself on a path to improving
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membership or some form of accountability to working on their dating skills
consistently always have much higher success than the guys who take the "hit
and miss" approach.
For the last several months (and for the forseeable future) I've been adding
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Look, I know, times are tough for everybody. financial obligations are everywhere.
That's why I made this offer completely risk free for you..
Try my Premium Advanced Coaching Program out for only 17.97.
That's it.
Here's what you get for your VIP Package:
- Over 110 minutes of audio - new sessions every month -
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on the path to better dating skills with women...
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need to SEE instead of hear, as well as giving you motivation and a clear
understanding of all the concepts and techniques...
- Free monthly ebooks to deepen your understanding of how women work, what
women want, and
- Bonus exercises - Sometimes it's just not enough to read
something or hear it once or twice. You might need to learn with some of
my special exercises designed to deepen your understanding and really plant
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- Access to my premium articles blog - You'll have access
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- Mid-month bonus audio segment - On the 15th of each month,
I even add on some bonus material for you to learn and tide you over until
the next session...
47.00 - FREE copy of the 40 page "7
Principles of Seduction" Special Report - With all the information
you see above, explaining the core principles of how to seduce women with
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you feeling creepy or weird...
PUT THIS IN PERSPECTIVE...

And I'm afraid that things only get more expensive from there,
my friend.
Seventeen bucks is actually a bargain you can't afford NOT to take.
Every time you buy a woman a drink and you get nowhere, you're throwing
money away.
It's time to develop the skills that will work for you and
LAST YOU A LIFETIME.
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If that dinner for two doesn't work out, that's almost fifty bucks flushed
down the toilet, never to be seen again. And I'm here to tell
you that before I learned how to really work the game of dating, I flushed
that money down the drain at least once a week. All because I didn't
know what I should be doing to get the girl interested in me.
By the way I normally charge over $250 PER HOUR for
consulting and one-on-one coaching, or over $1000 per day.
You'll get over 2 hours ($500 in consulting fees) of my training secrets and
tips to review, as well as more tips and techniques all the time. You'll get
the equivalent of a complete seminar in just a few months - thousands
of dollars of value for
you.
Have you ever wasted $50 on a dinner date with a woman that went NOWHERE?
I'm raising my hand on that one. I used to do it all the time.
Think of all the approval you've tried to buy in the past with dinners
and drinks and dates that went nowhere...
You'll get $500 worth of my coaching for a measly 60
cents a day. That's cheaper than your morning Starbucks,
I guarantee it.
- Can you find 60 cents a day to be a part of an education that will help
you build your confidence with women, show you what to say and how to say
it, and how to understand women and their games?
- Can you find 60 cents a day to join an elite group of men who are honing
their skills, pursuing their passion of getting better with the opposite
sex?
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Invest in yourself. Learn the secrets that will save you that time
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Think about it this way: Imagine having a check for $1,000,000 to give to
a woman. She won the lottery, and YOU get to give her the check for her winnings.
Would you feel weird about walking up to her and presenting the prize to her?
Would you be embarassed?
No way! You'd be THRILLED to give her the fantastic
prize.
Well, guess what?
YOU are worth WAY MORE than
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with a milion anymore. Houses in suburban California cost more than $500,000
these days.)
Maybe you don't believe that right now, but you soon will. You're going to
learn methods that make women BEG to spend more time with you.
Techniques to get her to buy things for YOU - instead of the other way around.
Tactics to fill up your social calendar with more women than you can possibly
meet or date. And you'll even have women getting jealous and fighting over
your time just because you're in such high demand.
We call this a "high quality problem." And it's one you want to have,
don't you?
I'm sure you can see the incredible value in this program. Compare the measly
60 cents a day to achieving your lifetime goal of attracting the kind of beautiful
women you deserve to have in your life.
There's really no comparing it.
Having the skills to get the women you want in your life is PRICELESS.
Each month you're going to get new tips and strategies. You'll also get access
to videos and articles, and my archives. I'll send you some of my classic podcasts
and bonus audio seminars and programs. I'll also be sending you bonus ebooks
from my personal library.
You're going to be armed to the teeth.
You'll be able to deal with ANYTHING
a woman throws at you.
I'll share my best opening lines, storytelling secrets, persuasion tips, guru
interviews, techniques and theories - everything I've used in my aresenal to
get success with women.
For a single night or lifetime, the choice is yours...
Remember, you're not obligated here. I'm not asking you to sign some contract
or obligate you to a lifetime of fees or any of that stuff.
Just try my program out for only 17.97. If you like it, you
get to keep it ALL for no extra charge.
-
The 7 Principles of Seduction 40 Page Special Report E-book...
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The 2 free sessions of the Advanced Coaching (over three hours of audio...)
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The bonus audio session...
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The free bonus coaching ebook for Sessions 1 and 2.
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The unlimited access to my premium blog and articles database...
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The bonus podcasts...
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And MUCH more...
And you'll also be able to continue on as my student in the program for as
long (or short) as you like at the discounted rate of just $17.97 per month. The
regular subscription rate is $24.97.
But I've got a special deal for you.
You will save 28% off the regular price for as long as you care to
stay in the Advanced Coaching Program...
And if even if you're one of the rare and few guys who doesn't find this program
helpful - or you just fine that you want to take a break, you just let me know
and I'll cancel your subscription, and we'll part as friends.
You can even do it after the first month. There's no obligation or set time
limit.
No hassles, and no guilt trips.
I'll cancel your membership immediately upon request.
(I always hate it when I try to call or write in to cancel a service and I
get an operator bugging me to "stay on just a little longer..." So
none of those head games.)
Fair enough?
It's my hope that you'll see the incredible value in this program, and what
it has to offer you in ongoing coaching and regular followup.
Your 90-Day DOUBLE Risk-Free Guarantee
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#1: If you're not absolutely thrilled,
just erase all the files and contact me for a 100%
refund. No questions. No hassles. 100% satisfaction
guarantee.
If you aren't getting the results you want, you can contact me for
a refund. And we'll part as friends... |
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Protection
#2: Even if you cancel, your efforts
won't be for nothing. You'll get to keep the first two
Advanced Coaching Bonus Sessions as my way of saying "Thanks." That's
a guaranteed
gain, no matter what you decide. |
| ...I literally take ALL of the risk for
you because that's how much I believe in this program. |
*** WAIT
- This part is important... ***
I'm
offering a 28% discount as part of this offer you see today.
Instead of paying the full price of $24.97 you will pay only
$17.97 per month.
But be aware that
this price is limited to my capacity for subscribers on the program.
I
am only opening up another 150 memberships for the program.
I
will not sacrifice my reputation for outstanding customer
service by biting off more than I can chew.
So get your free copy of this report, and all the bonuses, and all
the audio, and all the extras, just by trying the "Advanced
Coaching Program" today - and
get your 28%
discount.
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Don't Take My Word For It - Here's The Proof...
With so much useless stuff floating around the Internet these days, I can totally
understand some hesitation. However, I want to show you what some of my existing
subscribers have to say about the Advanced Coaching Series
program over
the last 8 years. (Yes, I've been helping guys get success with women for over
8 years, so you can be sure I'll be around for you.)
Click
here to read my student's testimonials.
And for more proof: Click
here to read and LISTEN what the other
gurus have to say about my work.
And, don't forget -- if you JOIN
MY INNER CIRCLE
TODAY , your "Advanced Coaching Program" program
will include EIGHT Valuable Bonuses:
- 7 Principles of Seduction Ebook Special Report
- Bonus Audio Coaching Session
- Advanced Coaching Mini E-book
- Teleconference calls with Carlos Xuma
- Access to Podcast Archive 1 through 30
- Unlimited access to the Alpha Power Forum
- Bonus Audio every month
- VIDEO every month - NEW!
(BONUS: Membership discount on all existing and future products from
Carlos Xuma.)
Try out the "Advanced Coaching Program" program
and improve your overall dating skills. When you use these dating tips and
attraction secrets, you will SEE exactly how much these techniques work.
Act
now -- and claim the EIGHT Valuable Bonuses before this promotion
ends.
Sincerely,

Carlos Xuma
P.S. You know that learning
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"There
is something about hearing the words spoken by the master..."
"Great work on the Advanced Coaching Program series! That is a fantastic
idea... There is something about hearing the words spoken by the master
that adds greatly to the learning experience.
Once again, I am IMPRESSED!"
- D.S.
"It's much nicer to hear rather than
read..."
"After being on your newsletter for sometime before purchasing I can
honestly say I'm pleased I did so. There is critical
information on your Advanced Coaching Program sessions,
which you can't get in an email. It's much nicer to hear rather than
read..."
- E.H.
"I wish I had some of this info 10
years ago..."
"I can't begin to tell you how much I wish I had some of this info 10
years ago. This is common sense stuff but which is hard
to do on your own due to years of other inputs. The
coaching helps remind you of common themes to draw upon effortlessly
when needed. The info is new, fresh, yet classic just the same."
- A.D.
"The Advanced Coaching Program series
helped me to increase self-confidence even further"
"I've found the Advanced Coaching Program series extremely useful... I
now see why I've had the successes that I've had in
the past and why the failures have happened. The Advanced
Coaching Program series has reinforced that and has given me more ideas
about how to increase self-confidence even further... It's onwards and
upwards from here and I'm confident of many more successes in the future."
- A.C., New Zealand
"Advanced Coaching Program Sessions
go much much deeper into the various dating issues..."
"I wanna say that The Dating Black Book was simply superb! I have to
say that I was skeptical at first regarding the Advanced Coaching sessions
coz I thought what else could possibly be covered after I've read the
Dating Black Book. But after taking the plunge, I realized that I was
wrong - the Advanced Coaching Sessions are refreshing and
that it goes much much deeper into the various dating issues. I
highly recommend to all budding Alpha males!"
- AM, Singapore
"It's like having your own support
group behind you..."
"The information in your audio course is priceless! Your
material deals with becoming a better man, destroying the myths surrounding
your own ideas of a man and setting you free to have great success with
both women and life.
...The monthly AUDIO COACHING is awesome too. Its like having your own
support group behind you, edging you towards success in
both life and with women."
- Graham in the U.K. |

You've seen and heard Carlos
Xuma on:
- ABC Television
- David DeAngelo's Interviews with Dating Gurus
- Maxim Radio
- World Talk Radio
- "Sex with Emily" radio show
- "Rock Talk" radio show
- The Cliff's List Seminar
- Summum Magazine
- Neil Strauss' StyleLife Academy for "The Game"
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Igor
is NOT afraid for his 'dating future' anymore...
"I'd
know, there's a lot of a similar material out there in the world. Personally
I'm too introverted person, and I decided to get further in 'Dating World'
... [I got] some of your older 'advanced coaching program'. Your voice
sounds so self confident ...I thought: 'This guy Carlos
knows very well, about what he's saying!' English is not my
mother language, so I have to listen it thru at least 5-7 times to understand
it quite well. I must tell you: I've already made one approach
to a lovely girl and I was more successful then would be before... Someday
I feel very 'Alpha', the other day again just 'Beta'. But, I'm not afraid
for my 'dating future' anymore (thanks to you)!"
- Igor D., Slovenia |
Paul
is now more relaxed and secure with women...
"In
the past, I've had problems in relationships where I KNEW what to do
and how to do it, but I would go on for months without acting on it.
Like a whisper, the 'alpha' part of me was not easily heard in the crescendo
of wishful thinking and a scarcity outlook. Thanks Carlos for giving
me back my desire to dream, dream big, and have many dreams
through your Advanced Monthly Coaching Series! I am now more relaxed
and secure with women at parties, dates, and everyday contacts."
- Paul |
Simon
finds Advanced Coaching to be positive, healthy and totally inspirational...
"A
few years ago I was obsessed with the whole PUA thing. I studied the
seminars, did the live 3 day bootcamps with the gurus, read the ebooks
etc, even wrote my own stuff on the net. I got to the point where I was
able to go out to any club and KNOW I could pick up a girl and get laid.
I could break into sets, tool AMOG's, create attraction, get numbers,
do phone game, close the deal. I was able to pick up 18-19 year olds
with ease and I was 33 at the time. I guess you could say I managed
to do the stuff and get the desired results.
However the strange thing was it made me depressed over time. I think
it was the overall basic outlook on life that accompanies that PUA universe
plus the meaninglessness of it all. I could do it, but so what? I later
realized that it just didn't gell with who I am, my values and outlook,
or my real goals. So I dropped it all completely.
When I saw that your course came with a months subscription to the alpha
male lifestyle stuff my reaction was 'Oh NO! Not that sh*t, where do
I cancel my subscription?'
But having listened to the downloads I'm totally impressed.
Your material is POSITIVE and HEALTHY; totally inspirational and uplifting.
Well done mate for giving this material a whole new spin."
- Simon H. |
"The information on the AAC is priceless.
Carlos shares his wise insights on so many different
topics in a practical, no-nonsense way. His focus on
inner game and the proper mindset helps you improve not only your dating
and social skills but the overall quality of your life.
Guys, your understanding of the world and your belief system represent
the foundation for everything you undertake. No newly acquired skills,
techniques or routines are going to work if you are not in the proper
state of mind.
There is no game without inner game. For me, this is the type
of mentoring you receive from a father figure. Good advice is
hard to find in today's information-saturated world, so go for it and
help keep it available for a long time!"
- V.C., Germany
"I have now had the Advanced Coaching for a couple of weeks. And I am
very impressed with it. It gives details on many things
to think about when talking to a woman... I intend to
listen to it many times... This is incredible..."
- A.M.
"I've found the advanced coaching series extremely useful... I
now see why I've had the successes that I've
had in the past and why the failures have happened. The advanced
coaching series has reinforced that and has given me more ideas about
how to increase self-confidence even further... It's onwards and upwards
from here and I'm confident of many more successes in the future."
- A.C., New Zealand
"This program does nothing but keeps you motivated and encouraged it
makes you feel like you are on a journey. Many products seem to feed
you tactics because thats what they feel the consumers want. Tactics
are fine but they are a small part of becoming successful in dating.
Carlos realizes this so he will give you these tactics but more than
that he gives you a set of attitudes, beliefs and a sense of direction.
He makes it clear that this is a learning process and that he
is going to be there every step of the way to help us out (and
he does give you the steps). What he has done with this program is encourage
us to improve our lifestyle and not just focus on women but on every
area of our life..."
- E.R.
"I'm a 44 year old man in my second marriage. I started to recognize
several wuss patterns in my relationship... I realized that i had to
examine what it was in me that was making this happen again.
After some soul searching, I was able to accept that I wasn't as Alpha
as I thought I was. Then, as the old saying goes, the master
appeared when I was ready to learn.
Since listening to your podcasts and subscribing to your Advanced Coaching
series, I have not only been able to turn my marriage around, I have
also been able to better support the 47 women
in my office and really get a great handle on my life.
Thanks Carlos for everything..."
- C. W.
"There's nothing say except that everything that Carlos is teaching is
of immense value, I mean IMMENSE..."
- Salim A.
"The monthly coaching programs have been a tremendous
help over the past 4+ years, not only in my love life, but in
life in general..."
- Greg F.
...and this is just the tip of the iceberg. Click
here to read even more testimonials. |
"Required
to be successful with women..."
"This is so much more than another dating tip or advanced macking series
- you show people how to take control of their lives and use
the women angle as the carrot, which is missing
in a lot of self-help programs I've studied in the past.
You present what is required to be successful with women and so much
more."
- C.
"I wish I had learned about it first
and saved some money..."
"I have bought virtually every product on the market on the topic of
dating and seduction. I've also attended seminars and workshops to improve
my skills in these areas...
I wish I had learned about Carlos Xuma's products first and saved myself
some money.
In his audio coaching series and in his ebooks Carlos teaches
you the skills, attitudes and beliefs to succeed not
only with women, but with everyone. Become an Alpha
Man and you will be a success in life..."
- RT, Los Angeles
"Fantastic monthly audios..."
"Hey Carlos, fantastic monthly audios. I've recently moved abroad on
my own and the motivation and inspiration I get from these audios has
not only kept me going but helped me to push myself to become
who I choose to be... Much appreciated Carlos"
- Graham, UK
"You don't let things like your ego
get in the way..."
"I have to compliment you on your keen awareness of how to handle
women in certain steps of the dating continuum.
Your analogies and philosophies get better every month in your advanced
coaching program and it helps me obtain a clearer perspective on how
to handle situations that arise.
Unlike so many of the other gurus, you don't let things like your ego
get in the way..."
- P.
"I bring confidence to the table
not only at dates..."
"Carlos, thanks so much for your advice! I feel myself changing
and molding into a better self. I bring confidence to the table
not only at dates, bars, parties, but also at work. People see that I
mean business and that I'm on my own path to personal greatness. I'm
coming into a promotion very soon and also getting random job offers!
People see the passion!"
- C.K. |


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