CARLOS XUMA'S DESK: Wednesday 4:39 PM
Hey, I've got something uncomfortable I need to admit, and it has to do with why most guys aren't as successful with women as they want. I'm going to come back to this in a second...
But first, let me ask you something:
Well, let me tell you, you're not alone...
Are you afraid of that word?
Seduction is a very controversial and charged word, and it carries a lot of baggage with it.
The dictionary defines seduction as: "Persuade to have sex, have one's way with, take advantage of."
And even the nicer definitions say: "To allure, entice, tempt, beguile, maneuver."
Any way you look at it, seduction sounds like something BAD.
But the reality is really nowhere near the standard "dictionary"
definition. Stick with me here for a minute or two and I'll tell you how seduction
is something completely different than you probably think...
I had a crush on one girl in my 1st grade class named Julie. Dark hair, dark eyes. Perfect pigtails.
I even called her up on the phone and asked her over for dinner. Of course, her mom came over with her, and my parents were there, so it wasn't exactly a romantic evening.
Hey, I was six years old!
You know what? My fascination with girls only got stronger as I got older...
And then, when I got into high school, I realized that there was more I wanted from these girls, and that they had what I wanted.
And they seemed to KNOW that they had what I wanted.
And that's when the "Game" began.
I chased girls, trying to get them to like me and want me. Trying to get something "off her..." Trying to "get to home base..." Trying to "score..."
But then I had one of those "flashbulb" moments when I was 18 that would forever change the way I thought about this whole "sex" thing.
I had my girlfriend Lynn over, and she told me something that I will never forget...
She said: "You know, girls want guys. We love doing it with guys."
I asked her: "So why is it such a big deal for chicks to give it up?"
And she said: "Because if we gave it to you for free, it would be easy. You'd never enjoy it or appreciate it. We just want you to work a little for it."
I thought about what she said, because while it was very simple and obvious, her words also had some wisdom that was very easy to overlook.
If guys are essentially playing a game to get the same thing that women want, then it's not all "bad" is it?
I was ashamed for years of my natural masculine desire for women, and that shame stopped me from giving women the one thing they desperately wanted...
Women WANT you to seduce them because they secretly ache for a man who can take them on a magical journey of romantic temptation.
In fact, what we have is a game where women WANT men to think they are "seducing" them, because this gives men what they want - the sex, the thrill of the chase and winning the "game"...
AND this gives women what they want - the sex, the thrill of being chased, and being "won..."
This is something that most guys almost never discover for themselves.
Let me say it again...
Women want the exact same things men want. They just have a different timetable.
But here's something else that l didn't discover until later...
Let me ask you this first: When you were a kid, did you ever want a toy so bad that you couldn't sleep at night?
Of course you have. We all have.
It's like that kid Ralphie in the movie "A Christmas Story." He wanted that Red Rider B-B gun so bad. And when he finally got it, it was like he'd been given the Holy Grail.
What if he had asked his parents for that B-B gun and they just gave it to him right away?
Do you think the same thrill would be there?
No, it wouldn't.
And women don't want you to take too long either, because that would make you seem a bit LESS sexually attractive.
The key to effective seduction is in learning how to give a woman the EXPERIENCE of wanting you and wanting you badly without having to wait for weeks to make it happen.
It's not about the TIME to seduce a woman.
It's about HOW you seduce her.
I want to say that again, because it's so darn important...
It's not about spending a lot of time with a woman to get her to feel comfortable getting physical with you.
It's about HOW you spend that time with her.
There are quite a few ways to get a woman to feel this way with you. The one way you don't want to have to do it is by having to buy her a drink, or bring her flowers.
In fact, that will actually work AGAINST you. You see, the more you try to "buy" her affections by making her feel obligated to like you, the less she will actually want to do it.
And believe me, attraction is not something we consciously choose.
First, let me ask you: Have you ever heard of this thing called "pickup bootcamps?"
These are the two-night, intensive training sessions where guys go out with an instructor and learn "pickup skills."
I've taught bootcamps in the field with guys, showing them how to improve their skills approaching women and talking with women. And these guys all want an answer to the same question...
Well, I'm going to share with you a story about one of my students and his experience with this learning process - and how he managed to cut down his learning time by at least 80%. (Yes, his name is changed to protect the innocent...)
His name is Craig.
Craig was about 28 years old, decent looking, average build. He lived in New York City, one of the biggest singles "hot-spots" in the world. You'd look at him and think, this guy's not a model, but there doesn't seem to be any reason why he couldn't get a date.
But that was the problem. He couldn't see a reason, and most other guys couldn't either.
Well, in our training, I took him out into the field (to a couple clubs),
and it took me a little while to figure out what his challenge was, but it
was there, plain as day.
If you were looking at a woman's response to him on one of those earthquake measuring machines, the pen just didn't move all that much.
- Craig's clothes were just a bit TOO average.
- Craig's conversation was fine, but it was a bit on the dull side.
- Craig's body language was average. Just a bit on the "not expressive" side.
- And his tone of voice and facial expressions were also just "everyday."
In other words, he had a lot of very small things that just
got in his way of feeling 1) good about himself, and 2) good about approaching
and meeting women.
So what I did with Craig was to pinpoint just a few target areas (we started with five, so he wouldn't feel too overwhelmed.) We made some small improvements on each.
First of all, Craig was wearing polo shirts that were tucked in all the time, with a pair of old running shoes. This is not good fashion.
So we went to a few good men's clothing stores and got him a quick upgrade to his wardrobe. Nothing radical here, just a new pair of shoes, a cool belt, and a couple good shirts. Instantly this changed his look for the better.
After that, we targeted the subjects and topics of conversations. Craig was asking a lot of plain questions about the background of the women he was meeting, instead of getting them involved emotionally with him right off the bat. Just changing up his conversational style added huge improvements.
Next, I gave him some exercises to strengthen and improve the tone of his
voice. This took him a few minutes a day, and he got MUCH MORE attention and
interest based on this one thing.
Here's what you need to know...
Craig is the average guy that wants to learn these dating techniques and secrets. I see him every day, and in every workshop or seminar, and he's 90% of the guys that write in with questions. They're just missing a few small details.
He's only a few short steps away from breaking past his own inner hurdles.
And chances are, YOU have a few things in common with Craig.
Maybe you've got just a few small things holding you back. You know you don't
need a full makeover, but you just want some methods to polish up a few areas
where you're not feeling confident about yourself.
Here's a little math trick that you can use - and you're going to find it
VERY cool... (Don't worry, we're not digging into algebra here!)
QUESTION: If you improve 5 different areas in a business just 15% each, how much of a TOTAL increase will you get?
You might be tempted to multiply 5 x 15 to get 75 and assume that's the answer, but that's the common mistake most people make. (I did too when I first heard this)
The reality is that if you increase your results in 5 areas by 15% each, and they're all connected...
ANSWER: You'll get 100% increase in results.
That's right. You will DOUBLE your results by the power of compounding.
Now, you might not think that's so cool until you realize that this means you ONLY need to make a small (15%) increase in just five areas of your dating skills to get 100% more results.
That's DOUBLING your success, man.
I call this the "5 by 15" Rule.
And let's be honest here - 15% improvement is not hard at all, is it?
You could do that in your sleep, couldn't you?
Well, that's what I do for guys. I show them how to make small (sometimes LARGE) improvements to their game. And I do this by showing you ALL the different ways that you can get better results in your game with women. There are a lot of areas where you might need some work.
My friend, you won't just double the women you have in your life...
You should be able to easily triple and quadruple it.
Here are some of those target areas of dating that every man should be working on:
Dating Skill 1) Conversation
You must have a good idea of what to talk about with women. Most guys make the fatal mistake of talking about facts and details of their life, or they show off with accomplishments - instead of talking about the real topics that stir a woman's soul. The art of attraction through conversation is probably the most important tool in a man's dating utility belt.
Dating Skill 2) Kino - or Kinaesthetics
Kino is the art of touching. From hugs to hand-holding, or even casual touching, you must have a solid understanding of what kind of touch is good, and what will turn a woman off.
Dating Skill 3) Social Skills & Overcoming Shyness
I've had quite a few guys that came through my bootcamps ask about how to increase their social networks as well as their dating success. The fact is that many guys feel shy and introverted around women - and in social situations in general. You don't have to turn into the instant "life of the party" to be more friendly and successful in your social life.
Dating Skill 4) Confidence, Attitude, & Inner Game
Right up there on the top of the list is how you feel on the inside. It's a bit of a corny saying, but we know that this projects to the outside world more than anything. Your sense of self-confidence is the number one factor that you can control to improve your results with women. And the best part? It's easier to improve than some people may have led you to believe.
Dating Skill 5) Techniques, Tactics, & Strategies
There are some who would tell you that if you have the right "inner game" of confidence, that you don't need techniques or lines to talk to women. But the reality is that every guy needs examples of openers and stories that they can use in their own conversations to help them feel prepared to meet women. I started out by learning and inventing various tactics and strategies, and once I got my bearings and I could relax, I found I didn't need them as much. But it's always good to have something to fall back on.
Dating Skill 6) Approaching Women
If there's one area that guys ask me about regularly, it's this one. Guys want to feel confident about walking up and starting a conversation with a woman. Not just this, but they want to do it RIGHT. From the angle you approach her at, to your body language, to your opener... It all adds up to that first-impression that you want to be a good one.
Dating Skill 7) Body Language
You have to look like you're confident in your body, not only in posture, but how you move. Studies have also shown that how you handle your body language also reflects back on your sense of self-confidence and self-esteem. There are specific habits and gestures that you can use with your body language to increase the respect and admiration you get from other people, as well as the interest you get from women.
Dating Skill 8) Lifestyle
This is something I actually call the "Alpha Lifestyle." It simply means that you're not just chasing girls all the time - you're working to make your whole life an exciting adventure. You're keeping things moving, and you're in touch with your own motivations, drives, and passions that give YOU a sense of accomplishment.
And that ALWAYS translates into more attraction and interest from women.
And since there are so many guys out there with a need for this kind of guidance, I created a regular coaching program would get them through their ups and downs with women, and their own self-confidence, by keeping them "plugged in."
And they all stayed with it, didn't quit and got significantly better with women. (You can see some of their success stories here...)
This ebook is going to give you a significant edge over 90+% of the average guys out there, and you'll have a HUGE advantage over most of the "pickup artists" out there that you will be competing with.
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A lot of guys think that if they just read an e-book, they'll be instantly successful with women. Well, that's only partly true - and mostly false. You see, what happens is that after you read an ebook, your attitude improves, and you feel better about the knowledge you have about women. So you're willing to risk a bit more, and you come across with a different "vibe" and "energy" to women. This creates more attraction in women, and so on.
But most often, this healthy and confident vibe doesn't last.
Because most guys never add in the secret ingredient that keeps them motivated and learning - and ACCOUNTABLE to themselves to keep up these new habits that get them success.
The secret ingredient is called COACHING.
When I was first getting started on the path to building my confidence and success with women and understanding social situations, one of the single most important things that I did was to get consistent information that built on what I'd learn and helped me get ahead even further.
Look... I put in a lot of hard work and dedication to get this success - but the fact is that if I had to do it over again, I wouldn't want to try and figure it all out on my own - ALONE. My biggest breakthroughs came from learning and observing other people and then trying things out on my own. And most of the time things wouldn't work out right off the bat. The best part is that I can save you most of that effort.
Getting regular information, techniques, and motivation is vitally important... I can't tell you how many YEARS of time and effort this cut off of my learning curve... or even if I would have EVER had any success without getting this additional layer of understanding.
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is NOT afraid for his 'dating future' anymore...
"I'd know, there's a lot of a similar material out there in the world. Personally I'm too introverted person, and I decided to get further in 'Dating World' ... [I got] some of your older 'advanced coaching program'. Your voice sounds so self confident ...I thought: 'This guy Carlos knows very well, about what he's saying!' English is not my mother language, so I have to listen it thru at least 5-7 times to understand it quite well. I must tell you: I've already made one approach to a lovely girl and I was more successful then would be before... Someday I feel very 'Alpha', the other day again just 'Beta'. But, I'm not afraid for my 'dating future' anymore (thanks to you)!"
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is now more relaxed and secure with women...
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- V.C., Germany
"I have now had the Advanced Coaching for a couple of weeks. And I am very impressed with it. It gives details on many things to think about when talking to a woman... I intend to listen to it many times... This is incredible..."
"I've found the advanced coaching series extremely useful... I now see why I've had the successes that I've had in the past and why the failures have happened. The advanced coaching series has reinforced that and has given me more ideas about how to increase self-confidence even further... It's onwards and upwards from here and I'm confident of many more successes in the future."
- A.C., New Zealand
"This program does nothing but keeps you motivated and encouraged it makes you feel like you are on a journey. Many products seem to feed you tactics because thats what they feel the consumers want. Tactics are fine but they are a small part of becoming successful in dating.
Carlos realizes this so he will give you these tactics but more than that he gives you a set of attitudes, beliefs and a sense of direction. He makes it clear that this is a learning process and that he is going to be there every step of the way to help us out (and he does give you the steps). What he has done with this program is encourage us to improve our lifestyle and not just focus on women but on every area of our life..."
"I'm a 44 year old man in my second marriage. I started to recognize several wuss patterns in my relationship... I realized that i had to examine what it was in me that was making this happen again.
After some soul searching, I was able to accept that I wasn't as Alpha as I thought I was. Then, as the old saying goes, the master appeared when I was ready to learn.
Since listening to your podcasts and subscribing to your Advanced Coaching series, I have not only been able to turn my marriage around, I have also been able to better support the 47 women in my office and really get a great handle on my life. Thanks Carlos for everything..."
- C. W.
"There's nothing say except that everything that Carlos is teaching is of immense value, I mean IMMENSE..."
- Salim A.
"The monthly coaching programs have been a tremendous help over the past 4+ years, not only in my love life, but in life in general..."
- Greg F.
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"This is so much more than another dating tip or advanced macking series - you show people how to take control of their lives and use the women angle as the carrot, which is missing in a lot of self-help programs I've studied in the past.
You present what is required to be successful with women and so much more."
"I wish I had learned about it first and saved some money..."
"I have bought virtually every product on the market on the topic of dating and seduction. I've also attended seminars and workshops to improve my skills in these areas...
I wish I had learned about Carlos Xuma's products first and saved myself some money.
In his audio coaching series and in his ebooks Carlos teaches you the skills, attitudes and beliefs to succeed not only with women, but with everyone. Become an Alpha Man and you will be a success in life..."
"Fantastic monthly audios..."
"Hey Carlos, fantastic monthly audios. I've recently moved abroad on my own and the motivation and inspiration I get from these audios has not only kept me going but helped me to push myself to become who I choose to be... Much appreciated Carlos"
"You don't let things like your ego get in the way..."
"I have to compliment you on your keen awareness of how to handle women in certain steps of the dating continuum. Your analogies and philosophies get better every month in your advanced coaching program and it helps me obtain a clearer perspective on how to handle situations that arise.
Unlike so many of the other gurus, you don't let things like your ego get in the way..."
"I bring confidence to the table not only at dates..."
"Carlos, thanks so much for your advice! I feel myself changing and molding into a better self. I bring confidence to the table not only at dates, bars, parties, but also at work. People see that I mean business and that I'm on my own path to personal greatness. I'm coming into a promotion very soon and also getting random job offers! People see the passion!"