Friend,

When you get to a certain age, you just get really tired of the dating "scene" and the dating "games," don't you?

• You meet someone at a party (maybe the only cool person you've met in months) and when you call, you never get a call back. What the ...?
  
  
• You see a woman in a bookstore that you'd love to go meet, but you're not sure what the "rules" are about this. Some pickup guy on TV told you to go make a sassy comment to her, but that just feels wrong. And instead of walking up and approaching her, you end up talking yourself out of it. What can you do to stop that pattern?
  
  
• You're a little older than the bar & club crowd, but YOUNG in spirit. Can you date a younger woman without being a "dirty old man"?
  
  
• Maybe you're divorced and you're in need of a few tips and strategies to get back out there again - and overcome the natural fear of dating again...
  
  
• Do you ever find yourself meeting someone cool and then you wind up rushing things too far too fast because you want to know if this is going to "go somewhere" or not?

Well, you're going to be excited to discover the answer to these questions are within your reach.

• You can put an end to that feeling of crushing rejection...
  
  
• You can walk up and talk to the person you want the most...
  
  
• You can date the type of person you want without guilt or shame...
  
  
• You can get back in the dating pool and have a BLAST being single...
  
  
• You can date women and not feel like you're a crash test dummy in a game with no rules...!

Imagine Walking Into Your Own Dating "Goldmine"

Discover the Hidden World of Dating
That Most People NEVER Find Out About...

I used to feel like dating worked by rules that I could never seem to figure out.

I don't know if you watch old TV shows or not, but there was this funny scene in the old 1960s "Star Trek" show. (Yeah, we're showing our geeky side here... Stay with us.)

In this episode, Captain Kirk was trying to put one over on a guard.

The scene went like this:

[Kirk] - The name of the game is called, uh ... fizzbin.

Fizzbin?

[Kirk] - Fizzbin. It's, uh ... not too difficult. Each player gets six cards, except for the player on the dealer's right, who gets seven.

On the right?

[Kirk] - The second card is turned up, except on Tuesdays.

On Tuesday.

[Kirk] - Mm-hmm. Oh, look what you got, two jacks! You got a half fizzbin already.

I need another jack.

[Kirk] - No. If you got another jack, why, you'd have a sralk.

A sralk?

[Kirk] - Yes. You'd be disqualified. You need a king and a deuce - except at night, when you'd need a queen and a 4.

As you can imagine, the comedy comes from the confusion the poor guard is going through as Kirk re-writes the rules every couple seconds.

I've felt like this guy before, haven't you? Playing the dating game of "Fizzbin," wondering how the heck to "play my cards" on my dates with women. It's not so funny being confused about the rules of dating, though, is it?

In fact, I'll bet you've felt this way before, like you were being played and you didn't know how to step back for a minute and discover what was really going on.

If it's this hard to win at dating, sometimes it seems like it would be better to stay single!

Hang On.
NO ONE Has To Stay Single Forever...

We're going to cut to the chase here because you're probably a busy person with a busy life.

And that's what we're talking about here: Getting the most out of your time in dating without having to run around like a mouse in a maze.

But what we're announcing is something that you can't afford to dismiss without a serious look.

We - that is, Carlos Xuma and Annie Gleason - are going to team up and answer your questions about modern dating for "grown ups..."

We're going to hold a dating success strategies for men & women seminar in a special ONE DAY event: January 30th, 2010 - here in San Francisco, CA.

This will be a live, recorded event with guest speakers and interactive exercises to bring your success with the opposite sex up to YOUR standards. (If you're camera shy, don't worry, you can opt-out of being seen.)

This is going to be an intensely fun session with a ton of great strategies, secrets, tips, and methods for you to set your course for your goals in dating.

Now what I'm about to tell you is something pretty shocking...

This Is A NO Bullshit Seminar...

Yes, I thought long and hard about using profanity in a page that's supposed to "sell" you on attending.

Would I offend someone? Turn them off completely? Should I just use the 'politically correct' version and say "B.S." instead?

Look, the reality is that if you're scared off by our willingness to GET REAL with you right now, this seminar probably isn't for you.

But if you're willing to come learn some of the shocking truths about modern dating for "grown ups" (i.e., over 35 years old), then you're going to find this to be one of the most refreshingly honest seminars in a long time.

• This isn't some kind of pop-culture dating tips from those "gurus" on TV that leave you scratching your head...
  
  
• This isn't some fluffy Cosmopolitan or Men's Health "How to..." article...
  
  
• This isn't vague and unrealistic stuff that tells you that you need to get into therapy and become a completely different person to attract the woman you want...
  
  
• This is not a seminar full of pretense and false-fronts. We're going to get very REAL...
  
  
  

This is how to date effectively without all the nonsense and game playing.

We're going to cover the three essential parts of how to find a woman you want to date in the three phases of dating:

- Find: This is all that messy stuff about where to go, how to approach, and how to give off a dynamite first impression. We're going to answer the question "Where are all the single women?"

- Connect: This is the part about starting that chemistry with someone special that you meet. We're going to answer the question: "How do I get her attracted to me?"

- Keep: This is the section that talks about the relationship and the long-term picture. We're going to answer the question: "How do I keep her interested in me for a relationship?"

We're a group of smart, fun adults that are going to tell-it-like-it-is, and not give you watered-down advice that sounds corny and dated.

Who We Are...

When You're Done With The Singles Bar
And You Want A QUALITY Mate

We've both coached men and women in how to get more success with the opposite sex with fantastic results. Between us we have over 60 years of dating experience to share with you. Whatever your experience is, whatever your challenge is, we've probably encountered it in some form or another.

Hey, it's our job, and we love it!

But the thing that's most important to you is that this will be Carlos & Annie - a man and a woman - lending perspective to the dating dilemma from BOTH sides of the gender fence!

You'll learn how to (FINALLY!) cross this great divide between men and women - AND understand how men and women both really think and feel.

Here's What We're Going To Show You...

• Learn why men and women "are the way we are" and how you can use the latest discoveries in brain science to date with more success...
  
  
• How to "fine tune" your habits and thinking so that you can use the law of attraction to your (unfair) advantage...
  
  
• The key discovery of the last decade about how to get the most success meeting and dating women, and not be confused by women anymore!
  
  
• How to cross the great "gender divide" and understand how men and women think - and how we misinterpret the things we say...
  
  
• How men and women sabotage their own success by not understanding our pre-programmed "attraction triggers"
  
  
• How to avoid falling into a bad attitude when you're out there in the dating world, and actually ENJOY your single life!
  
  
• You need to manage the logistics of meeting other people to date, as well as overcome the challenges of a complicated modern life...
  
  
• Divorced? Dealing with the complications of being a single or part-time parent? We'll show you the best ways to make it all work when you're trying to meet someone special...
  
  
• Again, this may not be very "politically correct," but we're discovering now more than ever how much we want and NEED someone who understands and embraces their gender. We'll explore all the tricks and unnecessary confusion about how to be a modern man that gets - and KEEPS - a mate...
  
  
• Have you ever wished there was a "playbook" you could draw from to figure out what is most important early in the "game"? And what's best for later? We'll isolate the different areas you need to focus on for each part of dating, from the start to the middle - to wherever it goes!
  
  
• Let's talk BODY LANGUAGE. Probably the least understood and most important of communication tools, we're going to really explain how the first 7 seconds of meeting someone works - and how to present yourself as a high-status man in her eyes...
  
  
• How to handle the strange and confusing emotions of dating. Probably one of the most overlooked topics, we're going to explain how to manage and handle the wild rollercoaster of rejection, insecurity, impatience, lust, hurt, confusion, and other feelings that trip you up - and how to manage them...
  
  
• Baffled by how to use the latest and greatest online tools to meet women? Not anymore. We're going to discuss the essential ingredients in your techno-arsenal of meeting women...
  
  
• How to short-circuit the mental voice of defeat in your head so that you can stay in the game and win out when you're looking to find the woman of your dreams...
  
  
• In our unique presentation format, you'll also learn about female psychology - and what it is that women are thinking when they're evaluating you as a prospective lover...
  
  
• Take it and RUN - Are you tired of those programs and seminars that give you a lot of great information, but no way to really USE it in your life? We're going to pull out all the stops and give you quick and EASY methods of getting started with your dating plan - no sweat...
  
  
• We're going to tackle the tough questions that batter men into submission when it comes to the "R" word - Relationships! We may want one, but we don't always know what the complicated expectations are that we need to live up to. Or the skills we need to make it work. We'll show you how...
  
  
• Sometimes the hardest thing to do is "cut and run." How do you know which relationships are worth it for you and which you need to leave behind? We'll explain the critical "decision point" of all relationships and how to handle it with ease - and no grief or guilt!
  
  
• Reading Signals - the most confusing part of dating is reading the other person. How do you know what they want when they don't communicate it directly? What does she mean when she says "_____"? We'll explain how you figure out what a woman is really trying to tell you...
  
  
• A lot of secret stuff that we don't want to talk about here, but will answer all your questions of how to get out there and tear it up in the dating world after you've left the college and "hook up" scene behind...
  
  
• And much much more!

How Do You Know If This Seminar Is For You...?

This seminar is NOT for everyone. In fact, if you're just looking to learn pickup and seduction, and you're a younger guy out there just having some fun, this is NOT for you.

To discover if this is something that would help you, just ask yourself just a couple simple questions:

• - Are you a man over the age of 35?
  
  
• - Are you juggling the demands of a professional life with your dating life? Maybe even with kids?
  
  
• - Are you getting sick of dating advice that gets you nowhere?
  
  
• - Do you want to learn what women REALLY want from men?

By now, you probably know whether or not this is going to suit you or not, so it's up to you to get your reservation set right away.

This Is A Special Event - Closed Door, Invitation ONLY...

There Will Be Only 16 Total Seats Available.

And 8 Are Already Reserved For WOMEN.

Due to our busy coaching and speaking schedules, this is probably the only seminar of this kind that we will hold this year.

We're holding this special one-of-a-kind seminar here in San Francisco in the famous "Fort Mason" center, overlooking the bay, the Golden Gate Bridge, and Angel Island.

As a participant, you'll be able to ask questions, as well as get clear on the Secrets to honest dating you won't learn about In the self-help section...

BONUS: We'll even throw in lunch on the day of the event...!

And January always seems a long way off from wherever you are, but the reality is that with the holidays and all the craziness at the end of the year, 2010 will be here before you know it.

And this is the best way you can kick off your new year and a new dating life.

I'm only sending a link to this page to a very SELECT group of my best students. If you got this, it's because you were one of my obvious choices to attend and enjoy this event.

Don't wait. This seminar WILL sell out.

The only question now is whether or not you will be a part of it or not.

P.S.: If there's one event you go to this year that gets you starting 2010 on the right foot - with the best chances of success, it's this one. Your ticket for this event is good through this week for $497.00 -

ONLY $197 for Early Movers...
(And you can even break it up into 4 payments - easy on your wallet!)

Claim your ticket for the "He Said/She Said - No More Games Seminar" right now. CLICK HERE.

P.P.S.: You know that your only real opportunity to cut through all the nonsense in dating is to get together with a "mastermind" group of like-minded single people who understand your situation - and have the answers you need to find the success you desire.

This event is that mastermind group, and we're going to hit the tough questions of dating that you need to get answered.

Claim your VIP ticket for the "He Said/She Said - No More Games Seminar" right now. CLICK HERE.

	Remember... No Matter How Long You've Been Traveling The Wrong Direction, You Must Change Your Course. We're here to show you the way!