Dear friend,

When you get to a certain age, you just get really tired of the dating "scene" and the dating "games," don't you?

• You meet someone at a party (maybe the only cool guy you've met in months) and you give him your number. But you never hear from him. What the ...?
  
  
• The men that you meet are not intelligent, emotionally available, or successful enough. Where are all of the quality single men?
  
  
• You see a guy in a bookstore that you'd love to go meet, but you're not sure what the "rules" are about this. Some Oprah expert on TV told you to go make a comment to him, and he seems to be interested at first, but then he doesn't ask for your number or a date. What's going on here?
  
  
• You're a little more mature than the bar & club crowd, but YOUNG in spirit. Can you get a date with a guy that matches you in your interests and isn't just some player out looking to have a good time...?
  
  
• You think you may have found “The One.” You’ve been dating for a couple of months and everything is perfect. You can’t stay away from each other, your conversations are magic, the lovemaking is out of this world…but he suddenly backed off—you haven’t heard from him and he’s not returning your calls. What gives?
  
  
• Maybe you're divorced and you're in need of a few tips and strategies to get back out there - and overcome the natural fear of dating again...
  
  
• Do you ever find yourself meeting a great guy and then you wind up rushing things too far too fast because you want to know if this is going to "go somewhere" or not?
  
  
• Ever since you met, he’s been pursuing you—he’s crazy about you, but he barely knows you. What’s that all about?

Well, you're going to be excited to discover that the answers to these questions are within your reach.

• You can put an end to that pattern of guys that just don't follow through...
  
  
• You can walk up and talk to a guy and take the initiative if you want...
  
  
• You can find and date a quality guy...
  
  
• You can get back in the dating pool and have a BLAST being single...
  
  
• You can date guys and not feel like you're a crash test dummy in a game with no rules...!

Imagine Walking Into Your Own Dating "Goldmine"

Discover the Hidden World of Dating
That Most People NEVER Find Out About...

I used to feel like dating worked by rules that I could never seem to figure out.

Men could be so passionate and fascinated one day, and gone the next. I’d come back from a date and wonder what was going to happen next.

My girlfriends and I would go over everything that happened, in excruciating detail:

• Should I have paid for drinks?
  
  
• How come he hasn’t called?
  
  
• What did he mean when he told me (any one of a thousand) things?
  
  
• What did it mean when he didn’t tell me (any on of a thousand) things?
  
  
• Was I wearing the right outfit?
  
  
• When was the best time to sleep with him?

Why did I think that my girlfriends had the answer, when they didn’t even know the guy?

In fact, I'll bet you've felt this way before, like you were being played and you didn't know how to step back for a minute and discover what was really going on.

If it's this hard to win at dating, sometimes it seems like it would be better to stay single!

Hang On.
NO ONE Has To Stay Single Forever...

We're going to cut to the chase here because you're probably a busy person with a busy life.

And that's what we're talking about here: Getting the most out of your time in dating without having to run around like a mouse in a maze.

But what we're announcing is something that you can't afford to dismiss without a serious look.

We - that is, Annie Gleason and Carlos Xuma - are going to team up and answer your questions about modern dating for "grown ups..."

We're going to hold a dating success strategies for men & women seminar in a special ONE DAY event: January 30th, 2010 - here in San Francisco, CA.

This will be a live, recorded event with guest speakers and interactive exercises to bring your success with the opposite sex up to YOUR standards. (If you're camera shy, don't worry, you can opt-out of being seen.)

This is going to be an intensely fun session with a ton of great strategies, secrets, tips, and methods for you to set your course for your goals in dating.

Now what I'm about to tell you is something pretty shocking...

This Is A NO Holds-Barred Seminar...

AND if you're willing to come learn some of the shocking truths about modern dating for "grown ups" (i.e., over 35 years old), then you're going to find this to be one of the most refreshingly honest seminars in a long time.

• This isn't some kind of pop-culture dating tips from those "gurus" on TV that leave you scratching your head...
  
  
• This isn't some fluffy Cosmopolitan or Men's Health "How to..." article...
  
  
• This isn't vague and unrealistic stuff that tells you that you need to get into therapy and become a completely different person to attract the guy you want...
  
  
• This is not a seminar full of pretense and false-fronts. We're going to get very REAL...
  
  
  

This is how to date effectively
without all the nonsense and game playing.

We're going to cover the three essential parts of how to find a guy you want to date in the three phases of dating:

- Find: This is all that messy stuff about where to go, how to communicate with body language, and how to give off a dynamite first impression. We're going to answer the question "Where are all the single guys?" And "How do you meet them..."

- Connect: This is the part about starting that chemistry with someone special that you meet. We're going to answer the question: "How do I get him attracted and interested me? (for more than just a one-night stand...)"

- Keep: This is the section that talks about the relationship and the long-term picture. We're going to answer the question: "How do I keep him interested in me for a relationship?"

We're a group of smart, fun adults that are going to tell-it-like-it-is, and not give you watered-down advice that sounds corny and dated.

Who We Are...

When You're Done With The Singles Bar
And You Want A QUALITY Mate

We've both coached men and women in how to get more success with the opposite sex with fantastic results. Between us we have over 60 years of dating experience to share with you. Whatever your experience is, whatever your challenge is, we've probably encountered it in some form or another.

Hey, it's our job, and we love it!

But the thing that's most important to you is that this will be Annie & Carlos - a man and a woman - lending perspective to the dating dilemma from BOTH sides of the gender fence!

You'll learn how to (FINALLY!) cross this great divide between men and women - AND understand how men and women both really think and feel.

Here's What We're Going To Show You...

• Learn why men and women "are the way we are" and how you can use the latest discoveries in brain science to date with more success...
  
  
• How to "fine tune" your dating habits and thinking so that you can use the law of attraction to your (unfair) advantage...
  
  
• How to cross the great "gender divide" and understand how men and women think - and how we misinterpret the things guys say...
  
  
• Learn to send out classy attraction signals so that quality men are unconsciously drawn to you...
  
  
• How we sabotage their own success by not understanding our pre-programmed "attraction triggers..."
  
  
• How to avoid falling into a bad attitude when you're out there in the dating world, and actually ENJOY your single life!
  
  
• Get out of the Loser Loop - Identify a loser before you waste your precious time and energy, going out with him - and before your friends ever have to meet him...
  
  
• You need to manage the logistics of meeting other people to date, as well as overcome the challenges of a complicated modern life. We'll show you how to do this as well as how to make room and manage your time to find and enjoy your time with someone special...
  
  
• Discover how to be irresistible and keep him coming back for more - and find out how to feel confident and enticing, no matter what your age - or shape!
  
  
• Divorced? Dealing with the complications of being a single or part-time parent? We'll show you the best ways to make it all work when you're trying to meet someone special...
  
  
• The TRUTH about what men mean when they tell you "I'll call you", "Let's get together", "You're amazing" (And it's not what you think!)
  
  
• Again, this may not be very "politically correct," but we're discovering now more than ever how much we want and NEED someone who understands and embraces their gender. We'll explore all the tricks and unnecessary confusion about how to be a modern woman that gets - and KEEPS - a mate...
  
  
• Have you ever wished there was a "playbook" you could draw from to figure out what is most important early in the "game"? And what's best for later? We'll isolate the different areas you need to focus on for each part of dating, from the start to the middle - to wherever it goes!
  
  
• How to show a guy that you're interested in him - without making him think that you're desperate - or one of THOSE girls...
  
  
• Let's talk BODY LANGUAGE. Probably the least understood and most important of communication tools, we're going to really explain how the first 7 seconds of meeting someone works - and how to present yourself as a confident, desirable woman that he would be inspired to pursue...
  
  
• How to handle the strange and confusing emotions of dating. Probably one of the most overlooked topics, we're going to explain how to manage and handle the wild rollercoaster of rejection, insecurity, impatience, lust, hurt, confusion, and other feelings that trip you up - and how to manage them...
  
  
• Understand why men pull away just as things are getting intimate, and learn the secret of how to handle it so that he not only comes back to you - but he stops playing the "commitment dance" for good!
  
  
• Baffled by how to use the latest and greatest online tools to meet men? Not anymore. We're going to discuss the essential ingredients in your techno-arsenal of meeting men... as well as how guys perceive and use these tools.
  
  
• How to short-circuit the mental voice of defeat in your head so that you can stay in the game and win out when you're looking to find the guy of your dreams...
  
  
• In our unique presentation format, you'll also learn about men's psychology - and what it is that guys are thinking when they're evaluating you as a prospective lover...
  
  
• Take it and RUN - Are you tired of those programs and seminars that give you a lot of great information, but no way to really USE it in your life? We're going to pull out all the stops and give you quick and EASY methods of getting started with your dating plan - no sweat...
  
  
• We're going to tackle the tough questions that batter you into submission when it comes to the "R" word - Relationships! Men do want one, but don't always know what the complicated expectations are that they are expected to live up to - and you're not sure how to get him to live up to the commitment. We'll show you how...
  
  
• Sometimes the hardest thing to do is "cut and run." How do you know which relationships are worth it for you and which you need to leave behind? We'll explain the critical "decision point" of all relationships and how to handle it with ease - and no grief or guilt!
  
  
• Reading Signals - the most confusing part of dating is reading the other person. How do you know what they want when they don't communicate it directly? What does she mean when he says "_____"? We'll explain how you figure out what a guy is really trying to tell you...
  
  
• You keep hearing that quality guys are everywhere, but you never seem to find them. Discover how to become a man magnet, and begin attracting quality men in your every day life...
  
  
• A lot of secret stuff that we don't want to talk about here, but will answer all your questions of how to get out there and tear it up in the dating world after you've left the college and "hook up" scene behind...
  
  
• And much much more!

How Do You Know If This Seminar Is For You...?

Look, the reality is that if you're scared off by our willingness to GET REAL with you right now, this seminar probably isn't for you.

Simply stated, this seminar is NOT for everyone. In fact, if you're just looking to learn ways to hook up with a younger guy or you're just out there to have some fun, this is definitely not for you.

To discover if this is something that would help you, just ask yourself just a couple simple questions:

• - Are you a woman over the age of 35?
  
  
• - Are you juggling the demands of a professional life with your dating life? Maybe even with kids?
  
  
• - Are you getting sick of dating advice that gets you nowhere?
  
  
• - Do you want to learn what men REALLY want from women?

By now, you probably know whether or not this is going to suit you or not, so it's up to you to get your reservation set right away.

This Is A Special Event - Closed Door, Invitation ONLY...

There Will Be Only 16 Total Seats Available.

And 8 Are Already Reserved For MEN.

Due to our busy coaching and speaking schedules, this is probably the only seminar of this kind that we will hold this year.

We're holding this special one-of-a-kind seminar here in San Francisco in the famous "Fort Mason" center, overlooking the bay, the Golden Gate Bridge, and Angel Island.

As a participant, you'll be able to ask questions, as well as get clear on the Secrets to honest dating you won't learn about In the self-help section...

BONUS: We'll even throw in lunch on the day of the event...!

And January always seems a long way off from wherever you are, but the reality is that with the holidays and all the craziness at the end of the year, 2010 will be here before you know it.

And this is the best way you can kick off your new year and a new dating life.

We're only sending a link to this page to a very SELECT group of our very best students. If you got this, it's because you were one of our obvious choices to attend and really get something from this event.

Don't wait. This seminar WILL sell out.

The only question now is whether or not you will be a part of it or not.

P.S.: If there's one event you go to this year that gets you starting 2010 on the right foot - with the best chances of success, it's this one. Your ticket for this event is good through this week for $497.00 -

ONLY $197 for Early Movers...
(And you can even break it up into 4 payments - easy on your wallet!)

Claim your ticket for the "He Said/She Said - No More Games Seminar" right now. CLICK HERE.

P.P.S.: You know that your only real opportunity to cut through all the nonsense in dating is to get together with a "mastermind" group of like-minded single people who understand your situation - and have the answers you need to find the success you desire.

This event is that mastermind group, and we're going to hit the tough questions of dating that you need to get answered.

Claim your VIP ticket for the "He Said/She Said - No More Games Seminar" right now. CLICK HERE.

	Remember... No Matter How Long You've Been Traveling The Wrong Direction, You Must Change Your Course. We're here to show you the way!