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FROM: Carlos Xuma
Thursday - 8:54 PM
Confidence is the number one concern for every
guy I've ever met.
Women want it from us, and guys spend most
of their lives working on feeling it and showing it. And when you don't feel
confident, your life just doesn't feel right.
Have you ever felt:
...like you're destroying your
chances with women because you don't have the level of self-confidence
...like you're barely maintaining your
level of confidence with women - and sometimes you feel like you're actually
back-sliding in your game?
...like your emotions and your feelings
make you do crazy things - stuff you can't seem to control?
I know I have, and it's not a fun way to live...
And the worst part of this feeling is that
NO ONE in your life ever sat you down and explained just how confidence
really works, did they?
You never got a book from your parents on "how
to be confident and more sure of yourself." And I know you didn't have
a class in school that told you "How to Be Confident With Women."
Most guys have to learn by trial and
And a lot more error.
Well, stick with me, because there's something
else you need to know about how confidence REALLY works.
First, let me ask you this:
- Have you ever messed things up
with a woman you really liked?
- Have you ever approached a woman, only
to have her not respond to you at all? Did you ever feel like you were invisible to
- Have you ever had a girlfriend you adored, but your
level of insecurity and low self-confidence seemed to doom you to the same
outcome - certain breakup?
- Have you ever walked up to talk to a woman
and had her start out smiling and interested, but she gradually seemed
to lose interest, eventually turning back to her friends and ignoring you
until you walked away?
- Have you ever lost your emotional cool
around a woman, only to feel out of control around her, and then she lost
interest and attraction in you because you couldn't stay relaxed...?
- Have you ever felt like your jealousy
takes control over your head and your heart, even when the woman you liked
wasn't even dating you yet?
- Have you ever been out with a group of
friends, and you felt compelled to try to be the "life of the party," because
you thought the "alpha" of the group had to be the loudest, the
funniest, and the one with the coolest banter?
- Have you ever felt like you were 'possessed'
to pick up the phone, or tell a woman your feelings, or "share your
her, only to find out that you scared her away with your gesture? It was
like you knew with your brain that you should
stay in control, but your emotions completely took control of you...
- Have you ever been in a social situation
where you felt like you couldn't keep up with the conversation, or really "hang
and be very fun, mostly because you were too busy watching your own behavior
- trying NOT to screw things up or say the wrong thing?
If you've ever had ANY of these things happen
to you, you know that your level of "inner game" - or your self-confidence
and "emotional intelligence" - was the one thing you wish you had more of.
If you could just control your fear and your
anxieties, all those crazy emotions that make us do things that don't even
feel like us, you know that you could improve your success ratio with women.
I know how shaky I used to feel with women, and knowing it was my inner confidence
holding me back.
And the worst part of this for me was knowing
that - not only was it ME doing this to myself - but the fact that...
Feeling Out of Control is Probably
the Most Frustrating Experience for Men...
I think that every guy has had that feeling
- almost like being possessed - where you just can't seem
to control your emotions, or your own behavior. You know what you SHOULD
be doing, but when you try to do it, there's this invisible force that stops
This was one of my biggest challenges. I had
a bad temper, and I could barely control myself when I was around an attractive
girl. I would start acting up - just like a little bratty kid. I could even
SEE myself doing it, and KNOWING that it was killing my chances with this
girl... but I just couldn't help myself.
And then I went on this massive inner game
"quest" I guess you could call it. I wanted to figure out how to get control
of my confidence, my emotions, and my crazy mind.
What is Inner Game?
Well, it's a pretty fancy term for some of
our most important traits as a man.
Inner Game includes things like:
- Self-confidence - Being cool, not needy,
- Controlling your fears and emotions - Not losing control
and becoming a train wreck when you are put in situations that are unfamiliar
- Control of your thinking - Not getting caught in your
head and stuck in your own thinking... being present-moment focused... Having
inner awareness and self-control...
- Getting rid of anxiety and nervousness - Feeling relaxed
and calm in any social situation... Having good social skills...
- Self-esteem - Feeling good about yourself and liking
yourself... Being able to handle criticism and the negative opinions of
others... Not needing their approval all the time...
Inner Game can also mean
many more things to you. Here are some of the different definitions that
guys have told me over the years:
- Inner Game is: Knowing that a woman has
certain expectations of you that you need to live up to...
- Inner Game is: Being relaxed
and natural with women, and not having to "fake it to make it" all
- Inner Game is: Knowing
you've "got the goods" when it
comes to having value to give to a woman - in conversation, as well as
in your lifestyle...
- Inner Game is: Not feeling
awkward around women or in social situations...
- Inner Game is: Keeping
conversations with women interesting and going where you want them to go -
without ending up as another shoulder to cry on...
- Inner Game is: Getting
past your flaws and frustrations once and for all...
- Inner Game is: Being able
to take the risks you always wanted to...
- Inner Game is: Managing
the peaks and valleys of your confidence level as it goes up and down...
- Inner Game is: Making
things you've already learned about women and all the pieces fall into place
- Inner Game is: Not feeling
disappointed by women and relationships from the past...
- Inner Game is: Bouncing
back from failures and rejections... and not taking them personally...
- Inner Game is: Staying
true to yourself and your identity - not compromising your values and morals
just to get women or get ahead in life...
- Inner Game is: Overcoming
your own internal conflicts...
- Inner Game is: Awareness
and knowing yourself inside and out...
- Inner Game is: Having
a strong grip on your own reality - and not getting caught off guard, no matter
what comes your way!
- Inner Game is: Being the
dominant ALPHA of the group instead of the guy who can't get a word in edgewise
in the conversation...
- Inner Game is: Stop being
so attached to the outcome and just be present-moment focused, having fun and
staying out of your head...
- Inner Game is: Knowing
that whatever happens in life, you will prevail and come out on top!
You Can Get All The Phone Numbers And
Dates You Want...
If You Don't Have Inner Game, They
Beyond "Let's Just Be Friends..."
I see a lot of guys learning the "48
Second Technique To Get A Woman's Phone Number." Yeah, great stuff,
until you realize that this will not guarantee
her to answer the phone, or...
- get a date with her, or...
- that she'll
be attracted to you, or...
- that you will be able to escalate
physically with her.
In fact, getting a phone number is only the
START of the game.
If you don't have the confidence and psychology
mastered in advance, you probably won't even get past the approach -
IF you even approach her at all.
And sometimes that knowledge will be enough
to give guys approach anxiety right away.
Just imagine what you could do if you knew
you wouldn't be shaken up or rattled by a beautiful woman's attitude...
What do you need to feel in order
get your "Inner Game" handled?
Ultimately, it really boils down to a feeling
over your own life.
You don't want to feel like other people control
your success with women. And you sure as hell don't want to feel like you
can't control your own success with women.
Let me ask you something...
You ever try using a line on a woman and have
it fall flat - like, dead embarrassing silence flat on its face?
I have, too.
I coach and talk to guys every day that learn a lot of
techniques and "lines" to use on women, but they don't seem to
work for them.
Why don't techniques and routines
Usually because of the level of self-esteem and self confidence
of the guy using them.
And, in reality, just by using another guy's
lines and words, you're sending a subtle message to your self-esteem that
the only thing you can do to attract women is NOT be yourself. And that
doesn't increase a guy's inner game.
But Don't You Need Techniques and "Outer
Game" Stuff To Attract Women?
YES! You do need them.
And that's why I teach those, too.
I know a lot of guys that would tell you that
you don't need techniques - that if you have the inner game confidence,
then your outer game is automatic.
Well, that's not always true.
I'm sure you've
felt confidence walking up to a woman and found that your tongue was tied
and your head got all foggy the second you tried to say something. And I
bet it killed your confidence quick, too, didn't it?
So, yes, you absolutely need
the techniques and conversational strategies that I teach.
BUT the fact is that you
simply cannot run completely on "Outer Game" scripts either - on techniques
and routines - all by themselves. Otherwise you end up with game that looks
This is what you don't want...
See that small area where "inner game" and
"outer game" intersect? That's weak, wussy
game that women can detect a
mile away. And thanks to television shows and "pickup artist" stuff,
women know all about the routines and openers you use.
That gray outer game bubble is weak and tiny
because you're forced to "fake" a lot more than you should have
to. And it doesn't take much to pop that bubble.
Now, just imagine what would happen when your
Inner Game and your Outer Game are complete
Your game would look like THIS:
Big difference, huh?
And let's face it, no one ever explains to
you how your mind works - or teaches you how to control and manage your emotions
I went through all 12 grades of regular school,
and another 6 years of college, and I never once did a teacher tell me
how to be more confident. (Especially when I was just a young boy and I needed
it the most!)
NOBODY teaches us this stuff.
We're supposed to just "figure it out" all on our own.
It's like looking for a needle in a haystack
- of needles!
Let Me Tell You a Story...
I had this girlfriend. Her name was Christina,
and I was really into her. She was tall, thin, red hair, and a hot body that
just drove me crazy...
Well, that was the problem.
We had been dating about 3 months when I started
feeling myself go down that old familiar road of "You're Messing This
You know, when you can't believe you're worthy of this girl, and then
you start acting like you're not worthy?
And then along comes "Mr. Self-sabotage..."
First I got drunk at her high school reunion,
then I started doing those typical self-destructive things, like calling
her too much, and going over to see her all the time.
The bad part was I
knew I was being needy and insecure, but I
couldn't seem to stop myself.
It was like I had a voice in my head telling me that I was messing this up,
but I couldn't help but keep
And then I went and got jealous of how much
time she was spending with her other friends. I remember calling her six
times one night to tell her how I'd "figured out where I made my mistake" and
I was going to change right away.
...And then she told me we needed to take
In the end, I got dumped. Big time.
This one you might relate to: I was dating
another girl, Shelly, for a couple months.
One night I went over to pay her a surprise
visit. (Guess who got surprised?)
She wasn't home
when I got there, so I waited in the parking lot for her.
Until about 3:00
AM, when I finally realized she was staying the night somewhere else...
With someone else.
I fell into a deep
depression after all this and went to go see a therapist. It was over 8
months before I got out of it completely.
Yeah, it was BAD. I feel a little sick just
talking about it right now.
But There Is A Happy Ending
To The Story...
During this time, I finally found the skills I needed to
overcome my emotional issues.
I realized that getting my self-confidence
and self-control was the key to taking care of 90% of my issues in my personal
life, AND my dating life.
I figured out how I was driving away the women
in my life. And I figured out how to hang out with people and just be a cool
guy to be with.
It was like getting out of a walk-in freezer
to go outside into bright, warm sunshine.
Even better was this sense inside that I could
finally RELAX, you know? Stop making all this stuff such a priority and just
be able to chill out and not be a nervous head case everywhere I went.
Women Can Read Your Inner Game Like
Nobody Else Can...
Something I noticed is that women can be the most irrational
creatures on the planet - and they can also read a man's level of confidence
better than anyone else.
- She knows when you're approaching
her and feeling nervous and can barely say your name...
- She knows when your self-confidence
is in the crapper because of your last breakup...
- She knows when you suddenly start
needing her approval because you're feeling "shaky" in the
other areas of your life...
She just knows this stuff, and as annoying
as it is to have a woman that can read you, it has the ultimate effect of
keeping us honest.
Have you ever heard someone tell you that
women want "confident" guys?
Only about a milion times, probably.
Well, the last thing you need is to feel like
your game is being destroyed by a woman that can see right through you.
What they say is true...
Fix Your Inner
Game And Everything Else
Really Does Take Care of Itself
Something else I discovered as I was coaching
men and teaching them some of the secrets of ultimate inner game was
that when a guy would finally get focused on the right parts of his personality
and his self-improvement, he got good with women.
And I mean SCARY good.
And he usually had no idea WHY this
was happening, either.
He'd find that he was not only able to
be more relaxed and "in the moment" with women," but he was
also able to just come up with the perfect things to say in any situation.
What was happening was that he was unlocking
his own Natural Game.
What is "Natural Game"?
Well, quite simply, it's the kind of game
a guy has when he's not trying to be someone else. He's comfortable in his
own skin, and it shows.
He's not using pickup artist material. He's
not being sneaky or trying to hypnotize women with "trance words."
He's just tuned into his own natural ability.
All guys have it, but our inner game doesn't come with an instruction book,
so we spend years and years trying to figure out how it's supposed to work.
Take This Quick
Inner Game Quiz:
Answer each of these questions in your head
and add up all the ones you answer "YES" to...
- Do you feel confident everywhere else,
but when you're with a woman you really want it all disappears?
- Are you confident with certain women,
but the 9s and 10s leave you speechless and nervous?
- Are you ever intimidated
by trying to date younger, more attractive women?
- Do you have trouble handling the other more aggressive
guys out there?
- Do you feel invisible to women? Do you
feel like beautiful women shake you up?
- Do you intellectually
know that sex with a woman won't really solve all your problems, but
you still feel driven to pursue it at all costs?
- Do you ever feel "stuck" in
your head? Do you feel like you think more about things than you should?
- Do you frequently feel indecisive? Anxious?
Nervous? So much that it's holding you back from doing things other people
seem to have no problem with?
- Do you know that your knowledge and experience
needs to be put to work in the real world, but you can't seem to find
those steps to "connect the dots" to get started?
- Do you just want to feel comfortable
in your own skin? And authentic to who you are?
- Do you want to be able to express your
feelings and true personality? Free from being judged by other people's
- Do you want to feel like the "prize" that
a woman is desperate to win?
If you answered 4 or more questions "YES"
in the quiz above, you're like 85-90% of the guys I've worked with - and
you're completely NORMAL.
The problem is that most other guys out there
would never admit it, so you end up feeling like the weird and "insecure"
The secret truth that guys don't know
is that most men out there are playing the "fake it" game with
their inner game and self-confidence. In fact, 80% or more of the guys that
you think of as "very confident" are probably even MORE anxious
in their heads than you would believe.
Most guys are "faking it" with women.
First, here's another little secret for you:
Natural Game Is What You Have
When You Finally Master Your Inner Game...
Every one of the guys that I've coached to
get their inner game together has made the discovery that his game with
women comes easily and naturally when he finds his confidence.
He also finds that:
Conversation comes easy. There are no more uncomfortable
The sting of rejection disappears. Your
identity is no longer in her hands...
Women can no longer make
you feel inadequate, or hurt your feelings...
You still have that same sense
of excitement and thrill when you see an attractive women you want
to meet, but you don't feel the invisible grip of fear stopping you
from going after her...
You no longer need any "lines"
or routines with women. In fact, you start finding the perfect thing
to say because you don't have to go out with a "full head" of
stuff you never use...
Social situations become incredibly
easy... you make friends wherever you go...
You stop losing your emotional
cool around women, and you stop feeling like a puppet pulled
around by the strings of jealousy and fear...
You feel comfortable and authentic
when relating to people, and your anxiety and nervousness disappears...
Inner Game Can Mess Up Your Social Life, Too...
Have you ever been out trying to meet people
and have fun, or maybe you were just hanging around your friends, and you
couldn't seem to feel like you were "IN" the conversation? They
seemed to have their little "clique" with each other, but they
didn't seem to want to connect with you, no matter how hard you tried.
The fact is that your level of inner confidence
also affects how successful you are with your social life and social network,
But, the same as dating, your "natural social
game" comes automatically when your inner game is feeling solid and stable.
So what are the most important parts of your
inner game to work on?
Here Are The 6 Key Areas Of
Core Inner Game
Now I'm going to share with you the 6
key areas of inner game that a man must understand and master.
When you have these taken care of, you'll find that the others
just take care of themselves...
1. SELF-CONFIDENCE & SELF-ESTEEM
This is one that is probably tops on every
guy's list of things he wants to improve.
We want to be confident and secure, and we
want to really like who we are as a person. There's really no greater thing
to aspire to in our lives.
But HOW do you improve it? It's not one of
those things that anyone ever teaches you in school. Heck, even my own dad
didn't teach me this when I was growing up and getting picked on by other
kids. My parents would tell me to just "not let it bother me." What good
Well, while I was doing some research for
this article I found a bunch of news reports about how your self-esteem
is pretty much connected to everything in your life - like:
Isn't it amazing how one psychological
factor - your self-confidence - can account for such a HUGE part of a man's
- Your level of income...
- The amount of satisfaction you get from
- Your health - including how often you
get sick - and how long you will live...
- Your job security...
- Your happiness...
- The relationship you have with your family...
2. SELF-DISCIPLINE & EMOTIONAL CONTROL
This is what I wished I'd had when I found
myself calling my ex in the middle of the night, or waiting out in that
girl's parking lot for 6 hours for her to come home from her other boyfriend.
Self-discipline is that
ability to say what you should when you know you should, and - more importantly
- keeping your mouth shut when you ought to just be quiet.
Emotional control is one of those things
every guy wants when he has a woman that likes to "push his buttons."
And it's something we ABSOLUTELY need when
a woman starts testing us. You ever feel your panic start to rise when
a woman asks you a test question like, "Do you have a girlfriend?"
A woman's ultimate decision about how she
feels about you always comes down to how you control your emotions at a few
key and critical moments.
Will you know what to do when the time comes?
The next area of inner game that you have
to know is...
3. HOW TO GET RID OF OLD, SELF-DEFEATING
You might also call this "How to Change
without the burnout and frustration.
This is another skill that no one ever taught
us: How to change.
I was brought up in a family that didn't ever
seem to change. My dad smoked like a chimney, and he tried EVERYTHING you
can imagine to quit. From acupuncture to hypnotism. He kept smoking
until the day he died.
My uncle was always getting crappy jobs, drinking
like a fish, and doing more drugs than most of the rock bands I was listening
to. I listened to his lame excuses for his behavior, and I heard about him
trying to rehab every week.
He's in his fifties now and he still hasn't
changed. Not ONE BIT.
It's discouraging seeing so many people who
never seem to change.
But then I saw other people in my life changing
their lives around. I had friends that quit smoking and became respectable
So I had to figure out what it was that made
them different, and why they were able to change when others didn't.
And not just the secret of how to kick one bad
habit, because that could just be a fluke. I wanted to know how to change
or improve whatever I wanted so that I could be the man I wanted to be.
This is the essence of personal change,
and it's one of the most essential skills of inner game to learn. Because
without it, you'll never be able to make the others work for you.
The belief and ability to change is crucial
to any Alpha Man's skills, as is his sense of...
Look, as guys, we know that losing our hair
doesn't mean one bit of difference to who we really are as men. After all,
there isn't a special nerve connection from your scalp to the "confidence
of your brain, so it shouldn't mean anything to us, right?
The way we feel about our appearance
impacts our level of self-esteem and how attractive we feel with women.
But why is it that you've seen some bald
guys that get a TON of action from women, AND they are more confident than
Tom Cruise. What's different about them?
Yup. It's that darn Inner Game again.
These guys know something different about
themselves that stops them from seeing the missing hair as being a reason
to feel like they are less attractive or less manly.
And they also have the ability to...
5. MANAGE ANXIETY & FEAR
This is one area that men don't like to talk
about. I know I didn't.
Hey, what guy wants to admit that he's got
a fear of women, or feels a sick, anxious knot of heat in the middle of his
stomach when he walks up to talk to a woman?
But there are so many guys who run into the
brick wall of their own emotions in many different situations.
It's not our fault!
Men simply are not brought
up to manage or understand their emotions the same way women are. But emotional
intelligence is the number one indicator of your level of happiness, life
satisfaction, and ultimate level of success.
The skills to manage our internal state are
also incredibly important for when we want to approach women, or when we
want to move in for the kiss, or escalate things sexually with a woman.
And, funny enough, this also leads to...
6. SHYNESS & SOCIAL SKILLS
Wait, didn't I say "Inner Game" areas?
Yes, I did. And your social skills fit right
into your inner game.
You ever been with a group of your friends
when you crack a joke at the right time, you get some big laughs, and suddenly
everyone warms up to you? You feel like you're one of the "cool people"
in just one moment. You managed to change yourself from 'outsider'
to 'insider' with just one quick social move.
Now, tell me that you wouldn't feel like 'The
Man' right at that moment.
You would feel on top of the world, wouldn't
Your inner confidence increases
massively from your OUTER experience.
And THAT is the big secret of inner game.
Your Inner Game does not improve without outer
game techniques and successes that complete the circuit for you. Inner Game
is like the positive terminal on a battery... you have all this potential,
but nothing happens until you connect it to the negative terminal of your
battery - your OUTER game.
And this is what I finally figured out after
years of just trying to "read books" and "listen to tapes." Those methods
don't work unless you get something practical you can use to really see
and feel the change in your experience.
The Best News
Is That You Don't Have To "CHANGE" Yourself...
Or FIGHT Yourself.
In fact, if you're trying to CHANGE yourself,
you're probably not going to succeed.
The biggest mistake I found guys making was that they were
working really hard to "change themselves." And as we all know,
changing yourself is a very big task.
But that's only if you're doing it the WRONG WAY.
Let me ask you something - Have you ever
heard of Aikido?
It's a very cool martial art.
heeee-ya, and all that.
Basically, in this style, what you do is
use your opponent's energy against himself. If he tries to hit you,
you just step aside and redirect him into a wall, or a door, or down some
THUNK. Problem solved.
And you only used about 1/100th the energy
to end the confrontation than he did to start it.
You might have seen Steven Segal in his movies
use this style of fighting.
WHAP! The bad
guy is thrown over a bar...
BLAM! The punk
is tossed into a car windshield...
villain is launched into the exploding building...
And the hero hardly breaks a sweat.
Well, the brilliant part of the martial art
of Aikido is that it's the best philosophy to use in just about every situation
you can imagine. Verbal situations and social situations.
Very little energy and effort - and HUGE results.
Stay with me here - this is cool...
Because The Worst Thing You Can Do
Is To FIGHT Your Own Self-Confidence... Instead, Work WITH IT.
A lot of guys I've met and coached in the
past were always trying very hard to overcome their limitations and self-confidence
issues by what I call "bulldogging" it.
Have you ever seen a bulldog get hold of a
rag toy? It will chomp down and shake its head and tug and pull... It will
usually pull the toy away from whoever is fighting with it.
But here's the real problem: The bulldog only
has enough fight in him for a couple of those tug-of-war matches before he's
all out of energy. Then it's all over for him.
Men are the same way.
If we take this "grit your teeth" attitude,
we might win the first few rounds against our own self-confidence and self-esteem,
but we usually just run out of energy and give up a short time later.
We give up on our new habits just because they take too much energy to keep
Enter The Dragon...
Well, not really the dragon, but something
very much like it.
Whenever we fight the natual
energy of a situation, we usually end up exhausted and beaten.
But when you
go WITH it, you get much more done.
You may have heard the saying: "The reed that bends
does not break."
Well, that's especially true with your confidence and self-esteem.
In fact - if you FIGHT your own natural tendencies,
you will probably take MUCH longer to improve your inner game than if you
just got it together. (And there are a lot you have that you might not even
Using the principles of Aikido on your inner
game will make a HUGE difference in your results. And it's this philosophy
that allowed me to realize how to get past my own limitations...
Here Are The Two Huge Realizations
That Released My Stuck Brakes...
The unfortunate fact is that most guys like
you and me want to improve our confidence and Alpha game, but there is
so much junk out there that it's like panning for gold in a mountain stream.
TONS of work with very little payoff.
This is why most guys end up bored, frustrated
- and they quit. And then they end up settling for less in their lives.
They fight long and hard to get very little
All because they didn't have the understanding of "Aikido"
for their inner game.
Here are the BIG realizations I discovered
about my inner game...
My Big Realization
I got just ONE thing out of a book or program that helped me, it was worth any amount of money.
I mean, if some tip helped me get even just
a little bit more confident, it was worth the work to find it. It's just
like rock climbing - if you find just one place to hold onto that's a bit
further up, the next one is now probably within your reach.
I even stopped whining that this or that book/tape
wasn't worth the money, and I'd keep everything I got - knowing that there
was always at least one secret in it that would help my game.
And I found a LOT of secrets over the years.
And then I had...
My Big Realization #2: My brain is
tricking me and doesn't help me most of the time.
Have you ever been in a moving vehicle, like
a car or a train, and you've been riding along for a few minutes. And then
you come to a stop, but for some reason it still feels like you're
It's just like those "optical illusions" you
see in books, where your brain can be tricked by a simple pattern on a piece
Well, I realized after many years of struggling,
that my own mind was tricking me in a lot of ways. Like making me think that
what other people were thinking of me was good or bad - or that it really
mattered at all.
Once I finally understood WHY I thought these
things, and - more importantly - what I should be focusing on, I stopped
feeling so self-conscious with women and in social groups.
My Big Realization
I re-read a book, or listened to a program again, I'd always find
2 or 3 more great strategies that I could use that I didn't hear the first
Usually a lot
more than that!
I must have read 200 books and listened to
another hundred tapes and CDs on self-development. I went through everything
I could find out there.
Not everything I read was new to me.
In fact, the reality is that most of that stuff only had a couple nuggets
of pure gold in them. But inevitably I'd read a book and find one or more
new concepts or techniques that really grabbed me.
The funny thing was that those new things
I found were there before, but my mind just wasn't ready to find them the
first time around. I mean, there were some really incredible insights in
there just waiting to be found...
But then I thought, who
has the time to go through hundreds and hundreds of hours of
programs over and over again like I did?
I don't think anyone wants to "pan for
So after going through most of my notes, my
workbooks, and journals, I decided to pull together all the stuff I had on
this one topic of self-confidence and inner game into something that any
guy could use - and not have to spend months and years learning.
Wouldn't It Be Cool If You Could Compact
Months and Years Of Self-Help Work Into Just A Fraction Of The Time?
Look, the reality is that most people simply
don't have the time or even the interest in reading hundreds
of books and listening to countless hours of self-help programs like I did.
(Honestly, you get a little weird when
you go off the deep end learning this kind of stuff. I was a bit strange...)
So I thought, wouldn't it be great if I could
just pull all the best tips, tactics, strategies, and
techniques I had figured
out over the years and just create one giant CONCENTRATED program.
A "super-program," if you like.
I wanted to give you only the skills you need
most to conquer your "inner game" and throw out all the garbage
and nonsense out there that doesn't work. (Because there's a lot of fluff
in most of those programs out there.)
Just like concentrated soap, where a little
goes a LONG way.
Well, it took me a few years, but I finally
It's Time To Make a Deep Internal Shift
A BREAKTHROUGH In Your Thinking...
Have you tried other programs in the past
and had difficulties getting the information to "stick" with you?
Or you knew the information was valuable and
could work, but you didn't have the "HOW" to do it?
I had the same experience with a lot of the
books I read out there. What I discovered was that I wasn't able to keep
up the new habits and skills they taught me.
Since I first wrote The
Dating Black Book over 7 years
ago, I've seen guys making the same mistakes over and over again. Whether
it was in bootcamps or seminars, they would inevitably make the same classic
Once they saw what they were doing, they were
able to get out of their own way and release the "emergency brake" on
their energy and power with women. It was a lot like experiencing a giant
Tesla coil with lightning arcing across a room.
Women stood up and took notice.
What Is The BIG Error That Most Guys
The error was trying to substitute a "technique" or
to cover up their feelings of inadequacy, insecurity, or nervousness.
What most guys don't realize or find out is
that a lot of the "pickup artist" material out there doesn't work
if your inner game is weak to begin with. In fact, it's downright damaging.
I'm sure you've seen or experienced this yourself.
If you try to use a line on a woman and you don't have the attitude to back
it up, she will cut you apart.
The tragedy of this situation is that most
guys will never get the success they truly deserve with women... NOT because
they are inadequate or can't "change" themselves,
but because they don't understand how to use their natural abilities
to master their emotions and their thinking.
Your biggest enemy in life is probably your own level of
frustration and discouragement.
15 Years of Inner Game Techniques
and Skills - Distilled Down to Just the Parts You Need...
I'm a bit of a weirdo...
I've got a passion for self-development and the whole "psychology
of achievement" field. I've spent over 15 years reading books, listening
to tapes, going to seminars and lectures, watching videos, and doing just
about every crazy thing you can think of to stop my worrying and insecurity
and self-confidence issues.
Yeah, I've done just about everything you
can imagine (from therapists to witch doctors.) And I now know what really
does work and what really does NOT work.
Have you ever wanted to know:
- How to experience strong emotions like
love and excitement - and still feel in control?
- How to persist and keep going, even during
those times when you're seeing little or no improvement?
- How to avoid resenting women and feeling
angry with them?
- How to get what you want without feeling
needy and insecure?
- How to switch off that negative voice
in your head that stops you from succeeding?
- What it takes to use all the stuff you've
learned, and keep from forgetting it or losing it?
- Where to start and how to get past your
own internal B.S.?
- How to avoid feeling overwhelmed - and
just know where to focus next to get yourself moving in the right direction?
- How to make all the puzzle pieces
of your game fit together - including that missing piece that you know
is out there and will "click" everything into place?
- How to remain consistent with your inner
game, no matter where you are or who you are with?
- How do you finally start to control that
need to have people like you or care what they think about you?
- How do you deal with the guys that challenge
you or try to lower your status when you're out approaching and meeting
- How to keep your Alpha Attitude and confidence,
even when you're in a relationship? So you can keep her and not
drive her off...?
- How to be authentic and REAL instead of
just another pickup artist clone?
- How to avoid getting stuck in your head,
and just get in-the-moment?
- How your inner game gets communicated
into your outer game?
- How to stop TRYING and finally
Now you can have the state-of-the-art
techniques and secrets that I wish I'd found years ago...
My Ultimate Inner Game method shows you the
recipes, techniques, tactics, strategies, secrets, tricks, and exercises
that will get you un-stuck.
I'm not going to kid you. This home-study program is big - I didn't leave any stones unturned.
But my Ultimate Inner Game system
is designed to start raising your overall confidence level in the first
24 hours after you start listening and using the information.
No weird affirmations and weak self-hypnosis,
and nothing you can't put to use quickly and easily.
And it's not just good for getting women... It's good for
EVERY area of your life you want to feel more confidence and power over your
And the best part is that once you conquer
your Inner Game, you'll feel the kind of peace that buddhist monks will
And then the rest of your life really will
take care of itself.
Fix your inner game, and your outer game will run like
a finely tuned sports car.
Ignore it, and you'll have constant
breakdowns and you'll experience the ongoing fear of being stranded and alone
by the side of the road of your own life...
Do you ever feel like women
have way more control over you than you'd like them to have...?
Do you ever feel like your
emotions and your willpower were just out of control - and this was sabotaging
your ability to get a girl interested in you...?
Do you ever feel like no
matter what stuff you use - pickup lines, and seduction techniques, and all
those techniques that other guys used - you still have some element of you
that is still not quite "dialed
in" ... and if you could tweak this one part of you - you'd really
see a lot more improvement with your dating life...?
How Would You
Like To Feel Like You're
100 Feet Tall And Made Out of Solid Diamond...?
Most therapists will keep you "on the couch" for
years before you make any significant progress in terms of your inner game
and self-esteem, much less any progress with women.
If you've tried
EVERYTHING before to get you out of the situation you're in, and you
just can't get your situation fixed, or figure out where to go next,
this program is definitely for you...
If you feel
out of control in your dating life, unable to get a grip on things, or
you feel like your situation is hopeless, or that you're trapped or doomed,
this program will show you exactly how to get your hands back on the
steering wheel of your life...
If you've had
a problem dealing with rejection from women, or getting over a tough
breakup, this program will give you the clarity you seek, and the ability
to raise your self-esteem over this hurdle with ease...
ever dealt with depression, or just getting bummed over your situation,
you're going to learn the secrets to turning on your emotional control
mechanisms, and snap out of any funk in just a few minutes...
If you've been
having problems with your social life, just making friends and being
a fun guy that people want to hang out with, I'll teach you the bottom-line
skills you must have to destroy your anxiety and increase your social
This Is Your Inner Game - Version 2.0
Through Version 2000...
Here are some of the other things this Ultimate
Inner Game system will show you...
- Understand the complete inner workings of your mind and your thinking - so
that you can get "under the hood" and pimp your inner game ride to do what
you want to do...
- How to re-write the conscious and subconscious "rules" that
you obey - most of the time without ever questioning them - even when they're
no longer working for you - so that you can redirect your destiny and achieve
what you want with women - and with every area of your life...
- One simple hidden technique that takes 10 seconds
and will instantly flush away your guilt, anger, resentment, frustration,
disappointment, fear, or any negative emotion...
- Learn how the 7 Domains of your self-esteem works -
in complete detail - so that you can control the level of your self-confidence
and keep it consistent...
- The secrets your therapist will never tell you about that will get you stronger
inner game in days instead of months and years... (if more guys knew about
this, therapy would be dead...)
- Do you feel like shyness is keeping you from meeting women, making new friends,
and experiencing life? You'll learn about the different kinds of shyness, how
they work, and step-by-step instructions on how to break through the shyness
barrier in your life...
- How to get the right parts of your brain working TOGETHER instead of as enemies,
so that you can stop second-guessing yourself, and find your inner source of
courage and passion...
- How to jump-start your social circle of friends
- in just 3 weeks...
- The Truth about "manifestation" - and how "The Secret" misleads
and tricks most guys...
- Learn the 5 Domains and the 7 Skills of emotional
intelligence, and identify where you need to develop most to master yourself
and your feelings...
- How to master the the 3 Essential Skills of "state change" so that you can
instantly get in a better mood, and motivate yourself to do things you normally
find difficult or impossible to accomplish...
- Why slow changes you make are harder and take more energy than the quick
- The 14 Steps of Emotional and Self-Mastery and the 6 Needs we all share -
When you learn these, you'll be able to unlock any person's motivation and
- How to completely turn off that "worry voice" in your head that keeps you
living in anxious fear...
- 7 Steps to defuse and manage your fear and keep from reacting automatically
to social challenges...
- Want to learn practical, simple steps to getting peace of mind and lowering
your stress level that doesn't take a lifetime to learn? You'll get them in
sections 4, 8, and 10...
- How to recognize your unhealthy thinking when it raises its voice, and how
to prevent it from wrecking your approaches and conversations with women...
- How to ask your woman for things without
sounding like a needy wuss-bag...
- How to fix up the holes in your self-confidence so you can interact with
women on a strong and confident footing...
- The 6 Critical Steps to plan and create real lasting change in your life
- from your identity to your habits to your beliefs and way of thinking...
- The easiest methods for relaxing, clearing your head, getting out of your
head, and getting back in the moment with women - or anyone... With step-by-step,
real-time guidance through the exercises...
- How you inherited bad mental habits and trains of thought, and how to finally
get rid of them without a bunch of therapy and painful self-analysis...
- Simple exercises to identify the places in your life where
you are letting women control you instead of taking the confident LEAD of your
- Do you ever find yourself making decisions to make people like you more,
or just to not look bad? Here are some simple techniques to clear your head
and get back to the REAL and authentic you that earns their respect and admiration...
- Do you find that women don't seem to be interested
in more dates with you after your first date? Here's why... and it's one
of the easiest parts of your inner game to get tuned up...
- 4 Principles of Thought that show you how feelings, moods, and emotions work...
Once you understand how this part of you works, you'll be able to stop reacting
or feeling influenced by women and social pressure...
- The big mistakes men make with their "panic" and anxiety attacks - and how
to use the emotional energy to build self-confidence...
- How to make any "technique" you've learned work better, faster, and longer
than any of the guys who just learn "the words..."
- How to take "rejection" and "failure" situations with women and turn them
around into something that improves your self-confidence and self-esteem -
without cheezy affirmations...
- How to remove the negative habits you've developed that end up destroying
- Ever wonder how some pathetic guys have no problems meeting women? Why smart
guys have more trouble with women than the "dumb" guys seem to...
- How to get past the need for memorized "lines" and "routines" with women
so that you can project your powerful confidence and masculine identity to
create GENUINE attraction...
- Learn the simple technique to handle the guys that
try to make a fool out of you and tool you...
- How to get past your approach anxiety with women - or any social group -so
that you can quickly and easily walk up to any woman you see and start a conversation,
without fear or nervousness...
- How to avoid the women with issues and baggage and find the women with healthy
psychological patterns - so you can stop going through the torture of relationships
that are doomed before they begin...
- Here is the simple architecture of your inner "self-defense" mechanisms and
how they work - and how they work in other people so you can get past all the
dysfunction and shields...
- You have Inner "Lie" Mechanisms get in your way of
experiencing life and I will explain how our brains naturally deceive us
if we're not careful - and how you can tell when your mind is tricking you...
- Take a complete self-esteem inventory to figure out where you are right now
with your own level of self-confidence...
- 10 Secret Power Tips for handling the rollercoaster ride of your own self-confidence,
and smoothing out the ride...
- There's a powerful 2-step system to manage the "evidence" you get from the
outside world, and when you cultivate this skill - as I will show you in this
section - you'll learn how to break old disempowering beliefs and install new
- You'll learn the 5 Power Questions that immediately re-frame your experience
and turn any situation back to your control - no more anger and frustration
when life doesn't go your way...
- The Secret 2-Step Method and the Three Questions that enable you to channel
your energies to the right parts of your life - and these are questions you
are automatically answering every minute of every day without even knowing
- Simple psychological tricks to destroy your anger
and anxiety and never be a
slave to your emotions again...
- A common misunderstanding that locks almost all men
into a state of low self-esteem their whole life… and it's completely
simple to break out of when you know the secret...
- How to turn your negative emotions and energy into positive self-esteem -
without having to act or "fake it 'til you make it..."
- How to break free of needy, insecure "little boy" behaviors that scare away
women, and finally take on your Alpha Masculinity...
- How to get past the old patters of obsession, anger, frustration, anxiety,
and negative states that keep your game with women from really moving forward...
- How to change the parts of you that you want to change, without feeling like
you're being fake or deceptive with women... or double-crossing yourself...
- How to stop beating yourself up over and over again for things that are in
the past, and start to recognize and focus on your future...
- The 11 Mind Traps that create social anxieties, and how to get past this
with simple secrets that anyone can learn and use in just minutes...
- How to look approachable, be friendly, start a conversation, cultivate strong
friendships, and stop feeling "weird" around other people, or that you are
the "different" one...
- How to manifest a strong and confident body
language, without going further up in your head...
- How to have the confidence to walk up
and talk to anyone, anywhere, without worrying about approval or being
rejeted... No more inferiority complex!
- How to be your own life coach - rely on yourself more and be more
emotionally resourceful - with the skill to solve your own problems and
be your own best friend...
- How to "talk yourself down" from
your bouts of anxiety and fear so that you can kill that voice in your
head that's keeping you from doing what you know you need to do...
- How to overcome a woman's tests without
feeling like the rug was just pulled out from under your feet, staying grounded
- How to avoid freaking out with a woman
when things get sexually charged - and especially when you REALLY like
- How to control your state and leverage
"Aikido" principle of moods so that you never get stuck in the
downward spiral of depression ever again...
- How to put yourself in the right state
so that you keep conversations going with ease and never have to deal with
"shy and quiet" part of you making things boring and awkward
- How to put yourself fully in the driver's
seat of your own life so that you get the results from your life that you
want - financially, sexually, spiritually, socially...
- How to awaken your masculinity to become
a complete and whole Alpha MAN...
- How to naturally jack up and increase your
mental, emotional, and physical energy every day by engaging your natural
- How to handle negative self-talk and stress
in your life, with cool, calm composure...
- How to impress anyone you meet with the
solidity of your character and the power of your presence and confidence...
- How to "switch off" the negativity in your
thinking and substitute it with more realistic "positive" thinking
- without coming across like an annoying happy dancing monkey...
- How to stop ruminating over past events
and the bad things that happen to you so that you can free your mind up
to new accomplishments and opportunities...
- How to figure out which "inner voice" you
can pay attention to, and which one you should ignore... And how to stop
- Have you been learning a lot of "seduction
techniques," but now you feel like you've lost touch with your real
authentic personality? Learn how to get back to your natural self...
- How to get rid of that constant feeling
of being watched and judged by other people when you go out and interact
with women - or with anyone!
- How to win friends and influence people
- for the new millenium... updated strategies to increase your personal
charisma and social intelligence...
- How to adapt to changing social situations
on the fly - so that you can be a social chameleon...
- How you are 'blinded' to your own inner
game issues, and how to take off the blindfold that's keeping you in the
- The principle of compounding energy in
your inner game - how slight improvements create massive increases in
energy and results...
- The secret "universal mistake" in thinking
that all humans make - and when you learn this, you'll immediately know
why your thinking gets in your way of confidence...
- How your moods and your natural need to
worry and "stress out" get in your way and become addictive traps...
- Shortcut through therapy - a quick and
easy breakdown of the 3 environments that shaped your personality, and
how to break free from the negative limitations of your upbringing...
- The simple physiological and biological
explanation of your mind's most basic automatic defenses and systems, and
how you are naturally wired to succeed - with the right inner game skills...
- Why "just do it" and "be confident" is
the worst kind of advice - and why you are beating your head against a
wall when it comes to self-improvement - and how to tear down that wall...
- How and why your habits seem so hard to
break or change, and the secret method you can leverage change to make
breakthrough changes in your habits in just a short time...
- Why we get "stuck" in relationships that
seem to be going nowhere when we see opportunity all around us...
- Why therapy and digging into your past
not only doesn't work to help you change or "get over" issues, but in fact
makes them even worse - and how to avoid this "Therapy Trap..."
- Learn the blueprint of how your mind works,
and the three simple parts that make up your identity... and how to override
those automatic impulses you get that seem to control your behavior against
- The Six Questions to understand about
your parents and how they brought you up so you can reconcile your past
and get on with your future...
- How to recognize and stop your natural
mental bad habits from starting, and how to get rid of the hesitation
and anxiety that your negative thinking creates...
- The single most important attitude and
element of inner game that a man must master - and how it impacts your
sexual success, as well as every part of your life - from the car you drive
to the women you date... AND the single most important factor that can
shift the balance of power...
- The 5 Useless insights of the
pickup community - including the "Magic Bullet" Myth, and how
you avoid falling for bad advice when you hear it...
- How your mind works, how your mental "automatic pilot" functions
- and how you can re-program yourself for the behaviors you want... as
well as get rid of bad habits that seem to stick with you forever...
- The reason why most self-help programs don't seem to work, and how
you can get past this trap so that you can enable yourself for change
- Your "Outrage Script" - The one mindset that holds you back from success
with women, as well as almost every other area where you aren't living
up to your full potential, and how to shut it down...
- The 3 Hidden Pickup Artist Traps - How a lot of the "attraction" and
"seduction" information can hold you back from a healthy and natural
'vibe' with women - and keep you from a positive social network...
- The 2 Automatic Questions - the natural interpretation drive of your
mind, and how you can get much better results in your life by taking
control of these questions...
- The "Mistake" Rule of Life - The one kind of mistake
you need to make about yourself to realize your full potential - and
the ONE conviction you must develop...
- Learn the 10 Metaprograms that determine your results and your mind-model,
and how you can use these to reach faster and stronger rapport with women
in any conversation...
- The 4 Ways your expectations are turned into reality in your life,
and what you need to do to short circuit the power of "self-fulfilling
- The Power of Your 5 Stories - how your inner mental dialogue creates
your experience, and how to "re-write" your story to create the ultimate
driving force in your life... And how communicating this story to women
will keep her glued to you...
- The 3 Steps to gain control of your inner voice - and the 10 skills
that give you the inner power of purpose, truth, and action...
- The 4 Energy Types you must understand, control and increase to beat
your negative addictions, and lead a healthy and positive life...
- How to manage and leverage your natural emotional, mental, and physical
cycles to get rid of negativity and fatigue...
- How to avoid constantly beating yourself up over things you KNOW you
should let go of...
- How to keep yourself sane and stable in the dating world right now
- so you don't have to work out all your inner "issues" first to get
success with women...
Are You Ready
For An Offer You Simply Can't Refuse...?
No One Has Ever Delivered THIS:
As you can see, I've packed in just about
every conceivable part of inner game in this program. I left no stone unturned.
But in case I didn't put in what you need....
To be absolutely
sure that the program
meets your requirements, if you find a topic that has NOT been
addressed in the program that you need, simply email me at my special
Hotline To Carlos Link, and let me know - and I will CREATE additional
content to make sure your questions get answered.
I can't possibly imagine that I haven't
covered it all in this program, but if I missed something you need,
you've got a solid guarantee that you will get it answered.
How's THAT for an offer you can't refuse?
I'm Adding In A Special Bonus...
There's one more area of a man's inner game that he must
have taken care of or he will not succeed over the short - or the long term.
And that area is:
COACHING AND GUIDANCE.
Wouldn't it be great to have the ability to "coach" yourself?
To be your own voice of support and guidance, rather than always having to
rely on new programs every few months? Look, I spend a lot of time focusing
on helping guys and making each program I offer the definitive guide.
But it's also easy to be lured into buying
more and more programs just in case you missed anything.
Well, first of all, you won't miss anything
here. This is my last program on self-confidence that I intend to create.
But even more important than this, you probably
just need the ability to coach yourself.
There will be situations around the corner
that you're not prepared for. That's how life is.
But wouldn't it be great if you could just
change your own strategy - all by yourself - to tackle any unforseen challenges?
Wouldn't it be great to be your own Life-Coach?
Well, in this program, I decided to include
my special program on self-coaching and creating your own life strategies.
I was going to create a separate program for this, but I decided it made
more sense to include it here for you.
How to balance your own needs with others in your life so that you can
be truly generous and giving...
How to be "selfish" in the right way that gives you more energy, creativity,
and get past your own limitations...
The 10 Areas of Self-Coaching to focus on, and how each of them contributes
to your overall confidence and sense of power...
How to build a "super reserve" of resources, energy, satisfaction, and
get rid of all your worries and fears in the process...
How to manage your time realistically and simply so that you can finally
throw out that day planner and get things done...
How to formulate a complete, day-to-day strategy for living that serves
your passion and purpose, and the critical parts of a complete Alpha Man
And much more...
And ANOTHER Very Special Bonus...
There's another area of inner game that guys ask me about
a lot, and I usually get it in the form of this question:
"How Can I Date Younger Women?"
Well, the game of dating younger women is
actually a BIG Inner Game hurdle for a lot of guys. After all, if you're
attracted to younger women (who isn't?) then you want to get rid of that
feeling that you're a "creep,"
or some kind of "dirty old man."
Let me assure you, dating younger women is not only a good
thing, it's easier than most guys realize. This is a huge inner game challenge
for a lot of guys out there, and it's one that I completely cover in this
63 minute advanced Inner Game session.
Why guys have such a hard time with both
their inner AND outer game when it comes to approaching and getting girls
that are younger than them - and what to do about it...
How to open a conversation with a younger woman, as well
What you should talk about with younger women with my
"media walking" method...
What women are really looking for when it
comes to age, and how you can easily "bypass" any objections to age a woman
My solid gold reframe letter that will change
your thinking instantly as to the perception of women's age and how old
is "tool old" for a guy...
How to handle the social stigma of age differences
between men and women, and why certain cultures consider it "wrong" or
"inappropriate" for an older man with a younger woman...
Learn the advantages to dating (and perhaps
marrying) a younger woman - as well as the inner and outer game strategies
to attracting women who are 10, 20, or more years younger than you...
Two ways that older guys ruin their chances
with younger women - and how to turn these around so that YOU qualify
the woman, and you maintain a confident and powerful attitude...
What is it that women are looking for in
an older man? Find out in this bonus session...
Here's What You Get:
Here is everything you get with the Ultimate
Inner Game - Total Self Confidence & Social Success system:
Inner Game Modules...
Hours of material covering every aspect of your inner game with women,
and your confidence in every part of your life.
Bonus Master Class Sessions...
12 Ultimate Inner Game Training Modules
BONUS 1: The Ultimate
Inner Game Primer Video Class...
This is my special inner game training video presentation on Advanced
Inner Game that I gave to a closed-room audience here in San Francisco.
In this video, you'll learn:
- What the "PUA learning curve" is, how it limits most guys who want
to improve their game with women, and how to break free of this negative
- The big mistake 98% of all guys make with how they develop their
inner confidence, and what your inner game depends on most of all...
- Learn what part of your inner game is the most limiting - and the
most empowering - and what you must do overcome this "weak link..."
- What the 4 Inner Game Traps are, and how you avoid them when you're
working on self-development and your dating skills...
- Learn The Power of the "3 Questions" and how you can regain control
of your conscious and subconscious mind when you learn them and use
- Find out what the difference is between "real" and fake confidence,
and how to develop the right kind of inner game that works in the
real world... (And not just bars and clubs!)
- Discover the real difference between a "confident" man's thinking
and the un-confident "nice guy," and how you make this key shift
in your own thinking - permanently...
- 5 Steps you can take RIGHT AWAY to radically increase your confidence
and inner game strength that will get you to the next "Alpha" level...
BONUS 2: The Bryan
Bayer Deep Inner Game Video Class...
Bayer, co-founder and CEO of AMP (Authentic
Man Program™) and it's parent company, AuthenticSF™,
is a certified course leader for the Arete Center for Excellence,
and a Destination Method® Practitioner. With a background in
meditation, NLP, integral theory, developmental psychology, chi-kung
and man/woman dynamics, he has facilitated workshops and coached
hundreds of people to success in the areas of communications, business,
dating and relationships.
In this special training video, Brian and I go into deep inner
game strategies and techniques. You will learn:
- The difference between setting your mood "in the
moment," and creating the entire stage of your self-confidence...
- How we sabotage our conversations with women by our inner game
- and how you're probably doing this in more than just your
interactions with women...
- The hidden "Positive Addiction" you
can create in yourself that will unlock the keys to your development
and massive increases in inner game...
- The 3-Step "Cage Match" technique for overcoming any
limiting obstacle you have in your neediness and insecurity...
- The 2 big mistakes guys make when using "NLP" to change
their state or to influence their level of self-confidence...
- How "secondary gains" can destroy your inner
game work you do on your own, and how you can counter this in your own development...
- How you kill your own ability to make "identity level" changes
in your life - and how to avoid this problem when using any programs
or other products you own...
- How to manage your "neediness' so that it doesn't explode
and impact your entire life...
- How to manage your overwhelming emotions so that you
stay in control...
- What real "needy" behavior is like, how to spot it
- and stop it dead in your own life...
- How we cover up our insecurities and vulnerabilities in ways
that prevents real connection and intimacy with others... and how
your outer game becomes a trap and a "carcass" to
avoid when you want to connect authentically with women...
- How to be "needy" without freaking people out and pushing
away the people you want closer in your life...
- The first big mistake all guys make with
their feelings of desire and need that shoots them in the foot and makes it ten times more
difficult to get what it is they want...
- How to achieve the mindset where women do not push you into a fear
reaction anymore - YOU are in control of your head, and your gut...
- And much more...
3: The 253 Page Reference Ebook - Your Notebook...
Sometimes you need a written reference
to look through and remind you of just the important points. Or maybe
you want to know where that one part was that you missed and you want
to find it again to review... Or you just listened to it in your car
and you couldn't take any notes...
Well, I'm not just giving you the audio program - I actually
sat down and transcribed all the key ideas and most important points
for you into a 253 page reference e-book for all 12
of the main modules in the Ultimate Inner Game program.
And I'm even including a learning plan to map your precise path through
the program in the best way possible...
TEN Master Class Sessions...
You'll get the best inner game advice, techniques,
and strategies from some of my most respected colleagues - and experts
in the area of Ultimate Inner Game:
- Sean Stephenson
- Love Systems Experts
- Dr. Paul
- Dr. Alex Benzer
- Scot McKay
- Marni Kinrys
- Grant Adams
- FJ Shark
Here are the Bonus Experts
From the Master Class
on Ultimate Inner Game.
You get these EXCLUSIVE and powerful training sessions ONLY with
When I first realized that I needed
to create a complete and "ultimate" program on inner game, I knew
there were about 3 people that I absolutely had to get to contribute.
But when the word got out, about TWENTY different gurus wanted to
add some of their insights in.
In the end, I had to eliminate all
but the very best and make sure they had a spot in this program.
And each of them gives you some excellent and focused coaching on
developing your inner game to the next level.
This is not some kind of sneaky material
that just hints at good content and then tells you to click some
link, either. I made absolutely sure that the information they gave
was balls-out FANTASTIC.
Here is what you'll get in the bonus Master
Class section of the Ultimate Inner Game program...
Alex Benzer is the
author of 'The Tao of Dating: The Thinking Man's Guide to
Success with Women.' He holds an A.B. from Harvard College,
an MD from the University of California San Diego School
of Medicine, and an M.Phil. from Cambridge University. He
is a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist and NLP Master Practitioner.
Alex maintains a hypnotherapy practice in Los Angeles, California.
first segment, Alex shows you how to apply the concept of 'no-self'
to your dating life (and beyond) to eliminate approach
anxiety and transcend rejection.
The next part is adapted from his Courage
Amplifier Mindtrack. We go over how courage is central to any
success you want to have in life (since what you want is always
outside of your comfort zone.
- The role of your
ego - and how you manage it with "No Self" so that it doesn't
- The Dating Pipeline
- 7 essential steps of dating action that lead
to the best results...
- How you
limit your identity - the role of your "acquired
tastes" in dating and attraction...
- How to eliminate
your fear in approaching by going beyond confidence...
to get rid of the one thing that gets in the way of your
connection with a woman...
- The "State to Trait" method
of implementing change in your behavior...
- The nature of courage
- How your mind and nervous system works
- and how your fear disables you unintentionally
- Clear your
mind and cultivate awareness with a simple mental exercise
that you can use in any situation to relax and stop your
crazy "monkey" mind...
- A simple exercise to clear
your mind and relax, giving your mind the ability to connect
to your courage and confidence...
- Special Bonus: A Courage
Amplifier mind soundtrack that will program your mind for
calm and relaxation - increasing your confidence
Paul Dobransky has been one of the most sought after speakers
for his theories and advice on men's inner game issues. He's
been featured on David DeAngelo's "Interviews with Dating
Gurus," has written books on the psychology of love, and
has appeared on NBC, ABC, CBS, CNN, and FOX television.
In this segment of the Ultimate
Inner Game Master Class, you will learn:
- The two
vital parts of your mental "operating
system..." and the 4 Critical Parts of Character you
must focus on for rock-solid inner game...
- The need for "evolutionary
character" in sexual attraction - what it is, and how you
use it as a man...
and the important elements of masculinity
- What men need to feel that
they have achieved manhood, and how you're probably
missing out on the practical benefits of true manhood...
- The skill of
observing ego - how to use it, and why it is absolutely
essential for you to grow and avoid social regrets in life...
scientific explanation of "cool" - and what
you need to do to develop it...
- The difference between "taking
risks" - and the big mistake that you
take when you "play the numbers..."
- The vital
difference that women are looking for in your "game" that
pulls her interest immediately... The most powerful driver
in a woman's attraction psychology...
- How to "neg" a
woman in the right way that generates the right emotions
of mystery and interest...
- When it's officially "game
over" for you in your
game with a woman...
Kinrys is the owner and creator of The Wing Girl
Method and the concept of Wing Girls. Her company is the
only one of its kind that offers men a female perspective
straight from the source, a woman. The Wing Girl Method is
best known for their "Wing Girl"
outings where they take out guys accompanied by 2 Wing Girls
for an evening who validate him to other women, pick up women
for him and give him direct, on site, instant feedback.
In this Master Class segment, you will learn:
- The mind of a woman - What women are
thinking, and what she thinks about your inner game...
women are "insane" -
and how women predict what
you're thinking and read your mind...
a woman's real plan is when she goes out to bars and clubs -
what her mindset is, and how you should handle the approach
from a woman's perspective...
- The decision points a woman reaches
about whether she is interested in you, and how she reads
your inner game...
- How women relate to a guy's inner game
and read you - and what she does with her impression of you
in her head...
- The "sexiest" and strongest
traits that women are looking for in your game, and what
she really thinks about your looks and your nice car...
You know that she likes a sense of humor, but do you know
why? And what she thinks it communicates about you...? And
what she thinks about your shyness...
- How a woman reads character
and sexual success about a man - and what she's looking for...
emotional social skills a woman wants you to have -
and which emotional issues she's trying to avoid...
- The Wing Girl Method: Answering
Guys Top Questions About Inner Game With Women
- Is it really
possible to become a social stud? Can you REALLY change?
What do women think about this? Find out...
- How do you keep
going when you aren't seeing results with women? The
Wing Girls tell you what they think...
- How to manage women's
expectations when you feel like you don't "measure up..."
to stop psyching yourself out from approaching a woman...
The one approach that women hate the most - and you
must NEVER do, and how you can easily avoid it to start a
- How can you avoid
guy from out of town" vibe -
and be the life of any club you go into - even when you're
- How to keep up
a conversation after the approach, and what a woman looks for and wants to hear from
- What a guy can
do to date younger women - and what women think about guys that date younger women
- it's not what you think!
Stephenson is one
of the leading authorities on the deconstruction of self-sabotage
- the ways we get in our own way. A psychotherapist and internationally
known professional speaker, Sean has been sharing his findings
with audiences since 1996.
You probably know Sean from his appearances
in many other seminars and programs, and he lends his unique
and authentic presence to this program.
In this bonus, Sean will show you:
- How to Control Your Inner State
- without having to hypnotize yourself or "trick
- The 3 ingredients
to State Management - the tuning fork of your personality...
- How to handle people with congruency
to project your confidence and powerful state to others...
How to work your body language and manage your physiology
to connect with your deeper confidence...
Gilad (AKA Grant
Adams) is an Emmy Award Winning Executive Producer and Screenwriter,
a master writer & communicator who has taught creative writing
at Stanford and consulted for dozens of other
Fortune 500 Companies to make their marketing communications
powerful, visceral and effective.
But he is known
to thousands of men as Grant Adams, featured on the ABC
To Get The Guy" -- and created Net2Bed/Net2Wed:
How To Attract The Woman of Your Dreams For a Night, A
LifeTime And Everything In Between. Adam is also
the creator of erotic skills study programs including Erotic
Mastery and Tantric 101, as well as the 60-Second
Connect instruction program at Masters of Approach (which
features me, Carlos, naturally ;).
In this personal audio, which Adam created
especially for you in this program, he delves into what makes
for key Strength Attractors when devising an online profile
that touches women to the core.
Adam will show you:
- Sexual Polarity - what it is, and how
you cultivate it for a true sense of masculine inner confidence...
What "strength indicators" and "signifiers" are,
and how you use them to develop your masculine identity...
The missing ingredient from "natural game" that
most guys are lacking...
- Online dating tips to communicate
your inner game in your dating profile...
The secret control "solidity" factor - and what
this sub-communicates to women...
- A complete comparison and contrast of
good and bad online profiles...
- Humor and comedy - how it's related to
confidence and inner game, and what it is that women find
attractive - and how to communicate to a woman... and one
simple method to cultivate your sense of humor each day during
- The Strength Grid
exercise - to bring
your life into congruency - and the 8 strength areas... and
what to do to hone your attractiveness in all the key areas...
The 'Pet-the-dog' behavior that endears you to a woman...
a man looks "connected" between his inner
game and outer game, and how to diagnose your self-awareness
and understanding of your own "natural game" and
- Learn what One word change that
will massively increase the power and strength of your
- Uncover the shift in perception
about your identity that will surprise and delight the women
you meet, and become more naturally exciting than you ever
a top bootcamp instructor for Love Systems in New York, has
some great concepts and basic understanding of the inner game
of approaching. I met him in Los Angeles when we spoke at the
In this segment, "Fader," the instructor
who consistently gets rave reviews helping guys with their
inner game with women, shares some of his best information
and most powerful observations.
In this special Master Class, you'll learn:
- Fader's personal Inner Game definition,
and how you set yourself up for success or failure with women
based on your inner game attitudes...
- Where you have to find your ultimate
motivation in order to change and create stronger inner
- What the "Play
to Lose" attitude is, and how
guys sabotage their game with women with the wrong attitude...
The "cling" mistake that men make with
their inner game, and how to avoid the biggest mistake with your
identity that can be made...
- How a confident man handles "rejection" by
maintaining a strong internal reference...
- The difference
between the mentality of the man that gets a "6" and
the one that gets a "10"...
- The "Small Chunking"
Strategy for realistically
building your approaching skills...
- The "dorm room" strategy for
changing your mentality with respect to women...
the "social matrix" - how sub-communication
works with men and women in groups...
- How guys mess it up
with really beautiful women without even knowing it...
- The "CEO" example
of how social status is built and destroyed in just seconds...
The 3 areas you need to understand to learn and control social
- How guys mess it
up with women based on how hot she is, and how they handle their "phone
- How your "inner confidence" goes
up so that you can move from talking to average women to
- The "5 Loves/5 Hates" exercise to jack up your self-confidence - and how to feel positive
about your negatives...
Scot McKay is out there coaching guys
to get what they deserve from their dating and their relationships. Scot heard
about this program and came up with some additional coaching for you
on inner game.
In this Master Class session, you'll learn...
- Simple adjustments you can make to your voice that will reap massive
benefits RIGHT NOW
- Have you ever lost a woman's interest without even knowing what happened?
Rid yourself of that hollow, sinking feeling forever by pinpointing the
hidden ways you could be submarining YOUR OWN dating life.
- Absolutely golden strategies for first date success... make her think about
you constantly instead of wanting to forget you
- Are your conversation skills killing you? Why she'll never, ever tell you
that you messed up... and how to make sure it never happens again
- Why especially smart and educated guys are particularly prone to scaring
women away... and how to get your natural gifts to start working FOR you
instead of AGAINST you
- How to kill "awkward moments" with women FOREVER
Shark has been showing guys the magical power
of the "jerk" for
years. He's the author of the book "How to Be The
Jerk Women Love,"
which influenced my inner game and attitude, and turned me
around completely from a wussy "nice guy" to a
man that women respect.
In our interview, you'll learn:
- The 13 Sneakiest Tricks, Tests, and Mind Games women use
- and how you keep falling for them!
- Why getting phone numbers is the least important indicator
of your success with women, and what you should be focusing
- Why a woman uses the "raise the quota" strategy, and how
you counter it so you aren't tricked into giving up your
power and serving her...
- What "boyfriend dues" are, and if you should even be paying
- Learn how the "20 Questions" strategy works with women,
and how you can avoid getting fooled by this trick...
- What the "Acid Test" question is, and - more importantly
- how you respond to a woman that asks it... If you don't,
you'll destroy any chance of sleeping with her...
- What the "stunt double" is, and
how guys get fooled into falling in love based on this
one big mistake...
- And MUCH more...
Learn how the "Jerk's" inner game
works, and why he's so attractive to women in this exclusive
MASTER CLASS VALUE: $179.97
The Dating Younger Women Advanced Session Carlos Xuma with Dean Cortez...
This rare audio
session is a whole training module I developed for Dean Cortez to
explain how men can get past the inner and outer game obstacles related
to dating younger women.
Let's face it, guys want to date young, attractive women, and there's
nothing wrong with that!
You'll find out in this session:
BONUS 6 -
11: The Inner Game Interviews Series...
Carlos interviews some of the top names in dating advice and seduction
skills for men, giving you a look at how they think, and what they
do to build their confidence and self-esteem, and then how it applies
to the world of dating women and you living the Alpha Lifestyle.
You'll get over 12 hours of concentrated advice and techniques from
top gurus in the field.
BONUS 6: Brent Smith Interview
You may know Brent from being the guru that taught David DeAngelo
how to meet women. In this special interview, Brent explains his
ideas of Natural Inner Game, and the proper Alpha Man attitude
that he uses every day to attract women. When you hear Brent's
inner game attitude, you'll understand completely how to make the
switch from needy guy to confident Alpha Man.
You'll learn why
inner game work alone will kill your game with women, how to approach
women from strong inner game, and how Brent handles the approach
from a place of strong confidence.
BONUS 7: David Wygant Interview
David will tell you what you need to do to "flip the switch" in
your head - to get to the level of competence that you want with
women, and never go back to your old ways with women.
about the reasons that guys slip into a "scarcity" mindset
with women, and how to stop this from KILLING your game. You'll
even learn why you get more successful when you DON'T get a phone
number or the date... And why do we get caught up into this approval
seeking cycle of destruction?
Get ready for some real inner game
insight in this interview...
BONUS 8: Decker Cunov Interview - from A.M.P.
My good friend Decker from the Authentic Man program reveals
some of the most startling inner game techniques and revelations
I've ever talked about in this program. We discuss "quantum
leaps" in awareness and growth in your game, and how to build
up your confidence, as well as
BONUS 9: "Doc" Amir Georges Sabongui
Doc is one of the most beloved of all the guys in the men's dating
and social advice field. In this interview, Doc gives up his secrets
to how he found himself alone and depressed at home and turned
his life around to have nearly 100 people at his birthday party.
He'll share his strategies for completely turning your social life
BONUS 10: Zan Perrion Interview
Zan is known as the king of "natural game" - the kind of guy
who just goes in and uses his naturally devilish charm to win women
over. The essence of what Zan teaches is to not use lines and scripted
"routines" to attract women, and in this interview you will learn
much of the essence of Zan's style.
BONUS 11: Sean Stephenson Interview
Sean Stephenson makes a second appearance on this program, mostly
because of the high level of focus he puts on inner game and confidence.
He's interviewed me on the topic of inner game, and I got my chance
to talk to him about his perspective on this when we talked about
BONUS 12: Unlimited support
and updates for the life of the program...
From time to time, I like to make sure all the parts of the program
are in the right order, and all the necessary exercises are included.
Any future versions and updates of the Ultimate Inner Game program
will be sent to you - free of charge!
Access to my exclusive members-only NEW Alpha Man Power Forum
There you'll be able to exchange techniques, tips, and advice with the other Alpha Men on topics ranging from building your confidence, to how to meet women, to health and fitness. I will even post answers to questions and conduct surveys and polls and help directly with your problems. This is one community that you absolutely must be a part of!
4 Total Advanced Coaching Sessions
An additional 440 Minutes of additional Dating and Lifestyle advice, covering all the ins and outs of dating and attracting women, and handling tricky social situations. From communication and conversation, to building confidence and self-esteem, this program covers EVERY area of developing your Alpha Lifestyle...
Extra Master Class Modules...
I'll be sending out special advanced audio training modules from
time to time on topics related to inner game, and you're going to
get every one of them.
Over the next few months with the program, I'll also be sending
you additional training audios that cover deep inner game problem
solving, as well as some special surprise guests and bonus information.
"I was beginning to doubt I was ever going to be able to become more attractive on my own, the negative self-talk was getting so bad - AND because of the economy, not be able to afford live training for the forseeable future.
When I used Carlos' program, the reasons became clear why I was struggling with my inner self. You've now provided me with the tools and the explanations, and moreover, a way out of the Pandora's box of my negative thinking habits.
Specifically, I just feel greatly relieved. Now I can focus on just being happy and living in the moment - I still have work to do, however it is getting much easier. Falling bacvk on old thinking patterns now becomes a realization that I'm choosing to think and feel this way.
I'd tell guys to take a look at this program if they truly want their inner game issues handled.
Thank you, Carlos! Now I have the motivation to move towards my goals..."
- Chris Hascomb, Louisiana
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The total value of this
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Ultimate Inner Game Success Stories
"I had purchased Ultimate Inner Game a while ago. And ever since I have been trying to think of ways to say thank you. I am halfway through the program now but I still can't find anything that would expres the amount of gratitude I have for you putting that amazing program together...
I can't do anything at this moment yet but give you the biggest compliment that I can think of: You have changed my life man. For the better. And for that you have my life long respect and gratitude.
I really think your amazing inspiration. And this in a time where the world is flooded with so called guru's that promiss mountains but leave you hanging in the middle (that's if your lucky). Only with you have I got the feeling that I am truly working in a team, even though I have never met you. Thank you for the lessons, now I will do the work."
"Are you ready for a success story?!?!... I just have to say THANK YOU dude, you are the greatest, I have been using your Inner Alpha Game audio tapes and they have elevated my game beyond imaginable levels.
I am at the point where I have been talking to and dating a MIN. of 3 girls per week for the last 2 months. I am kinda worried about going any higher because I work and am a student also its been hard to make the time.
I now have girls giving me their phone numbers and they are making the first move to hang out, just today two of the grls I have been talking to all week both asked when we can hang out sometime.
I can not thank you enough bro keep up the good work!! I hope this inspires all other men out there that you can do anything you set your mind to..."
- Andy F.
"[Before I found Ultimate Inner Game] ...I was pessimistic, easily angry, nervous and awkward around people and ESPECIALLY attractive women, doubting myself, low self-esteem you name it
[The exercises] helped me figure myself out more and some of the things you said were eye openers and I was like If only I knew this earlier...
I am much better in staying positive with that positive self talk, much more calm, and I rarely react to whatever happens around me...
I'd tell guys to check this program out if you want to your life the way you want it to be and you deserve...
Carlos is also genuine not like those who advertise just to sell their products but I feel like I have my money's worth. You left no stones unturned. Thanks now I have a guide on to becoming an alpha man!"
- A. G. - Milford, CT
"My situation before I found [Ultimate Inner Game] program was I had spent many dollars on counseling trying to undo the garbage from the past without much success. I have committed at least 1/2 hour a day to this course and already I am beginning to feel the difference...
When I used Carlos' program I find that my inner strength is returning to me as well as the sense of humor and hopefulness of a brite and wonderful future.
Specifically, I feel much stronger and happier than ever before! The impossible things as of late, no longer seem impossible but very probable! I now feel as though I am beginning to possess my present on the way to possessing my future and my Destiny! If I had had this 30 years ago, there is no telling where I would be today!
I am telling everyone I know who has had similar events in their lives about the positive changes that I am experiencing now, and many around me are noticing the difference too!
...If I had had this 30 years ago, I would have saved so much money on counseling just trying to regain my "peace" in life and how much better my life would be today because of all of the material that I am applying. I am becoming another person...the person I was many years ago who was full of life!"
- Anthony F. - Georgia
"I gotta tell you man, this is some really cutting edge stuff you got here! I watched the 2 preview videos... and it took me 2 watches to really GET IT... but boy, was that an eye opener! First time I watched it, it got me thinking.
Then the second time about a week
later, it really clicked, and I was literally blown away by the whole concept
of inner game not really existing, 'me' as a fluid concept, and the 'that
was the old me' mental exercise... it's never been this clear before!
know you talked about these concepts a lot here and there, but you really
put it together extremely well in this one video, and it was never as clear
before! ...I have no doubt this is one of the best things you've ever released
(and that's saying a lot!). thanks for all the awesome work you do man!
- Roman R.
"My situation before I found this product was I was actually looking for Inner Game training... I prefer you because ...you strike me as being genuine and a little bit more moral than the others.
Funny thing, I haven't yet changed much about myself externally, but I find that people are starting conversations with me more. I have barely started listening to the audio disks.
Specifically, I am becoming more aware of negativity and limiting beliefs. When they show up, I have the option of ignoring them and reframing them in a positive light.
I'd tell guys to work on your inner game. It is at least as important as outer game and the two go together."
- Gary S., Sausalito
"My situation before I found this product was that I was a shy, conservative guy who didn't have a good amount of friends and I often had anxiety in social situations or before approaching women.
When I used Carlos's program I began to learn a lot about my own inner game and how it works
Specifically, I understood the foundations of my own inner game and how to begin to change. Things that help me a lot were the 21 day success habits, abundance/scarcity thinking, and belief systems...
I'd tell guys to defintly buy this program, its worth it. Awesome job man! I can't wait to check out some of your other programs."
- Sam C. - Pittsburgh, PA
"What I like about you and your programs
so much is that I never feel duped from your products. I always feel I get
my money's worth ten fold. I truly feel that you are one of the few advisors
that care a great deal about trying to help guys improve the quality of their
lives. I thank you for that..."
"I've read your materials and I have to admit, that you´re
wise man. WISE MAN... I've heard/and give many dating advice, but they
were covering just the part of the big picture...."
- Tom S.
"I have to say your programs are the best and I researched the different
sites... No one has sh*t on you dude this is exactly what we need I am going
to get all your programs and study my assssss off."
- Henry R.
"AWESOME!! Carlos Xuma is right on! ...
This guy is more than a dating guru! He almost can be your psychologist.
He's basically a life coach!"
"I own all your programs, DVD's, Ebooks,
audio coaching etc.... They are FANTASTIC! They have also made an improvement
in my life... I must admit I love all your programs, not only because they
have enhance my life, but the psychology behind all your analysis...
I don’t look as you as a therapist,
however I find you incredibly gifted with life experiences... "
"I will be in business with you guys
for a very long time for your products..."
- Khawar J.
"I found more and more women interested
in me without having to try ... my girlfriend got more and more interested
in me because of my alpha attitude..."
- Patrick W. - U.K.
"My situation before I found this product was... mired in pessimism and negative thought about my present situation. I had alot of information and technique, but I could never get it to work effectively...
When I used Carlos' program, I saw that negative thinking patterns are self validating and you really have to choose to be happy. Carlos shows effective ways to turn the tide on the negative thinking patterns that were turning my worst fears into reality.
I'd tell guys to seriously give this program a look. All the dating and seduction technique in the world isn't going to help you if you don't have your inner game handled..."
- C.H. - LA