{"id":1302,"date":"2010-02-26T14:16:59","date_gmt":"2010-02-26T22:16:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/?p=1302"},"modified":"2010-02-26T14:16:59","modified_gmt":"2010-02-26T22:16:59","slug":"30-days-to-success-with-women-day-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/2010\/02\/30-days-to-success-with-women-day-1\/","title":{"rendered":"30 Days To Success With Women &#8211; Day 1"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Welcome to your first installment of the 30 days of success with women. I&#8217;m going to guide you through each day&#8217;s exercise so that you get maximum benefit from this program.<\/p>\n<p>Now, I won&#8217;t just stop at day 30 with you, either. We&#8217;ll keep adding on to your skills above and beyond that day, but for now your goal is simply to increase your ability and confidence with women by <strong>TEN<\/strong> times what it is right now. That means ten times more of everything that matters &#8211; meeting women, dating women, physical escalation&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>You get the point!<\/p>\n<p>So let&#8217;s get started.<\/p>\n<p>Today&#8217;s exercise is really pretty simple. We&#8217;re going to do a quick inventory of your <strong>&#8220;Exposure Ratio.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Your <strong>Exposure Ratio<\/strong> is simply a way of describing the possibility of you encountering a woman on any given day. In order to meet and date women, you have to be in a high exposure frame of mind &#8211; and lifestyle.<\/p>\n<p>I want you to put together a list of the top 10 places you frequent during the course of a week. Basically, any place outside your home or apartment. <\/p>\n<p>Here are some examples from my own life:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Safeway (grocery store)<br \/>\n&#8211; Starbucks (coffee shop)<br \/>\n&#8211; Best Buy (I spend too much time here \ud83d\ude42<br \/>\n&#8211; Dojo<br \/>\n&#8211; Gas station<br \/>\n&#8211; Target<br \/>\n&#8211; The bank<br \/>\n&#8211; Movie theater<br \/>\n&#8211; Baja Fresh (restaurant)<br \/>\n&#8211; Sushi restaurant<\/p>\n<p>Okay, now with your list, you want to categorize each on a scale from 1 to 10. <\/p>\n<p><strong>1<\/strong> is LOW population of women. (Think: Comic Book store) and you&#8217;re there only a few minutes each week.<br \/>\n<strong>5<\/strong> is an equal mix of men and women, and in fairly decent numbers &#8211; and you&#8217;re there at least an hour each week.<br \/>\n<strong>10<\/strong> is totally PACKED with women. (Think: Bar.) And you&#8217;re there at least 2+ hours each week.<\/p>\n<p>Now add up all the scores. If your score is lower than 50, you have to do some work.<\/p>\n<p>Your goal is to escalate that score into the 80 to 90 range. At least for short bursts.<\/p>\n<p>You have to increase both the <strong>TIME<\/strong> and the <strong>QUALITY<\/strong> of the places you go each week to start increasing that Exposure Ratio.<\/p>\n<p>You may have to substitute some time you normally spend in &#8220;comfortable&#8221; but low Exposure environments so that you can get the HIGH Exposure you need to start increasing your potential to meet women.<\/p>\n<p>Mind you, you don&#8217;t have to be actively approaching in these places. We&#8217;ll build into that soon enough. For now, we just have to have a score &#8211; a quantifiable level of your current Exposure Ratio.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll be back tomorrow with your next assignment.<\/p>\n<p>Stay Alpha,<\/p>\n<p>Carlos Xuma<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Welcome to your first installment of the 30 days of success with women. I&#8217;m going to guide you through each day&#8217;s exercise so that you get maximum benefit from this program. 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