{"id":1363,"date":"2010-03-07T08:16:52","date_gmt":"2010-03-07T16:16:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/?p=1363"},"modified":"2010-03-07T08:16:52","modified_gmt":"2010-03-07T16:16:52","slug":"30-days-to-success-with-women-day-10","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/2010\/03\/30-days-to-success-with-women-day-10\/","title":{"rendered":"30 Days To Success With Women &#8211; Day 10"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>MISSION: RITUAL<\/h2>\n<p>Today&#8217;s mission is short and sweet &#8211; but very powerful!<\/p>\n<p>I want you to create a list of things you will do before going out (anywhere, not just to meet women) that will put you in the strongest frame of mind and confidence.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s a short outline of what you want to be sure to include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Something related to grooming (shower, shave, manicure, skin care, brush\/floss, style your hair, etc.)<\/li>\n<li>Something related to meditation or relaxation &#8211; AND reciting an anthem or affirmation to get you feeling good about yourself<\/li>\n<li>Something related to music &#8211; play something that motivates you and\/or gives you confidence<\/li>\n<li>Something related to your overall image &#8211; put on clean, stylish, well-fitting clothing<\/li>\n<li>Put on some light cologne<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>You can add things as needed, but you want to make it a compact routine of no more than a half-hour of preparation. This is something you will do every time you go out, even if only a compact or &#8220;express&#8221; version.<\/p>\n<p>Why a routine?<\/p>\n<p>Because the human mind <strong>LOVES<\/strong> routines. They&#8217;re easy to follow, and they also create a mental pattern that gets you to a mental state quickly and effectively.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you&#8217;ve heard of <strong>NLP<\/strong>? Well, the science of it is sound, and it&#8217;s basically the way to program your mind using the connections and associations you already have in you now.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;re performing something called &#8220;anchoring,&#8221; which is a way of conditioning yourself to experience an emotional state simply by establishing a trigger.<\/p>\n<p>Also, we&#8217;re sending a message to your subconscious mind: &#8220;I&#8217;m worth the effort.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Complete your list of items for this ritual, and then I want you to put it on a 3&#215;5 index card that you can keep in your bathroom. You don&#8217;t have to stick it up in public view, but you do have to follow it every time you leave the house.<\/p>\n<p>You can modify it along the way, but once you find a pattern that works for you, you&#8217;re going to stick to it.<\/p>\n<p>This is conditioning for success.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Carlos Xuma<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>MISSION: RITUAL Today&#8217;s mission is short and sweet &#8211; but very powerful! I want you to create a list of things you will do before going out (anywhere, not just to meet women) that&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[74,75,10],"tags":[76],"class_list":["post-1363","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-30-days-to-dating-success","category-missions","category-alpha-lifestyle-coaching-content","tag-30-days"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1363","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1363"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1363\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1363"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1363"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1363"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}