{"id":1977,"date":"2010-10-18T14:49:05","date_gmt":"2010-10-18T21:49:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/2010\/10\/how-to-flirt-with-women-3-mistakes-men-make-that-kill-attraction-dead\/"},"modified":"2012-07-05T13:26:41","modified_gmt":"2012-07-05T20:26:41","slug":"how-to-flirt-with-women-3-mistakes-men-make-that-kill-attraction-dead","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/2010\/10\/how-to-flirt-with-women-3-mistakes-men-make-that-kill-attraction-dead\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Flirt with Women: 3 Mistakes Men Make that Kill Attraction Dead"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"..\/..\/evp\/track.php?noCache=1287430411350&amp;mode=view&amp;id=SG93VG9GbGlydFdpdGhXb21lbi5tcDQ=\" alt=\"\" width=\"0\" height=\"0\" \/><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.alphaconfidence.com\/conversation-persuasion\/carlosxumacrop4.jpg\" alt=\"Carlos Xuma, How to flirt with women\" hspace=\"8\" vspace=\"8\" width=\"130\" height=\"182\" align=\"left\" \/><\/p>\n<div>\n<p>There&#8217;s a secret for <strong>how to flirt with women<\/strong> that most                         guys don&#8217;t know about &#8211; and I&#8217;m going to reveal it here.                         You could call it a hidden ingredient for flirting with                         women that gets overlooked about 90 percent of the time.<\/p>\n<p>First of all, when you discover how to flirt with women,                         you realize that it&#8217;s not about pickup lines or seduction                         techniques &#8211; or any of that. It&#8217;s about something that                         guys give a lot of lip service to, but don&#8217;t focus on                         nearly enough. Stay with me and I&#8217;ll reveal what that                         something is.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3 Mistakes Guys Make When Learning How To Flirt With                         Women.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>How to flirt with women &#8211; Mistake 1: Complimenting a                         woman&#8217;s looks.<\/h2>\n<p>The first thing I see a lot of guys go for is the flattery                         angle when they try to flirt with women. The unfortunate                         part is that this tactic does work, but not when it&#8217;s                         done carelessly.<\/p>\n<p>The best thing to compliment a woman on is her appearance,                         but not on the parts that come naturally to her. The                         things she was given &#8211; her looks or genetic traits &#8211;                         don&#8217;t feel earned. Better is to compliment her on her                         <strong>CHOICE<\/strong> in appearance. The easiest way to do this is to                         compliment her on her clothes or jewelry.<\/p>\n<p>You see, her appearance is something that <strong>she                           had to consciously think about and choose<\/strong>, and compliments you                         make about this are felt far more deeply. Women are looking                         for validation &#8211; as everyone is. But when you&#8217;re validated                         on something that you can&#8217;t control, such as her appearance                         and looks, it doesn&#8217;t resonate.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that when you want to know how to flirt with                         women, you have to target the areas that she is most                         likely to respond to.<\/p>\n<h2>How to flirt with women &#8211; Mistake 2: Flirt without being                         obvious or relying on words.<\/h2>\n<p>Again, most guys think that a woman is only listening                         to what he&#8217;s saying when he walks up, and that she will                         believe what he says. The guys who are the best at meeting                         women know that <strong>what you say is just about the least                         important thing when you discover how to flirt with women.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Women are actually keying in on a bunch of signals from                         you, including your body language, tonality, and eye                         contact. All of these things are much more important                         than the words you say. In fact, whem men focus too much                         on words, they actually turn women off because they become                         ten times more obvious by saying it instead of hinting                         at it with their body language.<\/p>\n<p>No matter what you say, women know <em>immediately<\/em> when                         you&#8217;re hitting on them.<\/p>\n<h2>How to flirt with women &#8211; Mistake 3: Not being GENUINE.<\/h2>\n<p>If you haven&#8217;t figured it out by now, the hidden ingredient                         for how to flirt with women is really simple: it&#8217;s sincerity.                         It&#8217;s your authenticity and willingness to just be yourself.                         It&#8217;s because this is what she needs to know in order                         to trust you and feel safe around you.<\/p>\n<p>The big mistake that most guys make is to try to hide                         their interest in a woman, and hide their sexuality in                         the process. This is what kills attraction for women                         <strong>because they sense a man who is not in harmony                         with himself<\/strong>.                         He will seem like he&#8217;s trying to be deceptive, even when                         he&#8217;s doing what he thinks the woman wants.<\/p>\n<p>Or, if he&#8217;s not honest about his interest, she will                         think he&#8217;s &#8220;just friends&#8221; material, and that                         kills attraction right away. Not to mention that converting                         a woman from a friend into more is ten times harder than                         if you jsut did it right in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>When you try to keep your sexual interest hidden, she                         will also sense that you&#8217;ve got a hidden agenda.<\/p>\n<p>And                         that feels plain <em><strong>sneaky<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>The real source of attraction is always in the power                         of uncertainty with a woman, while being true to yourself.                         When she feels your power as a man, and doesn&#8217;t know                         where she stands with you, that leaves the door wide                         open for romance when you&#8217;re learning how to flirt with                         women.<\/p>\n<p>And if you want to discover how to get confidence with women, I reveal the   complete secrets of <strong><a href=\"..\/..\/confidence-with-women\/self-confidence-with-women.php\" target=\"_blank\">Supreme   Self Confidence With Women<\/a><\/strong> in   my FREE CD. It&#8217;s fast, easy, and guaranteed to get you from having no women   to complete confidence  in just a few weeks.<\/p>\n<p>Date                         one woman &#8211; or as many women as you want &#8211; for as long                         as <strong>YOU<\/strong> want.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s up to you&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Go get your free CD here: <a href=\"..\/..\/confidence-with-women\/self-confidence-with-women.php\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Supreme                             Self Confidence With Women FREE CD Offer<\/strong><\/a><strong> <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Talk soon&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Wishing you confidence                           and success with women &#8211; with no tricks or deception.                           NATURAL Attraction!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.alphaconfidence.com\/images\/sig1.gif\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Carlos Xuma - signature\" width=\"200\" height=\"48\" \/><\/p>\n<p>PS: You might       be reading this right now, just happy to be entertained with the information       I&#8217;m sharing. But I want more than this for you.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>I want you to get <strong>REAL<\/strong> results with women.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Stop                           pretending everything is &#8220;fine.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Stop walking away from situations that make you nervous                           &#8211; like approaching a woman, or asking her out.<\/p>\n<p>Stop                               letting the outside world prevent you from being                               the man you want to be&#8230;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The                       time for denial and mediocrity is <strong>over<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Make                             a decision that today is the day things will change                         forever for you as you get this part of your life under                         control right NOW.<\/p>\n<p>Go                             here now and learn how to get what you want &#8211; and                             deserve:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"..\/..\/confidence-with-women\/self-confidence-with-women.php\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Supreme                       Self Confidence With Women FREE CD Offer<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There&#8217;s a secret for how to flirt with women that most guys don&#8217;t know about &#8211; and I&#8217;m going to reveal it here. 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