{"id":1989,"date":"2010-12-01T10:26:59","date_gmt":"2010-12-01T18:26:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/2010\/12\/how-to-get-a-woman-to-want-you\/"},"modified":"2012-07-06T08:06:27","modified_gmt":"2012-07-06T15:06:27","slug":"how-to-get-a-woman-to-want-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/2010\/12\/how-to-get-a-woman-to-want-you\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Get A Woman To Want You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If only it was as easy to get a woman as it is to just                         go get a new car. Shop for the features you want, get                         some financing, haggle a bit over the price, and then                       take that sleek, curvacious model home.<\/p>\n<p>Well, it may not be quite that easy, but you can definitely                         use some strategies and tactics to discover how to get                         a woman in your life. Attraction is not a choice, and                         when you learn how to use the laws of attraction to your                         advantage, you&#8217;ll have everything you need to know for                         how to get a woman.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m going to show you three secret techniques for how                         to get a woman to want you, and how you can use them                         to become the prize that women will give anything to                         possess.<\/p>\n<h2>How to get a woman &#8211; Technique 1: Understand how women                         work.<\/h2>\n<p>This is actually much easier than it sounds. I&#8217;ll give                         you a few basic principles to start you off.<\/p>\n<p>First of all, women are conditioned to nurture connections.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s the most important part of her life. All that time                         she spends on the phone?<\/p>\n<p>Yes, that&#8217;s to maintain and                         cultivate a connection. So use that understanding to                         build your own skills of rapport to establish a strong                         and enduring bridge between you and her. (The best way                         to do this is to use shared emotional experiences.)<\/p>\n<p>The next thing you should know is that<em><strong> a woman                           will desire you more if she feels like you can easily                           do without her.<\/strong><\/em> That means that she isn&#8217;t looking for a man who                         is eager to become too reliant on her too quickly &#8211; or                         a man that is so insecure that he wants a woman to &#8220;complete                         him.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She has to feel that you are independent and                         separate person from her so that she knows you&#8217;re strong                         enough to protect her later on.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not hard to learn how to get a woman to want you                         when you really understand those two principles.<\/p>\n<h2>How to get a woman &#8211; Technique 2: Everything has emotional                         content.<\/h2>\n<p>One of the toughest parts of attraction for men to understand                         is that everything in life has emotional content. When                         men only talk about the facts and &#8220;action,&#8221; they                         miss out on most of the opportunity to connect with women.                         And you want to know how to get a woman to talk about                         her feelings.<\/p>\n<p>So to become a true Casanova of the best kind, you have                         to really learn how to focus in on the emotional content                         of what she says. She will give you clues to her emotional                         focus, or you can easily discover it for yourself with                         this one conversation trick &#8211; ask her this one question: <strong>&#8220;What                         did you think about that?&#8221; <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>As in, she&#8217;s talking about how one of her friends has                         been avoiding her, so you ask &#8220;What did you think                         about that?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Now, of course, we men would proceed to dissect the                         situation into what we &#8220;logically&#8221; deduce,                         but a woman will hear &#8220;What did you think about                         that?&#8221; and immediately tell you how she <strong>FEELS<\/strong> about                         it. And this is what we want to hear from her. Just hang                         back and listen, and she&#8217;ll instantly be more attracted                         to you without being sure why.<\/p>\n<p>Once you get the knack of asking that question of women,                         you&#8217;re going to find her leaning in closer, smiling more,                         and becoming more interested in you with each minute                         that passes.<\/p>\n<h2>How to get a woman &#8211; Technique 3: It&#8217;s all in the space                         between the notes.<\/h2>\n<p>This may sound contrary to what you think, but for how                         to get a woman, at least half the attraction you want                         to build is done when you&#8217;re not there. There is a rhythm                         of being there with her, getting her involved and interested                         in you, and &#8211; as the saying goes &#8211; the absence that will                         make her heart grow fonder.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Most attraction is built in this rhythm.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Always be sure to leave deliberate space in your time                         you spend with a woman so that she can comfortably experience                         your absence. As a woman once said, &#8220;It&#8217;s the space                         we need so that we know you won&#8217;t run us over.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>You can simply walk off for a bit while shopping with                         her, or wait a day before you call her back again. There                         are numerous ways to insert these spaces in your rhythm,                         so be sure to use them. It requires self-control, but                         that&#8217;s what she expects from you anyway.<\/p>\n<p><strong>How to get a woman<\/strong> is as simple as employing these three                         basic techniques in all your interactions with women.<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>And if you want <strong>respect and attraction                                 from any woman<\/strong> in your life, you need                                 to know the stealth strategies that trigger a                                 woman&#8217;s primitive desires. Because when you have                                 confidence with women, you can say anything to                                 her and she will feel attracted to you, respond                             to you &#8211; and respect you.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve got a new <strong>free CD<\/strong> you can                               get right now that will give you the girlfriend                               you want &#8211; without any compromise or pain.<\/p>\n<p>Go get your free CD here: <a href=\"..\/..\/approach-flirt\/approach-women-flirt-with-women.php\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>How                                   To Flirt And Talk To Women Free CD<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Talk soon&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Wishing                                 you confidence and success with women &#8211; With <strong>HONOR<\/strong> and                                 integrity.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.alphaconfidence.com\/images\/sig1.gif\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Carlos Xuma - signature\" width=\"200\" height=\"48\" \/><br \/>\n<strong>Carlos Xuma<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>PS: You might be                               reading this right now, just happy to be entertained                               with the information I&#8217;m sharing. But I want more                               than this for you.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>I want you to get <strong>REAL<\/strong> results                             with women.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Stop pretending everything is &#8220;fine.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Stop walking away from situations                               that make you nervous &#8211; like approaching a woman,                               or asking her out.<\/p>\n<p>Stop letting the outside world                               stop you from being the man you want to be&#8230;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Really, the time for denial and                             mediocrity is <strong>over<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Make a decision that today is the                             day things will change forever for you.<\/p>\n<p>Go here now and learn how to make                             that change:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"..\/..\/approach-flirt\/approach-women-flirt-with-women.php\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>How                           To Flirt And Talk To Women Free CD<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If only it was as easy to get a woman as it is to just go get a new car. 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