{"id":2060,"date":"2011-02-15T11:41:11","date_gmt":"2011-02-15T19:41:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/2011\/02\/guide-to-understanding-women-3-secret-strategies-for-attraction\/"},"modified":"2012-07-05T12:24:30","modified_gmt":"2012-07-05T19:24:30","slug":"guide-to-understanding-women-3-secret-strategies-for-attraction","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/2011\/02\/guide-to-understanding-women-3-secret-strategies-for-attraction\/","title":{"rendered":"Guide To Understanding Women: 3 Secret Strategies For Attraction"},"content":{"rendered":"

Today we’re going to tear a page out of my guide to understanding women<\/strong>, and talk about the simple<\/strong> things you can do to help you date women and get results.<\/p>\n

Many guys are confused about what women want, and having a simple guide to understanding women makes it much less complex to know what to do – and when to do it.<\/p>\n

Here are a few bits of dating advice for guys that will help you understand women – and attract women with ease…<\/p>\n

Guide To Understanding Women – Secret Strategy 1: Get her excited and curious BEFORE you try to connect with her.<\/h2>\n

Again, a common mistake guys make is to go straight into trying to find out what you both have in common before they realize that this is all they have. In order to get a woman really attracted to you, you MUST<\/strong> get her feeling excited and curious about you first. If you go the other way around, you’ll wind up with a friend instead of a possible lover.<\/p>\n

Excitement and curiosity are created by knowing how to tease a woman and play with the conversation, being sure not to reveal too much. Again, most guys wear their heart on their sleeves, and this seals their doom with women.<\/p>\n

Remember: Women want men who are sensitive *to them.*<\/strong> Not sensitive as in crying during movies and being over-emotional. A lack of emotional control is not a masculine trait.<\/p>\n

One of the most important rules in the guide to understanding women is that excitement is how you get her attraction started.<\/p>\n

Guide To Understanding Women – Secret Strategy 2: If you can get a woman to talk about herself, she’ll feel like she’s known you for years.<\/h2>\n

Women want to feel connected to you in order to get more intimate with you. They do NOT<\/strong> need to have commitment, however, which is a common mistake that many men make.<\/p>\n

(And one that leads many men to believe that they need to lie their way into a woman’s bed, which is completely incorrect – and damaging.)<\/p>\n

Just get her talking about herself, and she will feel more connected to you than any other guy that she meets. Why? Because almost no other guys know how to listen to her to make her feel heard!<\/p>\n

She needs to sense that you genuinely hear her – and understand her<\/strong><\/em>. When she does, she’ll be yours.<\/p>\n

And this is one strategy from the guide to understanding women that you must use carefully. <\/em><\/p>\n

A lot of guys go too far with the “listen to her talk” routine and wind up in the friends only zone with a woman. Sure, HE thinks he was just doing what she wanted, and she does, too. But the reality is that if you let her talk too much, you’ll lose control – and her attraction.<\/p>\n

So be aware and cautious of how this strategy can trip you up, as well.<\/p>\n

Guide To Understanding Women – Secret Strategy 3: Test for compliance.<\/h2>\n

One of the most important indicators of a woman’s attraction and desire for you is how willing she is to follow your lead. Again, a common mistake is that many guys will just go along with her requests, and this actually destroys her feelings of attraction for you more than anything. A woman instinctually knows that any man that follows her lead would not be independent and secure enough to keep her feeling safe – emotionally or physically.<\/p>\n

Every so often, you need to test her willingness to do what you ask. Make small requests<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

For example, you might ask her to hold your drink while you neaten your shirt. Or tell her that she looks totally cute, and then have her turn around for you so you can take it all in.<\/p>\n

These small acts of compliance on her part are all stacked up to subconsciously get your girl thinking about you as her protector, and her leader. If she knows you can forge the path forward, she will feel safe. And if she feels safe, she will trust you<\/strong> – and allow herself to get more emotionally and physically involved with you.<\/p>\n

These three tips from the guide to understanding women<\/strong> will help you get more attraction and connection with any woman, and do it in the best way possible.<\/p>\n

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Talk soon…<\/p>\n

Wishing you confidence and success with women – With HONOR<\/strong> and integrity.<\/p>\n

\"Carlos<\/p>\n

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