I’m really depressed right now, and I need to tell you why.<\/p>\n
I’ve been advising guys on how to attract and get the woman they want for… wow, over 10 years now.<\/p>\n
Before I did this online, I studied the art of attraction for about 5 or 6 years.<\/p>\n
So I’ve got a teeny tiny bit of understanding on the topic. \u00a0\ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n
AND<\/strong> I’ve gotten thousands of emails and questions from guys over the years.<\/p>\n One that I get ALL<\/strong> the time has a very common theme.<\/p>\n It goes like this:<\/p>\n – I read your stuff and it makes total sense<\/p>\n – BUT…<\/strong><\/p>\n – I don’t think it works on women *where I’m from…*<\/p>\n (as if the nature of women REALLY<\/strong> changes when you cross state – or even country lines. HINT<\/strong>: It doesn’t.)<\/p>\n – All my guy friends get women all the time, but not me…<\/p>\n – Those guys are good looking, and that’s why they get women. ‘Cause women want looks.<\/p>\n – So you’re wrong, Carlos!<\/p>\n This is great logic if you’re in a third grade class on why Joanie loves Charlie on some television show, but it’s completely empty of truth in the real world.<\/p>\n The biggest myth in this chain of reasoning is this:<\/p>\n Women only want looks.<\/p>\n This is the biggest misinterpretation that men make when it comes to women, and this limiting belief can HAUNT<\/strong> him to his first divorce, next marriage, child support payments, divorce, THIRD<\/strong> marriage, and eventual grave.<\/p>\n Let me start out by saying this:<\/p>\n Do looks matter?<\/p>\n OF COURSE THEY DO!<\/strong><\/p>\n All things being equal, looks will get your foot in the door pretty quick.<\/p>\n But are looks ALL<\/strong> that matter?<\/p>\n NO!<\/strong><\/p>\n Because she might be interested for a few minutes based on that, but once you open your mouth, you better show her the signals she needs to feel that gut-level attraction.<\/p>\n It’s the same thing that happens to you when you meet a cute girl with a voice like a cackling witch. You WANT<\/strong> to like her, but you’re so turned off by it that you just can’t feel turned on.<\/p>\n You see, most men assume that women think JUST<\/strong> like guys do.<\/p>\n We think that looks are important to women because they’re important to us.<\/p>\n Looks are important to men because we can evaluate a woman for all we need based on some purely visual features.<\/p>\n Nice boobs, butt, all that.<\/p>\n We only need to find a woman attractive physically in order to want to “mate” with her.<\/p>\n This is because men have never really had to stick around and raise any accidental babies may have created.<\/p>\n Well, at least before the 20th century.<\/p>\n So there was no real RISK<\/strong> for men.<\/p>\n But for women…!<\/p>\n If she took a chance on a guy and let him into her bed, and there was a baby from that night of fun, then she would have to pay for that mistake for a good 15-18 years.<\/p>\n And she had to hope the guy she had it with would be there to help her raise that bundle of joy.<\/p>\n So women learned to look for other indicators, because being good looking just wasn’t enough.<\/p>\n In fact, it’s the LEAST<\/strong> relevant thing to a woman, because it’s the LEAST<\/strong> likely thing to tell her if he’s going to stick around and do his duty as a man.<\/p>\n So what is it that a woman is looking for?<\/p>\n It’s simple.<\/p>\n She needs to see that you’re BOYFRIEND MATERIAL.<\/strong><\/p>\n I sometimes call this “being a keeper.” (Because that’s what women usually call it.)<\/p>\n Because, when you’re a “keeper” she will do everything she can to be your girlfriend.<\/p>\n Yes, that even means sleeping with you as fast as she can to “lock you in.”<\/p>\n The trick to getting her to do this is super simple.<\/p>\n You just have to show her that you’ve got GIRLFRIEND MAGNETS.<\/strong><\/p>\n How do you do that, you ask?<\/p>\n