{"id":2547,"date":"2012-12-28T13:26:09","date_gmt":"2012-12-28T21:26:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/?p=2547"},"modified":"2012-12-28T14:04:39","modified_gmt":"2012-12-28T22:04:39","slug":"the-shocking-truth-about-men","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/2012\/12\/the-shocking-truth-about-men\/","title":{"rendered":"The Shocking Truth About Men…"},"content":{"rendered":"

I’m seeing an alarming trend these days with the guys I coach and talk to, and it’s something you should know about.<\/p>\n

Let me paint this picture by giving you an example:<\/p>\n

I receive emails regularly from guys, and a growing portion of them are what I call the whiners.<\/p>\n

– They complain when an email I sent them doesn’t have the right link…<\/p>\n

– They complain when I send an informational video that lasts more than 15 or 20 minutes.
\n(While they’re perfectly happy to sit in front of a television for hours at a time while their brains are rotted out watching mindless sitcoms.)<\/p>\n

– They complain about me not sending them enough pictures of women (yes, believe it or not I get a lot of these, too.)<\/p>\n

I’m mostly numb to the complaining, but sometimes it gets under your skin. Especially when deep inside I know that this whiney behavior is something that women HATE<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

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It’s actually something that accomplished men who really live and breathe their purpose hate, too.<\/p>\n

I know that the Internet is where most people go to blow off a little steam – anonymously. But guess what?<\/p>\n

You’re not as anonymous as you might think<\/strong>. In few years, your online identity will be pretty easy to track.<\/p>\n

Imagine as some hot new chick you met at a party goes and Uber-Googles you online.<\/p>\n

She sees that nasty little comment you left on a Youtube video<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Or she tracks down a few blog comments you left when you were trying to get some customer service issue handled.<\/p>\n

Or some random comment you made on a forum that sounds really weird if you didn’t read the entire thread…<\/p>\n

Small emotional outbursts that could haunt you<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

I want to share something with you that I sent to a coaching client today:<\/p>\n

“Being a Real Man is knowing that you can FEEL<\/strong> & DEAL<\/strong> with your emotions without having to SHOW<\/strong> them. – AND<\/strong> you can LET<\/strong> your emotions GO<\/strong> without clinging to them.”<\/p>\n

I live my life by that creed.<\/p>\n

That really needs to be emphasized here, because it’s shocking to me to see how many men behave like little girls when it comes to managing their emotional state.<\/p>\n

I know there’s a lot of fluffy bullshit new-age nonsense out there about how men need to express themselves, and they’ve been repressed for hundreds of years…<\/p>\n

blah blah blah…<\/p>\n

Look, everything in balance, okay?<\/p>\n

No, you should not pack all your negative emotions into a secret corner of your head and expect to be a healthy man. That’s just as bad as letting out all your emotions.<\/p>\n

What you DO<\/strong> need is a healthy outlet for those emotions.<\/p>\n

Every guy has a certain amount of angry energy that he needs to vent in constructive ways.<\/p>\n

And this is typically where most guys go wrong. They know on some level that they have to let out their anger, but they don’t know HOW<\/strong> to do it…<\/p>\n

(Feeling anger is NATURAL<\/strong> and NORMAL<\/strong> for a healthy man. It’s part of how we’re made. Don’t fear it!)<\/p>\n

Back in the OLD<\/strong> days, we’d just go out and hunt and kill an animal. Burn off a few angry calories that way.<\/p>\n

Or just apply ourselves to some back-breaking physical labor in the fields, or build a pyramid. Or chop wood for an hour or so.<\/p>\n

But we don’t have those outlets anymore, and the closest we have to letting this nasty stuff out is a trip to the gym – which woefully few men do on a consistent basis.<\/p>\n

You see, the fitness part is a side effect.<\/p>\n

Seeing all those hotties in their Yoga positions is a nice bonus…<\/strong><\/p>\n

The REAL<\/strong> reason you go to the gym is to vent these nasty emotions into PHYSICAL<\/strong> action.<\/p>\n

And if you don’t do it, these negative emotions turn into an acid that corrodes your character.<\/p>\n

So I want you to consider how you’re leading your online life, your private life, and your public life right now.<\/p>\n

The definition of character is doing what you know you should do, even when nobody’s watching or holding you accountable.<\/p>\n

When you do that, women will flock to you without you having to learn a clever new opener, or some ‘routine.’<\/p>\n

Are you living by that standard of character?<\/p>\n

Are you ready to get your Alpha Masculinity handled?<\/strong><\/a> <—-CLICK HERE<\/strong><\/p>\n

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