{"id":346,"date":"2010-01-14T19:15:53","date_gmt":"2010-01-15T03:15:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/?p=346"},"modified":"2010-03-10T15:31:57","modified_gmt":"2010-03-10T23:31:57","slug":"346","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/2010\/01\/346\/","title":{"rendered":"Carlos Xuma&#8217;s Dating Advice for Men"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Well, sports fans, I&#8217;m here in Belgrade, Serbia, doing a bootcamp and creating Alpha Men here in Eastern Europe, and I&#8217;m about to tell you something fascinating&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Guys here have almost NO game.<\/p>\n<p>They just don&#8217;t approach women here. Can you believe it?<\/p>\n<p>I went out with my newest instructor ( I&#8217;m keeping him a secret for a bit, but you&#8217;re about to meet him very soon) to do some approaches on the street. He&#8217;s a master of approach, and his day game is excellent. I coached him today, and I&#8217;m scared of what he&#8217;s going to accomplish in the next few weeks.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, we walked up to women <strong>ON THE STREET<\/strong> and started talking to them and getting their phone numbers.<\/p>\n<p>And it is <strong>EASY<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Is it because Belgrade is easy? The women are different?<\/p>\n<p>Well, yes and no.<\/p>\n<p>They are only different in our minds. They are just women, like everywhere else.<\/p>\n<p>Right now, I&#8217;m sitting next to a couple where the guy is trying VERY hard to make a girl like him.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s sitting right next to her, not across from her. (BIG MISTAKE #1)<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s leaning in close every five seconds ( I&#8217;m not exaggerating) and doing    goofy shit for laughs. (Normally, funny is good, but this is dorky. BIG MISTAKE    #2)<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s not reading her body language and facial expressions correctly. (BIG    MISTAKE #3)<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s forcing interaction and eye contact is almost constant &#8211; like a needy    puppy. (BIG MISTAKE #4.)<\/p>\n<p>Do I really need to go on?<\/p>\n<p>Everything this guy does says <em><strong>TRYHARD      &#8211; TRYHARD &#8211; TRYHARD<\/strong><\/em>&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately he wasn&#8217;t in our bootcamp this weekend. That&#8217;s too bad. As    a result, there is a ton of stuff he&#8217;s going to cook into his game that will    make it <em>HARDER<\/em> and <strong>HARDER<\/strong> to fix later on.<\/p>\n<p>I could fix his body language in a minute that would <strong>INSTANTLY<\/strong> make him more    attractive to her. I could almost guaran-freakin-tee that she gives him the    kiss of a lifetime. <em><strong>TONIGHT<\/strong><\/em>!<\/p>\n<p>This opportunity is only six feet from him, and he doesn&#8217;t even realize it. I&#8217;ll just sit here and keep eating my Bibioteka chips and beef. (Oh, they are SO good&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>In fact, the opportunity is right in front of <strong>YOU<\/strong> right now, too.<\/p>\n<p>I cover all the critical lifeskills of an <a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomenprogram.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Alpha      Man<\/a>, and I can pass them    on to you, if you&#8217;re interested.<\/p>\n<p>Doesn&#8217;t that sound cRaZy? &#8220;Hey, are you interested in the information    that will make you a <strong>more confident<\/strong> and successful man?&#8221; Sounds like    some hyped up sales pitch, but it&#8217;s not.<\/p>\n<p>They are secrets that <strong>ANY<\/strong> man can learn.<\/p>\n<p>But not every man <strong>WILL<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;ll probably let his ego get in the way, trying to be cool, trying to <strong>avoid    the discomfort<\/strong> that comes when you realize you have some changes you need    to make.<\/p>\n<p>But I sure would hate it if you didn&#8217;t get this chance.<\/p>\n<p>Keep reading and  I&#8217;ll tell you more about how to get it after the questions.<\/p>\n<p>(Or, if you&#8217;re in a hurry, just go <a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomenprogram.com\/\"><strong>here<\/strong><\/a>&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>On with the questions!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Well, sports fans, I&#8217;m here in Belgrade, Serbia, doing a bootcamp and creating Alpha Men here in Eastern Europe, and I&#8217;m about to tell you something fascinating&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,47],"tags":[11,7],"class_list":["post-346","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-articles","category-silver-members","tag-article","tag-silver-content"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/346","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=346"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/346\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=346"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=346"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=346"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}