Embrace Your Inner Player<\/p>\n
Why Men Fear The “Player…”<\/p>\n
Guys everywhere live in constant frustration. Some of it is
\nse(xual. A lot of it is psychological.<\/p>\n
First off, we’ve been made to believe that sleeping. with a woman
\nis a privilege. It’s a gift from them to us, and we need to work
\nhard to be worthy of it. Otherwise it’s hand lotion and Internet
\nn@sty sites for you.<\/p>\n
I personally find this state of mind to be incomprehensible.<\/p>\n
That’s a big word for unbelievable.<\/p>\n
It’s unbelievable that so many men honestly believe that they need
\nto push, beg, and trick women into giving them WHAT WOMEN WANT
\nalready.\u00a0<\/p>\n
But the biggest source of frustration for the guy who wants to
\nlearn the path of the player is … not wanting to BE a “player.”<\/p>\n
This comes from many places, really.<\/p>\n
It has its roots with women who talk down the “Player” as a
\nheartbreaker. A jerk. A man-about-town with no scruples.<\/p>\n
Then there’s the stereotype of the player, like Quagmire on “The
\nFamily Guy.”<\/p>\n
Giggidy, giggidy, gig-gi-dy!<\/p>\n
He’s a one-dimensional stereotype. He’s the guy in all the movies
\nthat needs to be taught a lesson by a willful woman who eventually
\n“tames him” and he declares his undying love.<\/p>\n
Just watch any of those dumb-ass movies out there today and you’ll
\nsee what I mean.<\/p>\n
The “Player” doesn’t exist.<\/p>\n
At least, not in the way you’re probably imagining him.<\/p>\n
This is a female fantasy, along with the same trashy plotlines of
\nhalf the romance novels and cheeseball movies out there.<\/p>\n
Girl meets guy.<\/p>\n
Guy is a wild bad boy. The Player.<\/p>\n
Girl has torrid romance with guy.<\/p>\n
Girl breaks up with guy.<\/p>\n
Guy discovers the error of his “player” ways and wants girl back.<\/p>\n
Girl tames guy.<\/p>\n
Carlos throws up.
\nLook, guys that sleep around with a lot of women and recklessly
\nhurt them are FEW and far in between. (And this is something I do
\nNOT condone.)<\/p>\n
In fact, this cardboard stereotype of the “player” is just an urban
\nmyth, right along with the alligators living in your sewers and the
\nkidney farmers. (If you don’t know about these, don’t ask…)<\/p>\n
Remember in “The Matrix” when Neo was jolted out of his own reality
\nby the kid who bends the spoons in front of him? What does he tell
\nhim? “There is no spoon.”<\/p>\n
You have a new belief: “There is no Player.”<\/p>\n
The sad truth of the matter is that:<\/p>\n
1) Women LOVE the company of men who can actually give them
\npleasure from se. xual tension (which is not the same guy that is
\nthe “Nice Guy,” bending over backwards to provide for them.)<\/p>\n
2) Women can sniff out the player in a minute, and if they really
\nWANTED to avoid him, they would.<\/p>\n
Nobody held a gun to her head to make her sleep with him. She
\ndesired it more than he did, in most cases.<\/p>\n
So back to the frustration and fear that guys have for the player…<\/p>\n
Most of your frustration is in feeling powerless.<\/p>\n
Powerless, meaning “lacking power.”<\/p>\n
Or sometimes described as “Got no power.”<\/p>\n
I remember a Seinfeld episode where George is complaining: “Why do
\nwomen always have the upper hand?? I never have the upper hand! I
\nneed Hand, Jerry! I have NO Hand!”<\/p>\n
Which leads to most guys having ONLY hand, if you know what I mean.
\n(Oh, Carlos, you so fuuuunny…!)<\/p>\n
Men who don’t understand the game of male-female interactions often
\nfall into a pit of self-doubt that leaves them on the frustrated
\nend of things. So frustrated, in fact, that his decision making
\nability is radically impaired.<\/p>\n
He starts to think that if he pays for drinks and dinners that
\nshe’ll find him “romantic.”<\/p>\n
He starts to believe that if he compliments her or tries to impress
\nher, that she’ll be attracted and ‘decide’ he’s a logically good
\nchoice for a boyfriend.<\/p>\n
He starts to think that if he becomes the opposite of the “player,”
\nthat will make her want him.<\/p>\n
Tell me something… What is romantic about a guy who does nothing
\nbut kiss your a$$ all the time?<\/p>\n
ANSWER: Nothing.<\/p>\n
And that’s what you’re doing when you pander to a beautiful woman.
\nYou’re giving her everything she DOESN’T want.<\/p>\n
Are you starting to see where I’m going with this?<\/p>\n
Women WANT<\/strong> players.<\/p>\n They want a man that excites and turns them on. That knows how to When I say “want,” and this is the most confusing portion of the Let me help you with this dilemma: Never give a woman what she SAYS In any social situation there are those who win because they have a When you give a woman what she wants, she realizes that you’re When you give a woman the gift of participating in YOUR<\/strong> strong So when a woman asks you if you’re a player, she’s not asking that “Are you a player?”\u00a0 – “No, why do you say that?”<\/p>\n BZZZZZZZZT<\/strong>!!!!\u00a0 Wrong answer.<\/p>\n “Are you a player?”\u00a0 – “Yeah, I’m a bad mutha… let’s go to my BZZZZZZZZT<\/strong>!!!!\u00a0 Wrong answer.<\/p>\n (Some of you might think that after what I’ve just said that she It’s not really that confusing to figure out what the real answer Think of it this way: What is the most frustrating thing a woman ANSWER:<\/strong> When she ignores you or refuses to give you a straight Read that again, and remember back to a time when this happened to That you can be IGNORED<\/strong>?<\/p>\n There is nothing more powerful than a carefully placed “void of When she asks you if you’re a player, you ignore her and keep on I’m running out of space here, so let me help you continue this I’ve created a handbook to help you understand the frame (belief You ever see an actor in a bad movie and think, Man, this dude SUCKS<\/strong>!<\/p>\n But can you imagine what an actor like Denzel Washington, or a These guys could weave Egyptian cotton out of horseshit – all with That’s what a great actor does on the screen. He just embodies the Anyone that does anything REALLY<\/strong> well is just coming from a If you’d like to learn the powerful belief system of a ladies man, I’ll help bring the REAL<\/strong> you out that gets women.<\/p>\n
\ntalk to them in challenging and exciting ways.<\/p>\n
\ngame, is that most women say they want one thing, and really want
\nanother. And this confuses a lot of guys.<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>she wants. Only give her what gets you the RESULTS<\/strong> you both need.<\/p>\n
\nstrong enough belief in themselves, and those that lose because
\nthey bought into the beliefs and frame of another.<\/p>\n
\nbuying into her viewpoint and reality.<\/p>\n
\nreality, you will get results.<\/p>\n
\nat all. She’s asking you a question that is designed to smoke out
\nthe chumps who are acting all Alpha, but really have no game at
\nall. And she smells it by your answer.<\/p>\n
\nplace …”<\/p>\n
\nwants a player means that you should tell her you ARE a player.
\nWRONG<\/strong> again.)<\/p>\n
\nshould be.<\/p>\n
\ndoes to you when you ask HER <\/strong>a question?<\/p>\n
\nanswer.<\/p>\n
\nyou. You might have asked her something about her job, or some
\nother dull and un-involving question. Do you remember that hollow
\nsensation when you feel like you’re being pushed aside and lowered
\nin social status?<\/p>\n
\nattention” – or knowing when and how to IGNORE<\/strong> with Alpha Power.
\nNot to taunt her or piss her off.<\/p>\n
\nplaying.<\/p>\n
\npath of learning…<\/p>\n
\nsystem) of the Modern Alpha Man. It’s important, because most of
\nthe tips and tricks you’ll learn out there won’t work unless you
\nunderstand the context and the beliefs of the man that uses them.<\/p>\n
\nRobert DeNiro would do with those exact same words?<\/p>\n
\nthe power of their frame and skill with creating their own reality.<\/p>\n
\nbelief system of that character so completely, you totally believe
\nit.<\/p>\n
\npowerful belief system.<\/p>\n
\nthe beliefs that make a man successful and at tractive to women,
\nI’ve got a program that will help you. And there’s no acting
\nrequired.<\/p>\n