{"id":707,"date":"2010-01-26T12:49:39","date_gmt":"2010-01-26T20:49:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/?p=707"},"modified":"2012-07-06T08:17:33","modified_gmt":"2012-07-06T15:17:33","slug":"wingman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/2010\/01\/wingman\/","title":{"rendered":"Wingman"},"content":{"rendered":"

RULES:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. Wingmen always agree on strategy beforehand – avoids problems later<\/li>\n
  2. Wingmen never poach (steal the other guy’s girl)<\/li>\n
  3. Wingmen challenge and motivate each other<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    A Wingman is a guy you bring along with you on singles outings (like to bars) that helps you out with the women. Typically in these ways:<\/p>\n

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    • Since women often travel in pairs or packs, your wingman helps you approach them without feeling weird about being solo. The “loner” guy standing there with a beer held close to his chest will trigger early warning defense systems in women – sometimes known as the “creep factor” – so avoid this.<\/li>\n
    • The wingman gives you social proof – or validation that you are a trustable man, not some drifter in town just to get laid. (SOCIAL PROOF<\/strong> is when your perceived social value is driven up by being part of a visible social network.)<\/li>\n
    • The wingman will sometimes take the least attractive gal of the pair you approach so that you can get the one you want. (Though, this is not always necessary.)<\/li>\n
    • The wingman can also be a more skilled seducer, a man from whom you can learn a great deal by flying at his side.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      Keep in mind that a wingman should never be too inexperienced or he will hold you back. (Unless you are mentoring him.)<\/p>\n

      I don’t watch a lot of television, but I understand that there was a beer commercial where they have a pretty good parody of the wingman taking “one for the team” by suffering at the table with a not-so-interesting gal while his partner is out dancing with a hottie.<\/p>\n

      That’s one of the situations a wingman can be put in, but the learning and support system is unbelievable if you do it right.<\/p>\n

      Your wingman is an invaluable assistant for you (and you for him), so don’t underestimate the value of finding one that you can work with<\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

      RULES:<\/p>\n

      1. Wingmen always agree on strategy beforehand – avoids problems later
      \n 2. Wingmen never poach (steal the other guy’s girl)
      \n 3. Wingmen challenge and motivate each other<\/p>\n

      A Wingman is a guy you bring along with you on singles outings (like to bars) that helps you out with the women. Typically in these ways:<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,10,47],"tags":[144,69],"class_list":["post-707","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-articles","category-alpha-lifestyle-coaching-content","category-silver-members","tag-articles","tag-gold-articles"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/707","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=707"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/707\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=707"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=707"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=707"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}