ultimate inner game<\/a> has helped me tremendously.<\/p>\nI just have a quick question:
\nI always hear that being grounded\/slow with measured speech is very masculine and looking at different role models, it certainly is.<\/p>\n
however, there is also a side of my personality that is very hyper, fidgety and silly \u2013 not to impress others, more like for self amusing.
\nI feel like that very \u201ccentered man\u201d part of me is very aware and peaceful, however it lacks some laughing and fun at times (and james bond and clint eastwood never really seem to laugh and joke around a lot\u2026)<\/p>\n
should I suppress that high-energy part of me (or ground it via meditation) if I want to be a \u201creal alpha\u201d?<\/p>\n
or could I even reconcile those two?<\/p>\n
thanks a lot for your help,
\nyour friend from germany<\/p>\n
– Leo
\n______________________
\nCARLOS ANSWERS:
\n<\/strong>
\nYou should \u201cground\u201d that energy so that it doesn\u2019t get away from you. Enthusiasm is great, and necessary. But you don\u2019t want to come across as a \u201cspaz.\u201d<\/p>\nMeditation can take off some of that edge.<\/p>\n
Even if you don\u2019t feel nervous, looking like you are is going to work against you.<\/p>\n
Just make sure you don\u2019t \u201cover correct\u201d and lose that fire and passion\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
hey carlos!<\/p>\n
I\u2019m a huge fan of your stuff \u2013 especially ultimate inner game has helped me tremendously.<\/p>\n
I just have a quick question:
\nI always hear that being grounded\/slow with measured speech is very masculine and looking at different role models, it certainly is.<\/p>\n
however, there is also a side of my personality that is very hyper, fidgety and silly \u2013 not to impress others, more like for self amusing.
\nI feel like that very \u201ccentered man\u201d part of me is very aware and peaceful, however it lacks some laughing and fun at times (and james bond and clint eastwood never really seem to laugh and joke around a lot\u2026)<\/p>\n
should I suppress that high-energy part of me (or ground it via meditation) if I want to be a \u201creal alpha\u201d?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,10,47],"tags":[144,143],"class_list":["post-731","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-articles","category-alpha-lifestyle-coaching-content","category-silver-members","tag-articles","tag-alpha-lifestyle-coaching-content"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/731","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=731"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/731\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=731"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=731"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=731"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}