There\u2019s a strategy in business circles these days that is finding practical application just about everywhere you can imagine, and I want to share this strategy with you.<\/p>\n
It might not seem at first like something that will work on women, but it does.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s THAT<\/em><\/strong> powerful.<\/p>\n You see, the one thing that typically separates the leaders from the rest of the pack is what they focus on in their experience.<\/p>\n Most people get caught up in trying to keep their low-performers from becoming losers. They figure that the winners will take care of themselves.<\/p>\n But what inevitably happens is that by neglecting the winners, you lose BOTH<\/strong> ways.<\/p>\n In other words, the best strategy for business \u2013 and for LIFE \u2013 is to get rid of the losers, and then support and push your winners.<\/p>\n The losing strategies in life take ten times more energy to turn into mediocre success than it does to make your winners into SUPERSTARS<\/strong>.<\/p>\n So when it comes to body language, your best bet is to focus on these three secret keys to impress a woman \u2013 and then forget most everything else you hear about \u201cpacing\u201d and \u201cmirroring\u201d and stuff like that.<\/p>\n That\u2019s the stuff that every college professor and \u201cPhD.\u201d talks about, but it\u2019s not what the guys who are really getting success with women are doing.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s the first tip for you\u2026<\/p>\n BODY LANGUAGE TIP #1: Focus on your breathing\u2026 And that kind of nervousness and bad vibe starts by not breathing correctly.<\/p>\n Most guys breathe very high up in their chest when they\u2019re in a stressful situation. I used to do the same thing. One of the benefits of learning martial arts is that 1) You constantly being put into a stressful situation, and 2) you learn how to control your breathing.<\/p>\n The best thing you can do is to simply start remembering how to breathe DEEP in your body rather than high up in your chest. Force your stomach out when you breathe.<\/p>\n You might think that breathing is the weirdest \u201cbody language tip,\u201d but it is the MOST important one I can give you. If you breathe correctly, it will make all the difference in how you \u201cfeel\u201d to a woman.<\/p>\n (This is the part that they mean when you hear people talk about \u201cmirroring.\u201d)<\/p>\n BODY LANGUAGE TIP #2: Straighten up\u2026 Find an area of blank wall where you can stand with your back against it. You need to have the following points touching the wall at the same time:<\/p>\n – Heels If you align all 4 of those points at once, you\u2019ll have what is known as \u201cperfect posture.\u201d<\/p>\n The problem for most guys is that they have such bad habits with regard to their posture that this feels VERY unnatural to them. As a result, they don\u2019t keep it up.<\/p>\n But if you make it a point to stand straight and push your shoulders back, chest out, you\u2019ll make a POWERFUL<\/strong> impression with your stature.<\/p>\n Watch men in leadership positions to see how they accentuate this bit of body language to impress and to establish their \u201cAlpha\u201d manhood.<\/p>\n BODY LANGUAGE TIP #3: Walk quick \u2013 move slow\u2026 When you\u2019re walking somewhere on the street, hold your posture, and walk like you\u2019re already a few minutes late. Don\u2019t run, but be INTENTIONAL.<\/p>\n Most guys don\u2019t move with any sense of urgency in their lives.<\/p>\n \u201cLaid back\u201d is fine \u2013 sometimes \u2013 as a flexible attitude, but it\u2019s not attractive to a woman who wants a man with purpose and direction in his life. Remember that EVERYTHING<\/strong> you say and do communicates this on very subtle wavelengths.<\/p>\n So when you\u2019re interacting with a woman, you then have to SLOW DOWN<\/em>.<\/p>\n Just with your gestures and your body motion.<\/p>\n You see, when a guy gets nervous, the first thing that happens is this:<\/p>\n – Breathing and heart rate quicken\u2026 When you move your hands (and you should \u2013 to emphasize points and to spice up your conversation) you should feel like you\u2019re a conductor during a particularly slow part of a symphony\u2026<\/p>\n Just move your hands with a slow, baton waving grace that feels almost like you\u2019re underwater. It\u2019s actually hypnotizing to women when you get this down.<\/p>\n And trust me that by fixing these simple elements, you will improve your body language and attractiveness by a factor of 10 to 100 times.<\/p>\n A lot of guys write in wanting to learn how to \u201cread\u201d a woman\u2019s body language, but this is the wrong frame of thinking. It\u2019s a HUGE<\/strong> trap that I want you to avoid.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re \u201creading\u201d her, you\u2019re communicating that SHE has the strongest reality \u2013 and you\u2019re reacting to HER.<\/p>\n Bad stuff, man.<\/p>\n Instead, the guys that are the most successful with women don\u2019t care one bit about a woman\u2019s body language. AT ALL.<\/p>\n
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\nThe one thing that will give your game up right away is to go talk to a woman with hyper, nervous body language.<\/p>\n
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\nHere\u2019s an exercise that you can do that will instantly transform you.<\/p>\n
\n– Butt
\n– Shoulders
\n– Back of your head<\/p>\n
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\nThat may sound like a contradiction, but it\u2019s not.<\/p>\n
\n– Eyes blink rapidly\u2026
\n– Perspiration starts\u2026
\n– Speaking speeds up\u2026
\n– Gestures and body motion speed up<\/p>\n