{"id":757,"date":"2010-02-01T13:32:53","date_gmt":"2010-02-01T21:32:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/?p=757"},"modified":"2012-07-06T08:15:26","modified_gmt":"2012-07-06T15:15:26","slug":"daygame-and-approaching-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/2010\/02\/daygame-and-approaching-women\/","title":{"rendered":"Daygame and Approaching Women"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hey, I\u2019ve been reading a lot of the mail you guys are sending in,
\nand the great questions you\u2019ve got about Real Alpha Daygame<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

But I also want to take this opportunity to point a couple of
\nthings out to the guys that might have a little trouble with this
\nconcept of \u201cDaygame.\u201d<\/p>\n

What really IS \u201cDaygame?\u201d<\/p>\n

Very simply it\u2019s meeting women anywhere.<\/p>\n

ANYWHERE.<\/p>\n

Let me try that again:<\/p>\n

A-N-Y-W-H-E-R-E!<\/p>\n

You see, bars and clubs seem to be all that guys think of when they
\nthink about meeting women. But there is a wide and undiscovered
\ncountry out there where we are able to meet women:<\/p>\n

– in the park
\n– at a friend\u2019s party
\n– at a business event
\n– at the gym
\n– in a coffee shop
\n– at a cocktail party
\n– at a library or bookstore\u2026<\/p>\n

Literally there is an infinite number of places out there to meet
\nwomen that we\u2019re not using right now.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not just about walking up and talking to women cold on the
\nstreet.<\/p>\n

You see, I\u2019ve talked to a lot of guys who have very strong beliefs
\nabout meeting women in everyday places. They seem to be scared to
\ndeath of it because the woman will be guarded\u2026 cautious\u2026<\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re a stranger!<\/p>\n

Guys, you don\u2019t have to have anyone \u201capprove\u201d of where you meet a
\nwoman.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need to meet a woman in certain designated areas.
\nRegardless of what we think women MIGHT be thinking about it.<\/p>\n

And one of the biggest mistakes is trying to think FOR a woman.
\nWhen you try and get into her head, you\u2019ll probably get it wrong.<\/p>\n

Whenever I meet couples, I ask them how they met. The woman
\ntends to romanticize the first meeting, but the guy always tells
\nthe facts.<\/p>\n

Most of them met at a store, or in a gym, or in places where the
\nguy simply sucked it up and did the unthinkable\u2026<\/p>\n

He approached her!<\/p>\n

In fact, I did a certain hidden camera video just a couple weeks
\nago. I met a woman in the Apple Store and we had a GREAT
\nconversation and connection.<\/p>\n

Last night, after 2 weeks, SHE CALLED ME.<\/p>\n

I haven\u2019t initiated any contact since then, but she called me up
\nand left a 2 minute message.<\/p>\n

How cool is THAT?<\/p>\n

And, honestly, it wasn\u2019t a very spectacular approach. I just
\nstarted talking with her for no reason. We were standing at
\nthe computers just checking out the MacBooks.<\/p>\n

She was a stranger.<\/p>\n

Now she\u2019s a possibility for me. One that I would never have had if
\nI had let the thought: \u201cShe doesn\u2019t know me \u2013 she\u2019s going to be
\nscared of me\u201d get into my head.<\/p>\n

Repeat after me:
\nALL limitations are self-imposed!<\/p>\n

Stay tuned\u2026<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve got more great stuff coming up\u2026
\n<\/a><\/strong>
\nYour Day-walker friend,<\/p>\n

Carlos Xuma<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Hey, I\u2019ve been reading a lot of the mail you guys are sending in,
\nand the great questions you\u2019ve got about Real Alpha Daygame.<\/p>\n

But I also want to take this opportunity to point a couple of
\nthings out to the guys that might have a little trouble with this
\nconcept of \u201cDaygame.\u201d<\/p>\n

What really IS \u201cDaygame?\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,10,47],"tags":[144,143],"class_list":["post-757","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-articles","category-alpha-lifestyle-coaching-content","category-silver-members","tag-articles","tag-alpha-lifestyle-coaching-content"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/757","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=757"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/757\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=757"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=757"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-seduction-techniques\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=757"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}