Why women lose respect for you

Respect as described in Merriam-Webster.com is:

  • A feeling of admiring someone or something that is good, valuable, important, etc.

Which means, your woman’s deepest admiration for you, if not taken care of, can lead to her devaluing you – and even to the point of cheating on you if she’s not able to respect you.

Because if she does respect you, she’ll naturally do anything to make you happy, to support you in any way possible to pursue your own happiness and dreams.

With her by your side, you’ll cruise through your life happier and much more confident than just you alone. You’ll have an ally, a confidante…

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There was this story about the President and his wife that recently came out.

One night, President Obama and his wife Michelle decided to do something out of the ordinary and have a casual dinner at a restaurant that wasn’t too luxurious.

After they were seated, the owner of the restaurant asked the president’s Secret Service chief if he could please speak to the First Lady in private.

The chief obliged, and Michelle had a conversation with the owner. When she returned to the table, President Obama asked Michelle why the owner was so interested in speaking with her.

She told her husband that, when they were teenagers, he had been madly in love with her.

“So if you had married him,” President Obama said, “you would now be the owner of this lovely restaurant.”

“No,” Michelle replied. “If I had married him, he would now be the President.”

This story, true or not, depicts what a woman’s support can do for a man. You can bet that Michelle Obama didn’t whine and bitch when her husband was out campaigning.

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So, how do you lose her respect in the first place?

Here are a few things you might be doing….

HOW TO LOSE HER RESPECT: Turn into a “YES” man

When you constantly say YES to her every whim, every request and favor, it makes her think she’s in total control – of you and your relationship.

It doesn’t matter if you’re just “giving in” or trying to stay away from arguments or what not.  Always remember, that NO WOMAN can ever respect a man who lets her get away with everything.

I’m not saying you fight with her constantly, or struggle with her constantly just because you need to be right. What I’m talking about relates to this:

Living a life of integrity is the most important
thing to earning her respect.

It’s sticking to what you believe in – and not being easily swayed by what she wants you to do, just so you can please her and get some sex tonight.

HOW TO LOSE HER RESPECT: Turn into a jealous guy

A little jealousy keeps you on your toes and appreciating what you have. Too much jealousy is ugly and a real turn-off. This emotion, if you let it run you, can make you a paranoid, clingy, and unbearable guy.

No woman would respect you if you allow this emotion to overcome you. Instead of admiration, she’ll feel irritated, and – worse – will boil to the point where she can’t stand being with you.

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So, if you’re the type who constantly asks “Who were you with?”, “Where were you?”, “What were you doing?”.

STOP.

Also, if you see her with male co-workers, control your need to go up to them to “set things straight” – that she’s your “woman” and they better stay away from her.

That kind of boorishness makes you look stupid and tells everyone you’re an insecure man. No woman can respect a guy like this.

HOW TO LOSE HER RESPECT: Become undependable

A woman likes a man who she can depend on, someone that she can count on when the going gets tough.

If you’re the type of guy who flakes out when life unexpectedly turns for the worse, she’ll see it and lose respect. Be reliable and consistent.

Like, if you say you’ll be at her place tomorrow at a certain time – well, be there. And don’t be late.

Show her that you’re a responsible guy. Always follow through on your promises. She’ll admire and respect you for that.

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And so will everyone else in your life, funny enough. Don’t be surprised if you find you entire quality of life improving just from focusing on your integrity and respectability.

Always remember, RESPECT IS SOMETHING YOU MUST EARN.

You can’t demand it. You can’t buy it.

But you can create an impeccable reputation and aura of respect that will draw women like flies to honey.

Stay Alpha…
– Carlos Xuma
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