Here’s One Trick to Seduce Her
What most men don’t understand about seducing women is that you need to set the stage before she’ll even entertain the idea of going to bed with you.
And by “set the stage”, I mean satisfy certain conditions to make her comfortable enough. The thing is, she doesn’t consciously know what these conditions are.
When a woman is attracted to you, she doesn’t have a logical explanation for it – she just is.
The good news is that it doesn’t take a psychic to get inside her head. There’s a psychological attraction mechanism inside every woman that’s just waiting to be tapped by the guy who knows what he’s doing.
And it’s not that complicated, either – you just need to understand the fundamental difference between men and women.
For us guys, we’re built to want sex in order to ensure that our genetic line is carried on to the next generation. As long as a guy finds a woman hot, he’ll want to sleep with her without thinking about what happens next.
This is thousands of years of evolutionary programming at work. And it’s this same programming that drives women to be careful in choosing a partner.
On a basic level, a woman wants some reassurance that her guy is going to stick around (i.e. have a relationship with her) after they’ve gone to bed.
Note that it has nothing to do with her ability to look out for herself. Being independent and wanting someone who can offer emotional support are separate concepts for women, so this is the key to making her want you.
In the back of her mind, she wants a man who’s after more than just a physical connection. She needs someone she can lean on emotionally.
Women need to first feel that emotional connection before she even thinks about getting hot and heavy with a guy. So that means meeting those emotional requirements by using your masculine qualities to complement her feminine side.
Don’t worry, it’s not as hard as it sounds. What I mean by this is espousing “manly” traits that will trigger her primal desire for her ideal man.
The definition of “ideal” in this case is being someone who can “protect” her and be a generally dependable guy.
Here are some effective ways to influence her perception:
- Show her that you’re genuinely concerned about her well-being (e.g. helping her out when she’s in a jam, offering advice, or just listening to her when she’s upset about something).
- Be decisive when you ask her out: give her options, but set a definite time and date for each place you want to take her.
- This also applies when first meeting her (“Hey, it’s been great talking to you, why don’t we exchange Twitter handles and meet up next Friday? There’s a cool coffee shop that just opened up and I can show you that book I was talking about”).
- Don’t freak out when she disagrees with you about something (like sports, religion, politics, music, etc.) – or if something doesn’t go according to plan (e.g. your car breaks down during your date).
Once you’ve appealed to her inner cave-woman by protecting her from the big, bad world, you’ll plant an undeniable feeling of attraction in her brain.
And another way to turn up your masculinity even more is by plugging the “holes” that could make you lose your testosterone. I call this T-Bleed, and you need to be ahead of this to stay on top of your game.
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