\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\nWhat you are about to read will definitely help you to recognize and appreciate the reality of what it takes to \u201cselect and connect\u201d with the finest woman attainable.\u00a0 At first you may recognize this as being intuitive, but thoroughly grasping this concept will cause you to rethink your lifestyle and hopefully motivate you to be the best you can be.<\/p>\n
I was thumbing through a magazine while waiting in the checkout line at the supermarket when a really hot female cashier said, “Can I check you out?” Momentarily distracted and not knowing what to think, I struck a pose and said, “Sure, take your time.” (That\u2019s a great pickup line by the way).<\/p>\n
However, the supermarket or marketplace I\u2019m about to discuss is not quite the same. This marketplace deals in matching buyers and sellers (men and women) according to not only what appeals to them, but also to what they can afford.\u00a0 It can be found wherever men and women find each other, and we call it the interpersonal marketplace.<\/p>\n
To shop in this marketplace, it would be very advantageous to understand how it operates if you want to up your game to attract the finest ladies. Like most marketplaces, it has economic principles and practices in operation; for instance, supply and demand, market evaluations, bargain hunting, bartering and trading etc.\u00a0 If you really want to attract and be desirable to quality women, it\u2019s not only being the best you can be but also learning how to package, market and sell yourself in this marketplace.<\/p>\n
I don’t mean to sound unromantic about the whole concept of dating and falling in love, but for the purposes of this lesson, I feel this marketplace can best be described and understood if men and women are considered as commodities and goods or services to be sold or traded. I will be the first to admit that this notion sounds a bit simplistic, but it is a reality.<\/p>\n
Let’s assume for a moment that women are cars. What kind do you prefer? Can you afford a new sporty, sleek, convertible Porsche that looks great with the top down that will take you for an awesome ride but cost you a lot of money to maintain? Maybe you\u2019re a little more practical and prefer a family model like an SUV that still looks real good, is good on mileage, low maintenance, fits within your budget and helps you with your business.<\/p>\n
What kind of car are you? – Are you one of those large beefy Hummers with chrome rims and lots of accessories? Or are you an old beat up Corvette that looked really awesome when it was new, but now needs a lot of work to restore it to its best condition?\u00a0 What is YOUR<\/strong> Bluebook value? \u00a0I think you\u2019re beginning to get the picture \u2013 read on.<\/p>\nSo now you\u2019re out car shopping.\u00a0 As a seller, naturally you want to get the most you can for your car when you trade it in. While you\u2019re strolling the car lot waiting for the person who\u2019s going to give you your trade in value, you start checking out the other cars.<\/p>\n
This fine looking, sexy, sleek BMW catches your eye and it costs $23,000 (a fairly hot chick).\u00a0 You start to drool.\u00a0 Next to it, an even nicer looking, stunning Mercedes Benz comes into focus. You hear the theme from 2000 space Odyssey start to play in your head and you start to get an erection. However, it costs $28,000 (a really hot chick with a great career) and you feel it\u2019s probably out of your league.<\/p>\n
You can’t help but start fantasizing how cool you\u2019re going to look and feel driving that awesome newer Mercedes.\u00a0 You can\u2019t wait to take her for a spin – check under the hood, listen to the motor purr, retract the headlights, put the dipstick in to check the oil, feel how she handles on the curves.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re into leather, it\u2019s even got a full leather package. This one you can proudly show off to your envious friends, your family will be proud of you, she makes good money and you just know how great she\u2019s going to make your life.<\/p>\n
Next to it is a rather run down Camaro with a cracked windshield, fake aftermarket headlights, banged up grill and lots of mileage that is selling for $6,500. \u00a0The interior smells awful – (not so hot chick that just got out of rehab, or what Adam Sandler calls his POS Car).\u00a0 You start to come back to reality and realize that this is probably all you\u2019ll be able to afford.<\/p>\n
The woman who evaluates the trade-ins arrives and thoroughly checks out your car.\u00a0 She seems to have been born with this skill, and you\u2019re amazed at how quickly and accurately she assesses the value of your car.\u00a0 You try and sweet talk her into giving you the highest value as possible, but your selling skills are not very good, and you really don\u2019t hit it off with her that well.\u00a0 She says she\u2019ll give you $7,500 as a trade in \u2013 \u00a0a little more than the run down Camaro you last saw.<\/p>\n
You tell her you had your heart set on the Mercedes, but she politely and abruptly rejects your offer.\u00a0 You persist, and she says, \u201cI\u2019ll tell you what ... <\/em>If you can fix up that body of yours … you know, pound out a few of those dents, throw on a new paint job, (your physical body), get a tune up and fix some of those mechanical defects (your dating skills) and…oh yeah, that driver’s seat looks terrible … If you can recondition the car to look and drive it\u2019s best,\u00a0 You can come back and I\u2019ll see if I can trade you for that fine Mercedes Benz you\u2019ve got your eye on.”<\/p>\nIn other words, to afford that Mercedes Benz or to attract the highest quality women, you\u2019re going to have to increase your marketplace value. If you want to attract and be more desirable to quality women so they pursue you, you will not only need to increase your desirability factor by looking and being the best you can be, but also learn and put to use the proper dating skills necessary to attain the highest class of women.<\/p>\n
You can accomplish that by first being the best you can be, but you’ll also need to learn how to market and sell yourself on the interpersonal market place \u2013 Increase your Blue Book Value then Market yourself – \u00a0or what Carlos Xuma calls becoming the Alpha Male.<\/p>\n
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