Doesn\u2019t that SUCK balls? I mean, don\u2019t you want to know how to get that girl and keep her around for as long as you want, even if you make a complete ass out of yourself around women right now?<\/p>\n
Look, if you didn\u2019t? You wouldn\u2019t be reading this on my Win With Women blog today, right? So, let\u2019s check out the 3 rules of how you get that girl you\u2019ve known for a loooong time\u2026<\/p>\n
How To Get That Girl Rule #1: If You <3 Something, Let It Go<\/h2>\n
It might sound cheesy when I tell you that if you love something, let it go. If it comes back, it\u2019s yours. If it doesn\u2019t? It never was\u2026<\/p>\n
But you know that?<\/p>\n
If you want to know how to get that girl next door, or your childhood friend? You can forget about getting her if you don\u2019t put some distance between you and her because\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019ve been available to her. Always. And sometimes? Dating is just like economics. It\u2019s very similar to the supply-demand curve that determines the price of a product.<\/p>\n You see, if you\u2019re supplying her with everything you\u2019ve got even when she doesn\u2019t need it, when there\u2019s no demand? Your value goes down. It\u2019s like you\u2019re air: always available, but no one wants to pay for it.<\/p>\n On the other hand, when you\u2019re not always available even when there IS a demand? Your value goes up, just like people are willing to pay more for a Bugatti Veyron than a Benz. There are wayyyy less Veryon\u2019s than there are Benzes, know what I mean?<\/p>\n So when it comes to how to get that girl next door, put some distance between you and her and:<\/p>\n \u2013 Don\u2019t call or text Make it so it\u2019s like you\u2019ve vanished from the earth for 2-3 weeks.<\/p>\n And when you talk to her afterwards? Tell her what an awesome time you had. There\u2019s no better way to let a woman know that you need her less than she needs you. Like I said: you get that girl by being less available, because it makes your time and attention more valuable.<\/p>\n But to be honest with you, if you want to know how to get that girl you\u2019ve had a crush on for a long time? There\u2019s more to it than just distance, so let\u2019s continue.<\/strong><\/p>\n Time for act I, take 2, of how to get that girl next door. Now that you\u2019re less available for her, almost out of reach? It\u2019s time to ramp up the tension between you two.<\/em><\/p>\n Attraction is, in a way, nothing more than tension between man and a woman. Intense moments. Good or bad, it doesn\u2019t matter, because intense moments create sexual tension.<\/p>\n That\u2019s why you see a woman calling a guy an asshole at first and kissing him later. Love is war in many ways. But that doesn\u2019t mean you should only be out to get her. To argue with her.<\/p>\n Oh no.<\/p>\n There are several ways for how to get that girl next door by creating sexual tension:<\/strong><\/p>\n 1)<\/strong> Disagree, criticize, and say \u201cNO\u201d a lot: we just covered it. This is the most important thing to do, because I\u2019m willing to bet that you\u2019ve agreed with her a lot, told her to do what she feels, etc. Why? Because you want to stick around and be her friend, hoping you\u2019ll get her in the end. Don\u2019t be a kiss ass buddy. Let her know you\u2019re a man who has a mind of his own.<\/p>\n 2)<\/strong> Tease here: this is letting a girl know you\u2019re not intimidated by her looks and presence in a slightly different way. Why? Because you\u2019re making fun of her of course. You tease her with what she wears, says, does and doesn\u2019t do, if only so she realizes she now has to work hard to get a compliment from you. Interesting thought: the girls I never got to date said I\u2019m nice, the girls I did date said I\u2019m mean. Anyways, that\u2019s how to get that girl by teasing her.<\/em><\/p>\n 3)<\/strong> Make her compete: I believe that, 9 out 10, there is NO true friendship between a guy and a girl. One of them usually settled for less. Settled for just being friends. Usually it\u2019s the guy. Meanwhile, when a girl says she just wants to be friends it means she isn\u2019t interested ENOUGH to date you. Very important, because it means there\u2019s some interest there and when you make her compete with another girl she\u2019ll get even more interested. All of a sudden she\u2019ll have to work for attention and she\u2019ll get jealous. Women are fierce competitors, so give your girl something to fight for. You.<\/p>\n Look, I could sit here all day and give you more than 60 unique ways to create attraction, but I won\u2019t because these are the 3 most important things to do. Why? Because they correct many of the mistakes you made by becoming a girl\u2019s friend instead of her lover.<\/p>\n But, I would understand if you would like some more material to work with, so you can learn all there is to know about how to get that girl you\u2019ve loved for years but couldn\u2019t get. That\u2019s no problem dude!<\/strong><\/p>\n Make sure you leave a comment on this blog post and I\u2019ll be happy to answer all your questions.<\/p>\n The final rule of how to get that girl you\u2019ve had a crush on for a long time is quite\u2026 confrontational.<\/p>\n It has to do with the #1 reason why you\u2019re reading this as we speak, instead of enjoying yet another awesome date with her. Want to know what it is?<\/p>\n It\u2019s not taking (enough) action.<\/p>\n During the last 3 years or so, I\u2019ve coached many guys (in the thousands) and every time someone brought up the topic of getting the girl that didn\u2019t want him? He\u2019d mention that he waited weeks, months or even years to ask her out\u2026 or to confess his feelings to her.<\/p>\n Be honest: you waited a little too long, haven\u2019t you?<\/p>\n Don\u2019t worry, I\u2019m not going to bully you with it. I was Mr. Wait And See with so many women I\u2019ve lost count. It happens to the best of them\u2026<\/p>\n But the point of this whole blog post on how to get that girl you have a thing for is that you should NOT let it happen again. Don\u2019t be a Mr. Wait And See. Be an Action Jackson instead:<\/strong><\/p>\n How?<\/p>\n \u2013 Create distance between you and her. Hell, BE distant! Do it today. And the taking her out part doesn\u2019t have to be hard at all. If I were you I would use the distance you created before to your advantage:<\/p>\n \u201cHey you know what? It\u2019s been a while since we last went out and had lots of fun, so I demand we catch up. Let\u2019s go and have some fun already!\u201d<\/p>\n After asking her out, it\u2019s a matter of not screwing up. Yet again, that\u2019s not something to worry about bro. Because whether you want more tips on gaining the confidence to ask her out, or what to do on a date, how to know if she wants to be kissed\u2026 and more\u2026 then what are you waiting for?<\/p>\n Get all the tips to get that girl you\u2019ll ever need with my Inner Game Newsletter<\/a>. Check it out now.<\/p>\n That\u2019s all I got, for now, on how to get that girl next door. That girl you\u2019ve had a crush on for years. I write multiple blog posts like these per week though, so stay tuned to the Win With Women blog if you need, want, and demand me to give you some more advice!<\/p>\n To More Dating Success,<\/p>\n Carlos Xuma![\"\"](\"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture23.jpg\" "\\"Picture23\\"")
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\n\u2013 Don\u2019t go see her<\/p>\nHow To Get That Girl Rule #2: Make It Intense!<\/h2>\n
How To Get That Girl Next Door Rule #3: Be An Action Jackson<\/h2>\n
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\n\u2013 Then, immediately grab the first chance you get to take her out<\/p>\nFinal Thoughts On How To Get That Girl: Don\u2019t Freak Out<\/h2>\n
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