Because you don\u2019t have to use ALL my examples of what to text a girl to GET the girl. Just experiment, see what works best for you, and keep doing what works.<\/p>\n
And secretly?<\/p>\n
I want to show you WHY all of these examples work so well, so you can invent many more yourself and become a rock star of texting girls. But more on that later\u2026<\/p>\n
Let\u2019s check out some examples of what to text a girl already!<\/em><\/p>\n When you\u2019ve just met her it\u2019s important to keep the attraction going. To keep her interested.<\/p>\n What does that mean when it comes to what to text a girl?<\/p>\n It means challenging her, teasing her, being picky, being mysterious, being hard to get, being dominant\u2026 and the list of things you can do via text to keep her interested goes on and on.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s see what to text a girl to keep her interested is all about\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n 1. \u201cHey you. Yeah YOU! Can you keep a secret?\u201d<\/p>\n Of course when you text a girl like this she\u2019ll be curious and say \u201cYES\u201d and ask why, after which you\u2019ll say:<\/p>\n \u201cDon\u2019t tell anyone, but I met this insanely cute girl the other day. Her name is NAME OF THE GIRL YOU\u2019RE TEXTING. It was a shame she didn\u2019t have bigger boobs though.\u201d<\/p>\n Now THAT is a great example of what to text a girl if you want to tease her. Don\u2019t look at me that way man. This works because you\u2019ll be one of the few guys who\u2019s not impressed with an attractive girl\u2019s looks and kissing her ass. That means you\u2019re hard to get. Girls want that.<\/p>\n And if you still don\u2019t believe me, then I\u2019ll just go ahead and say: bad boys are attractive to girls. And making a comment like that? That\u2019s definitely being a bad ass!<\/p>\n So remember this when it comes to what to text a girl: it may not feel right to text her that at first, but it will once you see the level of success you\u2019ll achieve with these samples.<\/strong><\/p>\n 2. \u201cUhm heyyyy\u2026 you? Who is this again? I have this new number in my phone but I don\u2019t know who it belongs to!\u201d<\/p>\n This works well for the same reasons I gave you for example of what to text a girl #1.<\/p>\n 3. \u201cYou know what? You\u2019re actually the first girl I\u2019ve met in ages that isn\u2019t stalking me with texts after one day already. Then again, this super saintly saint always falls for bad girls because I am sooo sweet and saintly and innocent\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n Instead of directly letting a girl know you\u2019re a bad boy by making a crude comment, you\u2019re indirectly letting her know by over-emphasizing that you\u2019re Mr. Right so much so, it\u2019s unbelievable.<\/p>\n It\u2019s what to text a girl if you like to use a more\u2026 subtle approach for coming across as a bad ass.<\/p>\n 4. \u201cCan I ask you something? Are you a thief, because you stole my heart\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n Stop right there! DON\u2019T think I\u2019m telling you to use a real cheesy pick up line when you text a girl. I\u2019m telling you to use it\u2026 and then immediately afterwards say:<\/p>\n \u201cWould it work? Would a cheesy pick up line like that work on you? Oh come on! Be honest!\u201d<\/p>\n As you can see: I\u2019m mocking other guys in the dating game. And let me tell you: chicks LOVE that! It shows them you\u2019re above and beyond slime balls who use stuff like that.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t ask me why girls think that\u2019s hot. They just do. That\u2019s why I use it as an example of what to text a girl.<\/p>\n 5. \u201cOk, let\u2019s pretend for a sec that you\u2019re a guy and I\u2019m a hot girl like you. What would you do to try and pick me up?\u201d<\/p>\n This example of what to text a girl works in a similar way as the previous one, the difference being that after she admits what she would use on you? You tease her by then using it on her and asking if it worked.<\/p>\n 6. \u201cQuick, quick! Wine or cocktail! Wine or cocktaillll!\u201d<\/p>\n When you text a girl that, she\u2019ll be like: \u201cWhat the f*ck?\u201d<\/p>\n And then she\u2019ll play along.<\/p>\n Then, depending on her answer, you ask her a follow-up question the same way: \u201cRed or white wine! Red or whiteeeee.\u201d I think you get the picture.<\/p>\n Then you ask her to pick one of two foods and afterwards you say: \u201cThanks!\u201d and you\u2019re quiet. Now THAT is what to text a girl if you want to create attraction by being unpredictable.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n And\u2026 it\u2019s a very good way to ask a girl out too, but more on that later\u2026<\/p>\n 7. \u201cYou know, I just saw this smelly homeless guy with yellow teeth, these crazy looking eyes, and the most raggedy pair of jeans I\u2019ve ever seen. He reminded me of you!\u201d<\/p>\n Don\u2019t force me to explain why this is a good example of what to text a girl if you want to tease her\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n 8. \u201cI\u2019m telling you a story right now and in the middle of the story, just before the moral of the story rears it\u2019s ugly head I just\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n Stop telling you. Whenever she asks for the whole story, the whole story of ANYTHING, stop halfway through.<\/p>\n She\u2019ll tell you she only got half your message. She\u2019ll beg you to tell her more\u2026 and you\u2019ll tell her she only gets to hear the rest if she gives you a\u2026 little kiss, a drink. You decide!<\/p>\n The basic principle behind all these examples of what to text a girl is simple: create more tension. Sexual tension. And to do that long enough for her to want to go out with you.<\/strong><\/p>\n I\u2019d say sending 3-4 of these awesome texts to a girl is more than enough.<\/p>\n These examples of what to text a girl are just to make a point, the point being that you need to grow balls and cut to the chase if you know OR if you can say with 90% certainty that a girl likes you.<\/p>\n 9. \u201cLet\u2019s be honest. I know you like me and I know I like you. What are we going to do about it?\u201d<\/p>\n 10. \u201cHonestly? I like you. You\u2019re a lot of fun to be around and you\u2019re pretty hot too, so let\u2019s go somewhere together already!\u201d<\/p>\n Trust me when I say that girls LOVE it when you\u2019re direct, almost too direct, with them.<\/p>\n Why is it great to learn how to be direct when you want to learn what to text a girl?<\/em><\/p>\n Well, compare it with a girl\u2019s male best friend who tells her that \u201cNo! I\u2019m absolutely not in love with you. We\u2019re just friends\u2026\u201d and who later admits that he does love her.<\/p>\n Other men beat around the bush, you don\u2019t. You get what you want, when you want it. That\u2019s what to text a girl who already likes you.<\/strong><\/p>\n Let\u2019s keep going!<\/p>\n These samples of what to text a girl are for when, for whatever reason, she stops responding to your text messages or calls. There\u2019s a way around it that STILL gets you the girl you know.<\/strong><\/p>\n How? Just watch me text a girl:<\/p>\n 11. \u201cYou seem to be busy right now, so I\u2019ll leave you alone so you can do your thing!\u201d<\/p>\n This lets a girl know you won\u2019t waste time waiting on her, but also that you\u2019re not desperate for her to get back to you.<\/p>\n And hey, it\u2019s also a good way to know if she\u2019s really busy or just didn\u2019t bother to reply to you earlier on\u2026 because if a girl isn\u2019t busy and reads this text? She\u2019ll reply because she doesn\u2019t want to insult you by making you think you\u2019re bothering her.<\/p>\n Pretty awesome trick if you want to learn what to text a girl, right? I know!<\/em><\/p>\n 12. \u201cWow! You\u2019re playing hard to get already? Aren\u2019t we moving a little too fast lady? We haven\u2019t even dated yet!\u201d<\/p>\n 13. \u201cI have to tell you a little secret: even my grandmother types a text message faster than YOU do. Damn girl!\u201d<\/p>\n 14. \u201cAwhhh. She\u2019s giving me the silent treatment. How cute! Love you too honey!\u201d<\/p>\n 15. \u201cWhat is the epitome of boredom? Being so bored by yourself that you fall asleep while watching yourself type a text message. Hint hint!\u201d<\/p>\n 16. \u201cYou\u2019re not sending text messages via snail mail are you? Because even sleepwalkers can move their fingers faster than you type text messages woman!\u201d<\/p>\n Here are my final thoughts on what to text a girl that stopped responding: what makes you think it was because of YOU?<\/strong><\/p>\n Maybe she\u2019s at work, sick, having a bad hair day, having her period, having a shitty day, and so on. Girls are emotional creatures, so frankly?<\/p>\n There are six million ways to make her lose interest in talking to ANYONE. That can include you, the guy she likes.<\/p>\n I can give you so damn many examples of how to text a girl and get her out on a date. So you know what? I will, damn it!<\/p>\n 17. \u201cYou know what? We\u2019ve been texting back and forth for a while now. But let\u2019s do what normal people do and grab a drink somewhere to talk some more.\u201d<\/p>\n 18. \u201cHey, I know this great places where they have XYZ. Let\u2019s go there tomorrow!\u201d<\/p>\n That\u2019s what to text a girl if you want to ask her out but don\u2019t want to be too obvious about it.<\/strong><\/p>\n 19. \u201cYou seem to be a person who has an opinion and likes to have fun, just like me. So, let\u2019s have fun together by going to XYZ tomorrow!\u201d<\/p>\n 20. \u201cYou know what? If you promise you\u2019ll be my tour guide tomorrow when I\u2019m in XYZ, I\u2019ll give you some lessons in XYZ in return.\u201d<\/p>\n Here, you ask her to be your tour guide in her city or neighbourhood, in exchange for some lessons in whatever you do best\u2026 like playing the guitar.<\/p>\n 21. \u201cYou\u2019re bored? Well, if you play your cards right, I might take you to this awesome place where they have XYZ later today!\u201d<\/p>\n This is what to text a girl when mentions she\u2019s bored.<\/p>\n 22. \u201cYou\u2019re not doing anything right now? Then allow me to take you to XYZ, where they have the best XYZ ever!\u201d<\/p>\n Use this one if a girl mentions she doesn\u2019t have much to do or ASK if she has anything to do and then tell her this.<\/p>\n 23. \u201cHey, me and my friends are about to hang out at a buddy\u2019s place. If you can make it, you\u2019re invited.\u201d<\/p>\n Probably the most casual of all examples of what to text a girl, but it still works because she\u2019ll get to see how awesome you are when among friends. Girl are attracted to such \u201csocial proof\u201d<\/p>\n 24. \u201cParty at my place at XYZ PM! Be sure to bring me my favorite liquor or you won\u2019t get in!\u201d<\/p>\n Another widely used example. But widely used doesn\u2019t mean it sucks. It means it probably works!<\/p>\n 25. \u201cIt was fun meeting you earlier today. You seemed to be a party girl so I just HAVE TO ask: what are your plans for the evening you party animal you?\u201d<\/p>\n Just because you got her number earlier today doesn\u2019t mean you can\u2019t text her TODAY. It depends on a girl-by-girl basis, so try your luck with this one and see what happens.<\/p>\n 26. \u201cTell me: do you have plans for the weekend? Or are you just going to sit around like a true couch potatoe?\u201d<\/p>\n This is what to text a girl in a non-desperate way if you want to know if you can ask her out or not.<\/p>\n 27. \u201cThank you for telling me what you would like to do on our date tomorrow. I\u2019ll pick you up around, say, eight-ish?\u201d<\/p>\n Remember example #6 where you asked a girl to quickly choose one of two options several times? Well, you can go out and buy the things she chose so she\u2019ll drink and eat what she prefers on a date with you.<\/p>\n And in case you were wondering: I\u2019ve used XYZ in several examples of what to text a girl, but don\u2019t actually text a girl that dude! Fill in what you think is best there, for example a movie theatre when telling her you want to take her to some place nice.<\/strong><\/p>\n One more thing: if you\u2019re unsure not about what to text a girl after reading so far, but about WHEN to text a girl, and after how many times to ask her out?<\/p>\n Then don\u2019t worry bro! I got you covered! I\u2019ll give you all the tips you\u2019ll ever need to successfully text girls (and date them too) inside my Calling and Texting Newsletter<\/a>.<\/p>\n Moving on\u2026 on towards more examples of what to text girl that is!<\/p>\n I can almost hear you think: \u201cWhat do you mean\u2026 what to text a girl when in doubt Carlos? In doubt about WHAT exactly?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n It\u2019s simple, really. What follows are examples of things to text a girl if she\u2019s not sure she can hang out with you or gives you ANY other kind of excuse about going on a date with you.<\/p>\n 28. \u201cYou\u2019re going to PLACE XYZ tomorrow? Wow! That sounds incredibly\u2026 lame. Come with me. You know I\u2019m much more fun than that place.\u201d<\/p>\n 29. \u201cGreat! When are WE going?\u201d<\/p>\n This is what to text a girl when she mentions she\u2019s going somewhere. To a party for example.<\/p>\n 30. \u201cOh come on! Play nice. I promise I won\u2019t get drunk and embarrass you in public (yet!)\u201d<\/p>\n 31. \u201cOh come on! You\u2019re so boring! Ok, ok. You can pick the place we\u2019ll go to, but you have to promise me you\u2019ll by me a drink when we\u2019re there.\u201d<\/p>\n 32. \u201cAhh don\u2019t worry about it. No is a good answer too. Just don\u2019t be surprised when you find out that I\u2019m not the kind of guy who gives up when he\u2019s genuinely interested in a girl!\u201d<\/p>\n Now that\u2019s what to text a girl if all else fails. It\u2019s playing the honesty card: straight up telling her how you feel and that you won\u2019t stop trying to get what you want.<\/strong><\/p>\n And you want her.<\/p>\n 33. \u201cOk, you know what? Have you ever heard of the Lemon Law? It works like this: we go somewhere to get a drink. If we don\u2019t like each other\u2019s company after five minutes, we\u2019re both free to leave. That way we don\u2019t hurt each other\u2019s feelings and we also don\u2019t have to stick it out until the end of the night if we hate each other.\u201d<\/p>\n You have to thank fictional womanizer Barney Stinson for that last one.<\/p>\n Guess what? It works!<\/p>\n And just when you thought you saw enough examples of what to text a girl? I\u2019m giving you some more\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n If you think you\u2019re done finding out what to text a girl, and with creating attraction in general, after you\u2019ve been on a date with a girl? Guess again!<\/p>\n I seriously thank GOD that you\u2019re not a general if you think that way, because it would mean you would have thought we\u2019ve won a war after winning the first battle.<\/p>\n THE way to guarantee yourself a second date, and possibly more, is knowing what to text a girl AFTER the first date. And it\u2019s this\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n 34. \u201cI had so much fun today! We should do this again some time!\u201d<\/p>\n Another example of what to text a girl after a date:<\/p>\n 35. \u201cI have to be honest with you. Today was one of the most boring, nightmarish, and sleep inducing experiences I\u2019ve ever been through. Just kidding! It was great!\u201d<\/p>\n Decide for yourself if you have the guts to say example of what to text a girl #35, or not.<\/p>\n 36. \u201cYou\u2019re lots of fun to hang out with. I just know we\u2019re going to be the best friends ever!\u201d<\/p>\n This works if you want to let her know you only want to be friends with her, but it\u2019s also what to text a girl if you want to make yourself hard to get. Because if she likes you?<\/p>\n She\u2019ll try even harder to make sure you\u2019ll NOT be her friend, but her lover. Girls like a challenge.<\/p>\n Neeext!<\/p>\n Look, sometimes you do everything in your power to get the girl but you still feel like she\u2019s out of reach. Out of your league.<\/p>\n And sometimes, you wonder what to text a girl you like because you feel like she\u2019s losing interest in you. Here\u2019s what to use then:<\/strong><\/p>\n 37. \u201cHi, this is me taking much longer than usual to respond to your text messages.\u201d<\/p>\n Of course this isn\u2019t what to text a girl word-for-word, but it is what you need to do: when you feel a girl is losing interest, the worst possibly thing you could EVER do is chase her more and harder than before.<\/p>\n Why?<\/p>\n Because it only makes you look desperate, so worse, than before. No good will come of this.<\/p>\n Instead, what you should do is make yourself scarce. Make yourself harder to get than you were. More difficult to understand. More difficult to keep.<\/p>\n Do that and a girl will realize she has to fight for your attention. That\u2019s all it takes to get her to work her ass off for you if she ever liked you, even if she only liked you a little bit.<\/p>\n So, the above example and the following 4 examples of what to text a girl are all about how to make yourself harder to get (and keep):<\/strong><\/p>\n 38. \u201cHi, this is me acting way more distant than usual when I respond to your text messages.\u201d<\/p>\n Again, when you think you\u2019re losing her interest it\u2019s all about making yourself hard to get, so you can repair any damage you may have done.<\/p>\n And again, it\u2019s advice for what to text a girl, not something you should literally text a girl 39. \u201cHi, this is me texting you less often than I used to do.\u201d<\/p>\n 40. \u201cHi, this is me avoiding your questions with indirect answers for a while.\u201d<\/p>\n 41. \u201cThis is me texting you how much fun I\u2019m having without you.\u201d<\/p>\n Enough with the examples of how to turn things around when you THINK you screwed things up already! Let\u2019s look at some examples of what to text a girl that will, 100% guaranteed, screw things up for you.<\/p>\n In other words: check out what NOT to do when you text a girl below\u2026<\/p>\n Sorry. Got a little carried away there with my addiction to Mortal Kombat games. I\u2019ve been a Scorpion fan for years! I know it\u2019s wrong. I know those games are pretty violent. I say: f*ck it. Who\u2019s with me!?<\/p>\n But what I mean is that you should NOT text a girl the following if you don\u2019t want to do a fatality on attraction: if you don\u2019t want to KILL the attraction.<\/strong><\/p>\n 42. \u201cAre you a thief? Because you stole my heart!\u201d<\/p>\n Cheesy pick up lines don\u2019t work if you\u2019re dead serious when using them.<\/p>\n 43. \u201cDo you believe in love at first sight? OR should I walk by again?\u201d<\/p>\n This was an example just to stress the fact that NO, cheesy pick up lines don\u2019t work. Ever. Unless you make fun of them. Which is the pinnacle of awesomeness.<\/p>\n Please, please, pleeeease remember that cheesy pick up lines are NOT what to text a girl.<\/em><\/p>\n 44. \u201cI don\u2019t know if I\u2019m your type, but\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n Don\u2019t you EVER say this if you DON\u2019T want to be seen as an insecure wussbag with a capital S painted on it. That S stands for SUPER by the way. Super wuss.<\/p>\n 45. \u201cWould you like to go out with me some time?\u201d<\/p>\n Could you make it even more obvious that you\u2019re insecure about yourself and\/or her liking you? Man up for a change and don\u2019t ASK her to go out with you. Tell her you want to go out with her. Now that is what to text a girl to get her on a date with you.<\/p>\n 46. \u201cWhy aren\u2019t you responding to my text messages? Are you ignoring me?\u201d<\/p>\n Getting angry doesn\u2019t solve a damn thing. Getting angry only scares a girl away from you, even if she was attracted to you before. Anger stuff is not what to text a girl man. Definitely not.<\/p>\n Trust me, I\u2019m a hot tempered guy so I had to learn this the hard way.<\/p>\n 47. \u201cHi! This is me sending you my 27th text message today!\u201d<\/p>\n Don\u2019t come across like you have no life of your own AT ALL. That\u2019s a major turnoff. Have fun while you text a girl and with what to text a girl, but always leave her wanting more.<\/p>\n 48. \u201cHi! This is me responding to your text in less than 4 seconds!\u201d<\/p>\n Responding within a minute after getting a text from her says a lot about you. It could tell her you\u2019re really interested, but mostly? Mostly, it says that you were waiting for her to text you and that you have nothing better to do than just that: waiting for her.<\/p>\n That gives her one thing: a major desperation alert!<\/p>\n 49. \u201cHi, this is me responding to your message in a way that leaves nothing for you to say.\u201d<\/p>\n One of the most fatal yet common mistakes when it comes to what to text a girl, is to respond to questions she asks or to tell her stuff\u2026 and then leave nothing for her to say.<\/p>\n If you said everything there was to say, then why continue? So, if you want to get enough time to get a date with her, then ask questions and ask them often.<\/p>\n Keep her talking, so you give yourself a better chance of getting a date with her with one of the examples of what to text a girl to date her I just showed you!<\/p>\n 50. \u201cHi, I\u2019m a guy who gives up at the first attempt to get the girl!\u201d<\/p>\n Of course, several of these last few examples aren\u2019t things you\u2019ll text to girls. That doesn\u2019t mean I don\u2019t want to bring them up though, because here\u2019s the thing about giving up on what to text a girl and when:<\/p>\n Just because girls, and people in general, take their smartphone with them wherever they go doesn\u2019t mean they\u2019ll actually HEAR every text message they\u2019ll ever get.<\/p>\n Hell, I know I don\u2019t when I\u2019m driving with insanely loud music on, you know? Don\u2019t take it personal when you don\u2019t get a reply from her.<\/p>\n That\u2019s a long list with examples of what to text a girl, isn\u2019t it? Yet still, there are many more moments when you\u2019ll want to know something to freaking say. Moments like\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n Birthdays, shitty days, holidays, when she just broke up with her ex. You name it!<\/p>\n And I\u2019ll share many more examples of what to text a girl and why inside my Calling Women and Texting Women newsletter<\/a>. You should definitely check it out, if you know what\u2019s good for you.<\/p>\n I hope you liked these 50 examples of what to text a girl dude! Stay tuned to the Win With Women blog for more no-nonsense tips to improve your love life and social life with.<\/p>\n Check out the rest of the How To Text A Girl<\/a> series.<\/em><\/p>\n To More Dating Success,<\/p>\n Carlos Xuma <\/p>\nWhat To Text A Girl When You\u2019ve Just Met Her<\/h2>\n
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