{"id":55,"date":"2012-04-19T08:22:04","date_gmt":"2012-04-19T08:22:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/?p=55"},"modified":"2012-04-24T02:20:12","modified_gmt":"2012-04-24T02:20:12","slug":"get-a-girl-on-facebook-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/miscellaneous-dating-tips-for-guys\/get-a-girl-on-facebook-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Get A Girl On Facebook"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you really want to <strong><a title=\"get a girl on facebook\" href=\"..\/..\/dating-tips-for-guys-blog\/flirt-with-women\/get-a-girl-on-facebook\/\" target=\"_blank\">get a girl on Facebook<\/a><\/strong>, then the first step you need to take is cultivating yourself as a true Alpha Male.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that there aren\u2019t certain tips and techniques specifically geared toward stoking an online attraction, but first you should concentrate on developing and conquering the Three S\u2019s that make up a true Alpha Male: Self Confidence, Self-Discipline, and a Sense of Humor.<\/p>\n<p>Once you feel comfortable with achieving the Three S\u2019s, you\u2019re next step should be developing some supplement traits that will make your journey to meeting women \u2014 on Facebook or in person \u2014 that much easier.<\/p>\n<h2>Tips to Get A Girl On Facebook<\/h2>\n<p><strong>1. Cultivate a nonchalant, self-confident attitude.<\/strong> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-94\" title=\"Picture1\" src=\"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture1-300x269.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"269\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture1-300x269.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Picture1.jpg 303w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>If you want to be successful with women, your attitude is key. It is incredibly important. In essence, your attitude is your self-confidence and determines your success in everything else in life.<\/p>\n<p>This saying has helped me and it is worth believing and taking to heart: What happens to you isn\u2019t as important as what you do with it.<\/p>\n<p>In other words, it is how you react and comport yourself that matters because ultimately the only thing we can control is ourselves and our behavior.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Look at the world with the perspective that there is an overabundance of good things (especially women) instead of that there is not enough for everyone.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There is enough women, money, food, for you and other men.<\/p>\n<p>This means that the hot babe you asked out is not the only woman in the world for you. In fact, there might be someone who is even a better fit for you right around the corner.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t only get one chance to get busy in the bedroom with someone. There are limitless opportunities out there if you take your time.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t put all your hopes in one person or one date or one event. So, if that woman on Facebook, blows you off, remember there are hundreds of thousands of other women online and many of those will be equally as perfect for you, if not even better.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Act with integrity in all your interactions.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Our character is our essence. It is truly all we have. If you make sure that everything you do has integrity, it will help you be strong and have an attractive, confident identity and strong values. It will help you weather times of rejection, as well.<\/p>\n<p>I like to tell men that before they even jump into the dating pool, they make a list of their positive strengths and traits. In other words, what you have to offer a woman in the dating arena. For instance, you might say you are a hard worker, witty, snazzy dresser, loyal, and adventurous.<\/p>\n<p>Keep this list in your wallet and take it out every once in a while to remind yourself what you have to offer a woman. So when you are trying to <em><strong>get a girl on Facebook<\/strong><\/em> and she isn\u2019t responding the way you like, move on, remembering that you have a lot to offer any woman out there.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you really want to get a girl on Facebook, then the first step you need to take is cultivating yourself as a true Alpha Male. 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