{"id":556,"date":"2013-11-19T16:19:33","date_gmt":"2013-11-19T16:19:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/?p=556"},"modified":"2013-11-19T16:19:56","modified_gmt":"2013-11-19T16:19:56","slug":"confidence-part-7-impeccable","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/miscellaneous-dating-tips-for-guys\/confidence-part-7-impeccable\/","title":{"rendered":"Confidence: Part 7 &#8211; Impeccable"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Hey, it&#8217;s Carlos &#8211; I&#8217;ve got a guest article from my good buddy Spike today&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Read on&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong><em>Losers make promises they often break.\u00a0 Winners make commitments they always keep.<\/em>\u00a0 ~Denis Waitley\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">In life, we hold people accountable for the things they say and the things they do. So why do some people think love is any different? People say things like, <strong>\u201cAll\u2019s fair in love and war.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Having been betrayed by those closest to me, I can wholeheartedly call BS on that line of thinking. Vapid, mindless sentiments that give credence to terrible behaviors, undermine the very important idea of self responsibility, a concept that is perilously lacking from our society these days.<\/p>\n<p>You can stand out far and above people who hold these views; the wannabees who think they have to lie to a woman to get her to want them, to act like someone they are not. When all they have to do is be true to who they are, be strong in their convictions, and tell a woman the truth; whether it is that you want to be casual, want a threesome, or want the full romantic road to marriage package. It\u2019s not always easy, it takes will power and self confidence.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-tips-for-guys-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/images-14.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1158 aligncenter\" alt=\"images (14)\" src=\"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-tips-for-guys-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/images-14.jpeg\" width=\"235\" height=\"215\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>There are some <strong>PUA\u2019s<\/strong> out there who actually teach that it is easier to bed married women than single ones. I do not subscribe to their teachings. Though it may be true, it is not the right thing to do. It undermines the true purpose of what we are learning.<\/p>\n<p>And there are plenty of single women out there! Improving ourselves as men, making ourselves more desirable, and making women feel good is supposed to be our goal. What we do with our knowledge and power is what defines whether we are a strong solid <strong>MAN<\/strong> or a manipulative douchebag.<\/p>\n<p>I always found that women respected me when I was honest with them. I was clear on where I stood at any moment in our relationships. I never lied to gain favor, telling them what I assumed they wanted to hear. If we were not in a committed relationship;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-tips-for-guys-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Free-shipping-2013-Sexy-Woman-s-Bandage-One-Piece-Bikini-Black-Evening-font-b-Party-b.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-1159 aligncenter\" alt=\"Free-shipping-2013-Sexy-Woman-s-Bandage-One-Piece-Bikini-Black-Evening-font-b-Party-b\" src=\"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-tips-for-guys-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Free-shipping-2013-Sexy-Woman-s-Bandage-One-Piece-Bikini-Black-Evening-font-b-Party-b-240x300.jpg\" width=\"216\" height=\"270\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I was clear that I was seeing other people and they were free to do the same. If they did not want that, I was never upset with them or hurt. It was their life and their prerogative. I simply wished them all the best and moved on. I am still on friendly terms with most of them to this day. Because I was honest.<\/p>\n<p>Your word is your word. It defines who you are. It\u2019s your reputation. You should be protective of that. No woman can say that I lied to her. I didn\u2019t have to. Not to say that I haven\u2019t pissed a few off with my honesty, but that\u2019s life. I have never cheated on a woman and never will. You simply do not have to. You also do not have to get weak when a woman puts you on the spot and asks the common question,<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSo, where\u2019s this going?\u201d Just stick to what you want, and be honest. Don\u2019t be scared that you will lose her. Truth is, you probably will, at least eventually, if you are not in a place to commit. But that is no reason to lie to keep her around. It will only hurt her in the end, and that is not what a <strong>MAN<\/strong> does.<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Confidence: Part 7 \u2013 Impeccable\" href=\"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/miscellaneous-dating-tips-for-guys\/confidence-part-7-impeccable\/2\"><strong>Read the rest of the article HERE&#8230;<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p><!--nextpage--><\/p>\n<p>Part of being confident is having the courage to be honest with women, regardless of the outcome. As long as you are being true to who you are and what you want, they will respect you. Treat them with respect too. Be honest.<\/p>\n<p>Another benefit to being impeccable, is that women will trust you. And when a woman feels that trust, they are free to let themselves be open with you in many ways. Especially in the bedroom. When a woman trusts you, she is free to let herself go and be as expressive as she wants to be, knowing that you will be there supporting her.<\/p>\n<p>You have something that a lot of bad boys have: self-interest. This can be good or bad. In the bad boy case, they can be selfish, lying, and manipulative dicks. Yet women still feel that pull toward them because they are confident and strong.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-tips-for-guys-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/newest-sexy-women-small-dot-bikini-swimwear.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-1161 aligncenter\" alt=\"newest-sexy-women-small-dot-bikini-swimwear\" src=\"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-tips-for-guys-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/newest-sexy-women-small-dot-bikini-swimwear-203x300.jpg\" width=\"183\" height=\"270\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Unreliable and deceptive, yes, but they are also bold and exciting. However, this is only short-lived and ends in scorned, angry, and sometimes broken women that we have to deal with later. They are angry at all men because of a few asshats. So don\u2019t be one of those guys. Thanks.<\/p>\n<p>But in your case, you add honesty, so that there is no manipulation involved. There is self-interest, but it is healthy self-interest. You have made clear where you stand, set your boundaries, and stuck to your word. You are strong, confident, <strong>AND<\/strong> impeccable.<\/p>\n<p>Sexy indeed. So this allows the same open expressiveness, without the fear of false hope. I know there can be many arguments here on the varying degrees of what women will feel in these situations, but bottom line, which <strong>would you rather be, stud, or asshat?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Say what you mean and be clear on what you want from the very start. You will come across as an honorable <strong>MAN<\/strong> who knows who he is and knows how to treat a woman. And, sad to say, this is no longer the norm. You will stand out above your competition.<\/p>\n<p>This will not only help you in love, but it will help you in every aspect of your life. Be impeccable in your words and deeds and you will never have to worry about a lie you told, or having a crazy betrayed woman cutting off your manly bits and feeding them to a pit bull.<\/p>\n<p>Go On, Be Strong<\/p>\n<p><strong>Spike Spencer<\/strong>, the Dating Sage<br \/>\n<a href=\"www.DontKillYourDate.com\">www.DontKillYourDate.com<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey, it&#8217;s Carlos &#8211; I&#8217;ve got a guest article from my good buddy Spike today&#8230; Read on&#8230; Losers make promises they often break.\u00a0 Winners make commitments they always keep.\u00a0 ~Denis Waitley\u00a0 In life, we&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-556","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-miscellaneous-dating-tips-for-guys"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Confidence: Part 7 - Impeccable - Carlos Xuma&#039;s How To Attract Women Secrets<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/miscellaneous-dating-tips-for-guys\/confidence-part-7-impeccable\/\" \/>\n<link rel=\"next\" href=\"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/miscellaneous-dating-tips-for-guys\/confidence-part-7-impeccable\/2\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Confidence: Part 7 - Impeccable - Carlos Xuma&#039;s How To Attract Women Secrets\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Hey, it&#8217;s Carlos &#8211; 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